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Are Men More Faithful Than Women?

You may likely buy this too like I used to as well until I saw something someday!

Back in Abidjan, Ivory Coast, I’ve got a taxi driver friend who sometimes lends me his cab whenever I wish to get around town in search of story ideas.

One Saturday evening, as I cruised down the boulevard hunting for passengers, a young light-skinned lady in her late twenties hailed me. Standing to her right was her husband, I could guess from their intimate glances and the identical rings on their ring fingers. My guess was confirmed when he said:

“Driver, safely take my wife to the bus station. She’s travelling to the village, okay?”

“No problems sir, it’s my job,” I said and alighted to throw her luggage in the boot while they clung to each other kissing goodbye.

Halfway towards the bus station, my passenger surprisingly warned from behind, “Driver, please change your route, I’ve got somebody to check at Miezan Motel.”

I complied; after all I was just a taxi driver.

When we pulled up in the parking area of Mieza Motel, a tall, dark-skinned and brawny man in his early thirties emerged from the lobby and strode across to us, his face wearing a chirpy smile.

He walked round to my side and asked, “How much is the fare driver?”

I swallowed hard before I could answer. He paid me, unloaded the boot and opened for my passenger to step down.

As I reversed, I sighted them locked in each other’s arms kissing ravenously. A first-time kiss or a long-time one? I couldn’t guess!

Driving away, two ideas warred in my soul. The first wanted me going back to where I’d picked her and reporting to her husband. The other warned me not to put asunder what I didn’t put together. The former dominated.

As I swung my cab to a halt at the kerb where the original couple was standing, another taxi pulled up so closely in front, from which an olive-skinned and freshly looking teenage girl stepped out. She was wearing a kneel-length silk blouse, tight around her sultry shape. As she stood by the cab holding a tiny silver-plated purse that matched with her high-heeled sandals, I could smell her Intimate perfume from my end.

The husband to my earlier passenger burst out of the house and scurried to meet her. They hugged, kissed lightly before he proceeded to pay the taxi fare. He took the hand of his visitor, kissed her lips again and led her inside the house and closed the door.

All this while, I sat behind my steering wheel, watching and fidgeting. Coming to tell a man his wife was somewhere about to cheat him, he himself was about doing same. What a world!

I kicked and zoomed off shaking my head lamentably and trying to choose the right words with which to tell my friends how I witnessed firsthand a 1:1 draw in the game of infidelity.

And you, have you witnessed anything to add to mine? Kindly leave a comment.

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responses quite interesting but wait a minute; have you considered

that such behavior either from man or woman is sinful? Food 4 thot.

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Of course men are more unfaithful than women{not girlfriends}if you have doubts look back to your family and friends and try taking a census.but if you are talking of girlfriends,it could be a different ball game.

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From your story, how did you come to the question "Are men more faithful"? Both of them equally cheated.

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^This is rubbish. Absolute rubbish. Do women have the same sex drive as men? Are women the ones that patronise brothels? Who are those that sleep with female prostitutes? And how many male prostitutes do you know of?

You men better accept that women are more faithful than you and quit your griping.

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Both parties are the same as far as Nigeria is concern,from one angle married women are more faithfull than the men cos it  is against the tradition for a married women to cheat on their husband while they are still together as one but as for the men we look it as common things cos if such happened they blame the women be for attacking the man.

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there is no gainsaying, that women are more faithful than men.

but there are some tribes where the women flirt a lot, i don;t want to mention those tribes, but its true.

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@nayesterday no na2day

After what's happenin in Jos, I ain't gonna drag myself into a muslim/christain comment. The last thing I want is for you to reach heavenly feeling over my comment!!

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u are talking abt a christian point of view? so muslim women arent entitle to having a man all to their self? and why is ur mom who claims to be a christian marry a muslim? b4 u start preaching to us, start from ur home

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@na2morow

My dad is a Muslim, im a Christian  he can have as many wives, cos he's Holy Book says so! Im talkin from a Christian point of view!! Where it has to be one on one!!

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If only men knew the true meanin of[b] MONOGAMY![/b] women all over would be so happy!! Just like a shark can't help killin, a man can't help cheatin. They have [b]NO CONTROL [/b]over the beast between their legs!!

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well i think the issue with couple cited is a case of two incontented individuals who have no reference for each other and the sanctity of the institution called "marriage". afterall, what is there in the people they are having affairs with that they dont have in thier own or that they can not create in thier own relationship?

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Anyone who thinks that women are more faithful than men needs to have a rethink.Women are better in lying and covering their tracks while men do their thing for all to see.That's the difference.

You need to go to hotels and see how many married women get strafed there on a daily basis.Matter of fact, over half of the people who lodge in hotels are married (or at least one being married).How about the work place?Women are coerced into giving "favors" to their boss if they want to be promoted/move up the ladder.A lot of these women are married (some with kids).With the scarcity of jobs and economic hardship, how many women can resist the temptation and face sack letter? They do the deed, come home to their innocent husbands,smile and tell the greatest lie known to mankind. . .HONEY, I LOVE YOU! ! !

End of discussion.

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Even if you were the last guy on earth, I still would not submit to you. You are crude, insulting without reason and annoying.

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Thank you tpia, I don't know why naija men are trying to dispute this issue. A lot of Nigerian men cheat, end of story!

I can only pray that I don't marry a cheating man or else there will really be FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

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Women can never be more faithful than men. 95% if not more of married women and those yet to be married will cheat. Almost one-fourth of that will feel no remorse after doing it. A wise woman once said " the only thing wrong with the institution of marriage is that women aren't wired to keep it closed."

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Men can never be more faithful than women. 95% if not more of married men and those yet to be married will cheat. Almost one-fourth of that will feel no remorse  after doing it. A wise man once said " the only thing wrong with the institution of marriage is that men aren't wired to be monogamous".

Of course there are exceptions to this but how many of the women out there will end up with the rarest of breeds that fall into that 5% that will never cheat?? Odds are not looking good at all.

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That was quite a story. In my experience it's men who lack faithfulness. Often when women are unfaithful it's reactionary. When men do it, they do it out of greed.

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@poster. Yes.

Cheating men are never satisfied. They'll continue to yearn, and their appetite for sex will remain insatiable. Just like a a leaking bucket under a tap.

Just like our creator said, about dose who are immoral. He will give them over to their sinful desires. They'll drown in it.

So to cheating men, i say, revel in your adulterous liasons. ur heart will never be satisfied, ur longings will never cease, ur hunger and thirst can never be quenched, u'll never find contentment, women are ur weakness, and they'll have dominion over you.

'woman is really king'.

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^^ the other way round

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Dont make me laugh. Men are far more sexual than women. More easily excited, more easily attracted to the opposite sex, more easily seduced by them. So no way in hell for men to be more faithful than women.

@all the men encouraging cheating;

I hope that when you guys have daughters, their husbands would have the same mindset that you have.

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Women are more faithful than men

Men are natural born cheats.

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Women never get caught. Going to the market is a great alibi.

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before then,its the other way round

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Married women are more faithful than married men in my opinion but when it comes to before then - i don't know.

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Nornally guys are more infidel than girls. The number of married men who go out chasing young girls increases each day.

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