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Am I Wasting My Beauty And Youth?

i am young and beautiful but when it comes to dating mayb because of some failed relationships, i rather stay on my own. i remember even on valentine's day since i had broken up with my bf, i just decided to chill by myself. walking to the store, met some guys u know how theu toast now, telling me why a beautiful girl like me is not on a date? and i jokingly reply, i have one or just joke along.

now im thinking, i might be wasting my beauty and youth because i have not been dating for long, have the zeal and will but dont have d strength. shouldnt i enjoy all those things now b4 i start looking old? My last relationship really exhausted me.

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Lol! Y do i find dis ur post very amusin, d fact u can tell i want u online, lmao or mayb u're jst insecure Bottom who's still nt sure he's str8. In anycase stop wishin, if a gal cant lyk u wit all ur issues i hardly fink any dude will, and pls get a lyf and stop pullin all dis unknown fantasies of urs outta no wir . . . . .NONSENSE! gay my Bottom, rotflmao

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gay, stay away from me. Don't call my name ever again. If you get Hot consult your fellow gay.

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I sincerely hope dis nikky xter aint a dude and worse aint gaggi, u 2 seem 2 sound alot alyk

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U've been trying to tell us hw beatiful u are but thats not the issue here. i bliv even gals that are not so beatiful hav their mate out there, he might not b the hottest dude but he might b really caring.

Now what was i not saying , from d no. of ur admirers i think u def must hav the ones u also like. the signal u send determiines wether they are going to show serious commitment or jst leave u hanging on. dont b afraid to love "cos in the xperience of luv lays d ans to been human, lays sanity"

go out and mingle and show interest

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nikky, wht u need 2 just forget abt dating! like i did. i can imagine u thinking if i'm nuts or sumthg. i really meant that. wht u need do is jus -Get a life! i mean do all the things u wnt to do, hangout, meet new people, go see d movies and take up new hobbies. In short, start to LIVE again, then love and romance will find u. pls consider this,

im out

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If you ain't gon' put your heart into it don't waste time lying to some innocent serious-minded boy that you wanna have a serious relationship with him. What you can do is date, date, date and date. Go out, meet new people, enjoy the experiences, you don't have to be tied down to anyone. Have as much fun as you can doing that. You won't have to expend too much energy I'm sure. And when you do get tired of that lifestyle and decide it's time you want to settle down, find someone who you think you will be compatible with and go with the flow with him.

Bleh

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@hollandis why are u been so abusive? I do not even think u understand the post.

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Grl i advice u start dating becos women has their expiring date on like men.

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Nikky ur youth wouldn't be wasted if u'd use it to serve God sincerely. thats the only way to make every good thing about u shine and ur man will naturally come in good time.

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Nikki, where ve u been?Want2 talk2u.have some tym now.pls contact me(understand?).Miss d nice flow this post had b4, Short tempered men will not kill me oooo.Gaggi, is it?

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Sorry, girl. It's you who refused to believe it wasn't me. I tried to clear the air, yet u refused to see reasons. I became pissed and dissed you. I take that back. You're a sweet girl. Sorry that fool tried to work you up.

BTW how do u think it makes me feel, being the victim of impersonation? Half of NL abused me. It's sad.

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Let me take ur word for it but how can i be sweet when you called me a Fool?

This was a quote from you

@Nikky23

You're a fool if u can't differentiate gaggi and gaggi. Don't u know a dot makes all the difference?

BTW who the mess are you that i will take interest in and post ur pix, i ain't that petty. I saw ur silly topic that is why i decided to clear the air.

I repeat it is not me, i am gaggi and not the one with a dot.

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God knows this gaggi (the real one) thinks Nikky is sweet and cute. Too bad a cat jumped on my id.

All the best lady!!

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it all depends on u, if u feel u are in the right state of mind, then go ahead.

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@Nikky23

Loving Barts dad . . .Very nice. . .i could have recommended "stewie" from Family Guy

But that was a very low blow on "freddie" . .lol . . .a million dollars? ? ? . . .Stepping up his Swagger ? ? ? . . .roflmao . . .Galfriend, you crack me up.

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@Nikky23

Loving Barts dad . . .Very nice. . .i could have recommended "stewie" from Family Guy

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how many id will u create?

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LOL. . ,

You (Nikky23 & your Freddie crugger) are like the latest sensation on NL oh. . .Your Cat & Mouse race has been quite hillarious. . .its quite clear that "Freddie" obviously has a nasty crush on you AND he is convinced that he can NEVER be with you . .most prolly a "social strata" thing . .so. . .lol. . . .he has chosen to hound you instead.

Sorry if my laugther annoys you but, i find the whole episode. .really funny.

