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Are Cheaters Made Or Born?

you hear people say once a cheat always a cheat. is that really true?

are cheaters born that way (naturally cunning folks) or previous experience made them that way.

as for me. . . . . . after what my first g.f did to me, cheating became a way of life.

come & talk your own.

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cheating is not in-born, its a character you build by yourself. its either you have"ojukokoro" or you have been used abd dumped, so you want to use and dump other people

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I was once a cheat but i know better now as;

1) it's emotional draining and i just don't see the point in emotional juggling.

2) it cost a whole lot of money dis days and f.ck me i def have better things to do with ma money

3) i just don't have the time

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Well, you are making a huge assumption there. I cannot say polygamists generally do not cheat, but i cannot also say that they generally cheat. In every work of life, there will be a few bad eggs, and this one is included. . . But on a very general scale, those that cheat will be considerably less than those who dont.

Even those who dont practice polygamy will have a few that cheat on their partners, so u need to look at the majority and not a minority when making general statements such as that one.

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I want to understand what u mean by FACT.

1.) Is it that most polygamists still leave their wives to cheat with other women outside wedlock or are u saying that

2.) Most polygamists cheat because they've married more than one wife.

What exactly are u saying?

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@lexi

we are not talking abt eradication neither the reason why the women choose to stay in such relationships. Fact still remain that most polygamist are bloody cheaters

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That is if you're assuming he married a 2nd wife cos he got her pregnant out of wedlock, but that is not always the case. Most cases of polygamy are actually done normally, without any urgency. And in the case of muslims, the 1st woman already knows she is likely not gonna be the only one.

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@topic

Made . . . simple.

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But they have loyalty to a number of women they've married and are looking after!!

Still, u cannot call that cheating. . .  All the wives [from the 2nd one up] must've known before agreeing to marry him, that he had a wife and that they were only gonna be a 2nd or 3rd or 4th wife anyway, so how do u justify that as cheating?

If they see it as cheating, why dont they break up and move on??

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some cheaters are born.

e.g wale.star's unquenchable thirst for pusssy makes him a natural cheater

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Hmmm, thats simple.

Accumulated Ranting: meaning they chose the same time to rant on NL - actually there was a minimum of 1.5yrs between the dating times but because one has come out to rant, others follow.

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whitelexi, i'm aware you are a confirmed cheater. so pls tell us

where you born that way or a crude Dam turned you like this

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