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Are Men Simply Heartless Or Are Women Simply silly And Gullible?

A guy meets a lady - they both knew it is a fling - based on either the circumstances or based on how the relationship commenced - probably - the guy is even married - they started sleeping together - no protection - also - no commitment to marriage or a long term relationship from the guy - you both keep sleeping together - no protection - suddenly the lady gets pregnant - goes to the guy and the guy denies or even when he doesnt deny - cries wolf and blames the lady for getting pregnant - obviously he doesnt want a commitment talkless of a baby with you - woman. So man tells woman - go and abort - and when woman says no - man abandons her - abandons the pregnacy - ultimately - abandons the child - and the woman becomes forever bitter towards the man for impregnating her and abandoning her.

Now who is to balme - is it the man or the woman who opens her legs wide and up to the roof for a man who hasnt made any commitment to her - without any protection. Are men who does this simply hertless or are the women simply silly and gullible - because you know you will get pregnant without any protection.

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Women Should Dam Their Emotions In A Turpor And Act A Little Smarter. Unlike Men Who Can Sow Very Royal oats and get away with minimal repercussions a woman's indiscretion can only result in her having a SWELL time. SWELL in the belly that is!

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Men aren't heartless. They just know their roles in what ever situation that may come up. Can we really blame them for being selfish?

Women on the other hand like to think, things will always get better.

I'd say he is selfish, while she is disillusioned.

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dat's all I'm saying, both are in the wrong.

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In diz case, yeah d man iz heartless, silly. . . . . n d woman's rily silly!!

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It is what it is.

The man is simply being himself (A man). The woman is silly for not insisting on using a condom or not using contraceptives.

Atimes I even feel these pregnancies are premeditated by the woman.

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Thank you stillwater and riskie. I share the same opinion!

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Totally agree with Riskie. Some women never learn, even when they see it over and over again, sad really.

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just as you are barking like the Italian Dam that you are?

The african cow that strut into the ship heading for overseas and little did it know it would become corned beef.

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The woman is a slowpoke. Guys are dogs (no offense) so it's up to the woman to take care of herself and her body. If you are dumb enough to have unprotected sex with someone who is not commited to you then whatever happens thereafter is your problem. Women need to stop blaming men and take responsiblity for their actions. It's not like this is new in the world. Women should know the drill by now. Meet guy, throw caution to the wind, sleep with guy sans protection, get knocked up, have a pretty much messed up life. If you can't use your brain and use protection then[b] keep your legs closed[/b]. End of story.

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Stop barking like a dog and answer my questions.

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WELL DONT BLAME ANYONE THEN.AFTERALL YOU WERE NOT FORCED TO HAVE SEX. WHATS MY POINT?

MY POINT IS THAT I FEEL THE GIRLS/LADIES SHOULD BE CAREFULL COS THEYLL BEAR THE BRUNT AND THEY SHOULD BE SMARTER.

''A man that the gods have shown his enemy the enemy can no longer kill that man''. So our elders say.

And please im not silly.

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It takes two to make it happen.

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who says d girl is more silly, i think d guy is as silly as she, 4 exposing his wife n unborn children to d dangers of unprotected sex n distrupting d peace of his home.4 all we know d gir culd b a carrier of 1 of dem deadly std's. they both equally foolish.

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silly thing she did was not having sex without a condom but having sex with someone not her husband, QED

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A  married man that sleep with a woman is EVEN more silly. What if he told her he was single? He is the one in a committed relationship.

Pregnancy

Plus A failed Marriage.

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They are both to blame. Just plain silly on both their parts.

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Abeg, i am always for the course of the women, the woman is to be blamed, tthey should know better by now that u aint suppose to sleep with someone ure not married to, huh, WE Men will continue to be men except some of US, saved by grace.

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I dont think it is both of them - the man wants some enjoyment - got it but got it from a silly woman who doesnt think that the enjoyment can carry a scar for life - remember - men dont carry any scar as a result of sex - the woman carries it - so the woman should have been smarter.

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The both of them. Simple as that. They got what they deserved.

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@poster,i rily dnt knw,i gues its just one of life's big mysteries,like:why is d sky blue?why does d sun come up evriday? Why is richieblack such a jobless ?

LOL.mor seriously,i tink d woman is mor silly;she was silly enough 2 get involved wit a married man,she was silly enof 2 sleep wit him,she was silly enof 2 do so witout protection & get herself preg,so she's definitly at fault.

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if both of them are silly - it cant be with the same degree - one should still be wiser - and i think it is the lady - because she knows - if she gets pregnant - she will carry the pregnancy for 9 months - while the man goes about sleeping with other women - the woman should be less silly because she shld know that if she gets pregnant - she will forever cary the scare and the evidence in her life - so - me think the woman is more silly for allowing it.

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both of them are acting silly

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the woman is silly for open her leg without condom, and the guy is a fool for having sex without condom and for abandoning her,  the woman and the man is to blame.

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Never underestimate women. Even when they act 'silly in love', they know exactly what they're doing.

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