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roflma nairaland will not kill me

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Nikky Nkita ara, way u dey, ur toto dey hungry me oo, come fast fast before i change my mind. i don create page for u for facebook i will give u d name i use very soon and u will see my handwork.

all thanx to ur friend nesia who gave me d idea

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Listen babe, your pix is cute, don't remove it. I will never disrespect a girl in that manner. I only hope the mods ban that gaggi. id.

Learn to know the difference between the two. I ain't that riff raff.

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hey Nikki , ure really pretty,what tribe are u from if u dont mind?

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@cute remark gaggi but f"ck those gods don't need numbers actually got nothing against you just trying to drain my anger on the net.Trust me i over qualify if not why the hell would i be confident.But first what beef you got with nikky.She must have done stuff for you to go all the way.

Rule:know thy enemy do not offend the wrong person

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hahaha still want a piece of gaggi? well u never qualify, when u do i will diss u back.

but incase u dont know nikky av cutemike,nikky23luv and so many others defending her for her toto, so guy u came late but pick a number and stand in line it will reach u shaa.

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Hey gaggi Dam you've forgotten i'm omnipotent there's no where you go that i won't find you.Am sure still thinking bout entering university since you got free time to write poo.Got a job for you, r mom.Ha ha diss me back Dam.Nikky23 don't bother yourself on this prick i got this Dam on hook.

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@Gaggi The way you talk clearly indicates where you r from.So I would ignore you. Find ur class pls.Thanks

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u sound like someone u has his face between nikky's legs and his brains are in his anus. i can see that d smelly

odour coming from der have blinded ur reasoning

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@Gaggi . U ve displayed a lot of immaturity in less than an hour.A man should have self-respect even if he cant give others same.Nikky didnt offend no one she simply bared her mind on an issue bothering her.You can do same anytime n u sur wouldnt feel good if u get insults in return.Think about this and stand right.Even if you cant appologize, promise yourself a better life here and everewhere.Make sure you remove her picture or face the consequences.Its between you and your conscience.be good.be useful.be mature.be wise.be smart.be healthy.dont be mad.th list goes on n on.give yourself a break n re-evaluate your life n u.

This also goes out to all NLndrs, please lets respect one another.You never can tell.Even if you can, we all deserve some respect still.Thank you

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@cutemike and namesake, I'll add you in a little bit.

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U dont need to be nice to get her id. abi u no no d meaning of ASHAWO. she will give u d id she no get choice. afterall thats why she is here, to get customers. dont mind the picture she posted here is just her smokescreen for the real thing u will get. and i do respect people but not ashawo like nikky, i can smell her desperation from here.

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@Gaagi,are u on a wrong pill or something? Is this the best way to get a woman's attention? Let us learn to respect one another please! We are all faceless but mind the way you address people .

Nikky,don't mind the guy

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ABEG OO NL GUYS LINE UP OO, ASHAWO NIKKY DON OPEN MARKET,  P*SSY IS FREE BUT Naughty Person IS 2 NAIRA BECAUSE IS STILL A LITTLE TIGHT.

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lol, if u want to

@cutemike, sent u an offline so u could add it when u get it.

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Nikky my love,can we chat too?

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@cutemike, I just added u. B4 some people here called gaggi die or suffocate from jealousy

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First of all, if u r talking to me, pls speak english or u that dumb? it should be "ur already jealous of everybody not jealousy" mumu. secondly ok i'm desperate, jealous what next? I know u wish u were the one talking to me but like i said earlier, u r not my type. sorry.

impotent animal.

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Thanks love. I'm Igbo o.

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Thanks guys for your answers.

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My strategy has always been this. Focus on work or school or whatever you have going on. A hot guy will fall into your laps when you least expect. No need desperately seeking.

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This is getting serious!

I'm sure gaggi and nikky23 ones dated

*sits back, relaxes and watches the love tangle*

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Nikki, is it evry post you respond 2?Dont u ve d will 2ignore d ones dat restate a question u have answered b4?haba, I came back this evening.So how have you been?Tot about u n ur ''Energy issue'' alot in my trip.connect through michael.philips@rocketmail.com. pls indicate as soon as you take it down.be you, be strong, get energy, by4nw

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@Post u r a very beautiful girl. Don't mind what some others here are saying. You might not see it now but later on in the future, when u r older, you would one day sit and remember when u were younger and wish you had done a lot of things like dating, socialising. A heartbreak should ot hold you back from living ur life. D o not wait for too long, go dating so that you would not regret it in the future.

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What people call beauty; the outer glitz/glamour is nothing but a transient object, many girls have become so deluded by it that they thought it could guarantee them happiness; on the other hand many a men are enduring a lifetime of matrimonial regret simply because their main criteria for picking a life partner is the looks.

True beauty cannot be wasted, once you strip the outer cloak and get to the true virtues of a woman, then and only then can one truly find happiness and fulfilment in any relationship.

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@nikky

lets chat immediately on Y.M

just saw ur pic

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@nikky

how do u want me 2 know wen i cant see ya faze!

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