Take it or leav it Viginity is not diginity it's simply lack of oppurtunity.
@poster: u shouldnt say that! cos in as much as they are fewer everyday there are still some out there who make up there mind on what they want to do with there life and keep to it. My sis married at the age of 27, a virgin. (I know cos her husband told my mama) but that does not mean she never had a friend or the opportunity as u put it. cos she spent so many years living alone in higher institution.
some folks don't wish to remain virgin, but still remain virgin for some just cause, but virgin or no virgin, i believe its all 'bout destiny, i remaining a Virgin doesn't mean am lack of opportunity, but i wanna alot ya' all know, there are lot of things u can do with a girl than sex, i love to go after my nature and i believe in the right girl for me,.
u know wat? some bitches gat me trusted, hey ain't know who they trust, so many players hate me, niggiz wanna sell like dog, saying they ready for a fool but i ain't t think they know me, check the brothel, niggiz and bitches coming and goin.
can a big boy like me go to the brothel and got the bitches staring and dumbing my Bottom?, when i gat my money to spend, nevertheless they know am not goddamn little dumb Bottom murtherf***** like that, u kow waht am saying. can't just give it out to the unworthy girl. there are enough bitches in my hands, bot old and young, but its ain't for them bitches. any virgin girl that feel she is right and worthy one to have the virgin mortherf***in poo should feel free to holla me through firstname.lastname@example.org.
It's been months and there are still virgin threads? (And in the wrong forum, no less.)
Honestly, as some have put it, virginity is way beyond the physical. It is a state of mind. At the same time, however, when making the connection between virginity and spirituality, and what constitutes as the loss of virginity, take the scripture for example: "All has fallen short of the glory of God." This passage means that EVERYONE has fallen or sinned somehow, and it is up to what you are doing about it now that you realize it. When talking of virginity, this expands to beyond the physical state of "virginity." Virginity can mean absolute purity, which I am quite positive that nobody in this board has attained, unless they were born again.
Getting back to the topic, sex can be defined as any activity that involves the exchange of intimate behavior between a couple, usually in a stimulating manner. It is also usually described as physical intimacy. Such activities can include any activity that is sexually stimulating, such as sexual intercourse, MouthAction, and even kissing. I guess the problem here is that people are trying to draw their own lines as to what is sex, assuming that simply no physical sex == virgin.
The term virgin is usually associated with purity, which includes physical, mental, and other states. When one part of the system is not pure, the entire system is impure = non virgin. For example, you may have never had sexual intercourse, but you have thought of what a girl looks like Unclad, or had a wet dream, or engaged in sexually stimulating activity (which includes such activities as heavy petting or tongue kissing). How can you consider yourself pure if you engage in activities that are impure, or considered impure outside of marriage? One surely isn't thinking about God while their tongue is down someone else's throat, or when staring at a woman's bosoms.
When you look at this whole virgin thing from that perspective, the word is truly meaningless, because, as virginity is an absolute term, nobody can achieve it. It is especially meaningless if the definition changes so rapidly that nobody can keep up, so why bring up a virginity thread every 40 seconds?
I've put some serious thought into this issue, and I have come to the conclusion that the term virgin is thrown around as a sort of social status, to show other people that you are somehow too good, or holier than them, which is basically a sin in itself and defeats the purpose of describing ones self as pure.
If you are are or choose to be celibate, do it! If someone has a problem with it, move on, it's that easy, but these threads need to stop it, because it's getting extremely played out.
I'm sorry if my argument seems all over the place. I'm sick and half-asleep.
ehen o, . . . , i knew if i didnt find the usual suspects here something was wrong(*toyinrayo,h202 treetop ibkaye et al), na wa for NL peeps. all of u gels shld jst wait i'll find out the state that was planning to give gifts to gels that were certified virgins and then y'all can all move there!