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Are Nigerian Men Color Struck?

i know this is a very sensitive topic. iam of mixed heritage, all the nigerian guys

i have dated so far like my skin type ( light skinned).some of the guys do not hide

the fact that the find me very attractive because of my skin tone. i have friends

that are dark skinned( very beautiful) girls, yet they all agree with me that most

nigerian guys are color struck. let me know if it is different in nigeria. this is for

the brothas.

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see your big head and your half past 4 eyes she tell u say she wan chat with you??Mumu like you fine boy no pimple but when he smiles he gets dimples

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hi, what exactly do u mean? Anyways i got this to tell u that we r wonderful people though some few folks has actaully given us a bad image but i can tell that we are most fun to be with in this world. Just incase you like to meet me u can come to yahoo mesenger (talk2iknick) so we can meet to talk more but for now take care.

Nick

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Well am a lightcolored girl and i like only darkskin guys.For me it's the contrast that i like the darker the better for me.So i think it's not only a mans thing.

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no, I just gave her the book as a starting point. It's not the base of my view.

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cool.

its not a lot of pages either. so it's a quick read

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Look at it this way at least we dark skin girls know our men are not dating us mainly because we are light skinned. Skin colour is over hyped.

Blacker the berry the sweeter the juice!

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thanks a lot wesleyan A. i like how you think. i will check out the book, i have not

read it.

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I dislike when people try to bury stuff because they don't find it comfortable to discuss/ deal with.

and i hate extreme PC attitude. yeah it's nice sometimes and all but it gives people the excuse to ignore stuff . .

That's why i like threads like this. some people hate them but they are the most educative. lol

@nikole, it's not a "nigerian guys" thing.It's more like a "black people" thing.

many guys are like that. many women are like that too

read "Bluest Eyes" by Toni Morrison if you didn't yet.

like some guy honestly said, we're too black and want to be whitened. (even though he might have said it sarcastically)

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Zulu, hmmmm, I dey follow you o! leave all these girls o! you already have two wives in different countires and e never do you? Trouble go dey o!

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Eurphoria don't have any of those, so that counts her out.

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Nobody is colour struck, we're only big Bottom and big bosoms struck.

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@Eurphoria, as ugly as nikole's point might seem, it's the reality. You're out of line to judge her intentions, because I didn't see that her post. Do majority Nigerians fall for light skin girls? Of course. That doesn't mean there are not many black beauty that Naija guys prefer over light skin girls. Any sincere Naija guy will tell you that half-castes are a hot commodity in Nigeria. There are not many half-castes in the population and they are born into rich homes on the average.

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you do not know me, why so much hostility?. i was just writing about the experiences

i had regarding the color issue. i do not have any sort of complex at all. iam very confident and beautiful woman.i thought this forum is for discusing life experiences, and getting to know other people. i do not have anything against anybody, no need to be harsh .

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ok i agree Blackmamaba

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sorry

back @topic

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euphoria, for the record iam not trying to sell my self. why do have to be so

judgemental. i asked for the brothas opinion. i do not need your insults. if you hate

threads like this one, why bother checking it out.

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Nothing dey happen , we are together

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not 4 me because i like them black and natural. my weakness- black colour with a reflective index and sparkling dentition.

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in fact , its too hot in here. Im out

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North London, chillin"

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Ooch!!! that's going to hurt, just some warm lotion and your soft hands will do

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@wale

where are you in by the way?

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rub ur balls for papa zulu? no probs, can i wear my metal mitts?

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I'm surprised you just finding out walelead. Eurphoria and I go way back.

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Hahaha I'll stop,did you have a good weekend ?

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I'll buy you for all the money in the world

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hmm here comes another one, i hate threads like this, trying to sell yourself ?

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Fair skin (like yours?) is so nice!!

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