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Are Men Naturally Made To Stray?

why is it that it's difficult to find a man who's 95% faithful to his wife, no matter how much a man loves his wife, he finds it difficult to keep to her alone.Even Men of God have been found to be guilty of this 'forbidden fruit'

Is it a question of morality, or that Man possesses some Genes that make him helpless, or u believe that there are men who would not and have never strayed? Do u know anybody like that?

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^ no i am not. i am just saying just as it is a dog's nature to bark, so is it a man's to cheat. ring or no ring.

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Chei! We don suffer

So u r sayin men ar dogs

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Look people, stop blaming the MAN or WOMAN. It is a personal choice for each. After all if a man cheats is it not with a woman? And vice versa? This topic makes it appear as if only men stray or they should be excused for doing so. Nature actuallly made both man and woman the same in terms of sexual desires- like animals. BUT unlike animals we have the freewill to control ourselves. If one chooses not to then it is the individuals choice.

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@ Whitelexi,i really don't support your first post

I am not saying women don't cheat or something but i still can't see the sense in cheating because your wife doesn't satisfy you or something,it do happens,some women do chase their husband out but the point is lot of men are never contended with what they have and they end up pokenosing and searching for whats not lost,

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Women Stray More than men.

Men are outnumbered in the world, 7 women to 1 man,

It is impossible for every man to remain faithful, because if that was to happen, the number of lesbians in the world would increase,

Variety is the Spice of life,

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its amazing to see the rate at which fingers are pointing to the men as culprits of infidelity as if it originated from them, men stray and women also stray whether u are good at hiding it or not straying is straying, everybody has being tempted to stray at one time or the other especially when things are not moving as u would desire, i am also prone to stray, but the truth is the grass is never greener at the other side, every situation in life comes with its up and down, that is why self control is important, weathering every storm is vital and making ur relationship work should be everyones goal. but whether men are naturally made to stray is a lie from the pit of hell.

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Most men lack self control and blame it on biological grounds and on society,

thats nuisance, even those who say when a man cheats"something is lacking at home"

if something lacks as they say why not communicate with your spouse, straying

isnt solving a problem but rather piles the problems,

there is nothing like"naturally" made to stray, what rubbish?most men stray cause they lack self control

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Best thing I've heard all day. Wow!!!

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i guess its just natural greed plus the fact that they know they can get away with it, even r permitted to. even when they have a tite chick who's waitin on their every need. it just takes the Holy spirit for a man to be faithful

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yes i think there is a gen thats controls that fact.a male pal of mine once told me that a guy will give you 75% of his love the other 25% goes out one way or the other.for stuffs like 1 night stands,hot girl chasing him aka Kitty-Cat attack etc, this really changed my way of thinking so my solution to this whole thing is that i am cool with the 75% any decrease to 60% - 70% still hanging there.but try keeping him in check.less than that am off, this way i always know when 2 push off, and protect my heart, dont critise pls this system works 4 me, so i use it.

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Yes, and so are woman. But society has succeeded in strangling a woman's natural instinct.

Men on the other hnd are having the time of their lives.

That is not to say that 95% of women don't cheat on their partners, its just, they are a bit more clever about it.

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all that we are being accused of

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@ WHITELEXI! No whitelexi, I have never went through anything at all like this. I am also not taking it personal at all. What i am stating is what is in the BIBLE. God says you marry to death do part. He did not say cheat because you get bored or your wife did not fix your favorite meal. So i would appreciate you not turning my words around. I would also like to say this discussion was not about when who cheat it is about men, You said so yourself that men leave because of various women or cheat. But if women cheat what i stated regarding the bible also applies. Have a wonderful day Love!

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He will not look for it(woman) But sometimes it just comes your way.

You may say no to one woman or no the first time.

But how many times can a man say no when it comes his way.

Any way not every man is a "James Bond"

And not everyman has to fight Temtation every day.

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You couldnt have said it better!

But if a man is completely satisfied with his partner, a responsible man, do u think he'll still go ahead and do it especially when he knows exactly what is at stake? Thats where my worry stems from.

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Men stray because they take anything they can get.

At that point they do not use their brain. You put food for them and they eat there and then.

Women stray too but they plan it very well. That means they can wait a week or two to do it.

because they do not want to leave any trace behind them.

They smell their food before they eat it and find out more about it.That takes time.

But men just eat.

A woman will even go as far as taking a shower and inspecting her cloths and her odor.

Women are natural born detectives .And thats just it.

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gurl u sound like u been tro this before just wonderin

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@Whitelexi, I disagree very much so with a man that would say it is because of a woman that he cheats. I feel that it is horrible that a woman would lay up and have 4 and 5 children from some sorry  man and then they say they gon cheat because she was not good enough. What the real deal is that the woman was to good for him from the jump and he could not see it. The truth of it is, is this you can cheat get all the sex you want, they have many women that can do it in different positions, different ways the works. But when you decide to leave your home, with your[color=#990000][/color] family you will get your payback it aint even about karma it is about GOD!

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lack of somthing at home? u kiidin rite they go astray cos they are some wanna be players silly unsatisfied son-of a biitch

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men stray because of lack of something at home.

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natural u kiddin rite but when a woman does it she a hoe

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i rilly think so------it is natural

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in ma opinion, YESSS!!!

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i think so,and i know so and it seems they have been genetically mutilated to be randy, just like our fore fathers,init?

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no , they just love cheating

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Naturally, I wouldnt respond here but some people here have decided to make a comparison of men and dogs and that is distasteful to my person. I say, men who cheat do so cos their women have failed in their duties, otherwise they wont, when a man cheats, i'd expect him to do so with a woman and his wife ought to go all out to improve herself in other to win her man back. I have seen men who dread to go home after work, i have seen men who have had over 30yrs of hard work and achievements ruined by a woman. I really think women are in no position to blame a man that cheats anymore because it is a shameful thing to come out talking about how ur man left u, he left u cos u were not good enuff! Women do it everyday as well, so just move on and pretend like nothing happened

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Sorry i mispelled profit-meaning what will you gain.

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Hi, i love your topic and i was blown away to see a man bring this up. It is a great question that i've ask myself for years? A pastor just helped me with revelation of it last week. Everyone is tempted to do various things. Men do stray more often. They can be married to a beautiful woman but yet can't resist another. What keeps you rooted and grounded is being feeled with the "holy spirit'. I know you guys say well preachers cheat it is in the genes true all these things. But god gives us the weapons to fight temptation. A man has to choose to activate his holy spirt. "What does it prophet a man to gain the world but lose his soul"?

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Honestly, I really think so. Atleast from my own experience.

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Even dogs can say no at times

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Very good answer sis. They just dogs.

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Men are not naturally made to stray. Society has made it possible for them to stray.

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Women cheat almost as often as men when they have the opportunity. It's a question of opportunity.

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