do virgins find true love this days? is any guy ready to get married to a virgin?
It's still rather a man's world. While it's a stigma for a woman to sleep around, it ain'the same for men. It all boils down to one's personality and belief. Truth is, while most of the 'break outs' claim satisfaction from pre or extra marital sex, truth is: some are just spending money they never earned! Guess you know what i mean. This is one reason why sexual infidelity remains a problem - the non virgin male/female lacks patience with their newbie spouse who's knew to the game. In search of satisfaction, the promiscuity emerges and they seek 'satisfaction' with an experienced 'partner'. A man's 'bullet' shouldn't be found on every spot too - that's also a public utility.
LOL. It is really funny to read all the non-virgin people (esp. girls) trying to console themselves for their lack of self control saying that "virginity is overrated". LWKMD
Everyone was born with the gift of virginity - Yes.
But it was a gift reserved for someone special, your spouse.
Some have squandered their gifts with every Tom, Emeka and Musa or Julie, Bola and Maria.
Some are still holding onto their gift with the bigger picture in mind, marriage (and you want to say there is no diginity in that?? really?)
Virginity in this day and age is not an easy thing to maintain.
PLEASE PEOPLE LET US STOP THE PRETENSE AND PRIDE.
later people will wonder why the world is full of single parent families, std's and high divorce rates
why do people always assume because you said it's no big deal not being a virgin until married they assume it translates to open your legs to the world at the age of 10. and why when you said such you didn't say "advice son to stick his d*&^ into anything at the age of 10" why did you only say something about females? so this virginity thing really only applies to females? bunch of hypocrites.
some foolish people sef, shior. *rolls eyes*
Some people r just being very unreasonable with this virgin issue , and to my greatest surprise it is coming from the ladies, No problem sha, when u 'ladies' get married advice ur daughters to start opening their legs at the age of 10 , afterrall there's no big deal being a virgin on your wedding night. NONSENSE.
is it a case of being a virgin to earn respect?? Then its meaningless that way
I think virginity should only be ones choice of self respect of one's body which has nothing to do with anybody.
maybe a practical way to curb epidemics and some chronic ailments that comes with abusing one's body before marriage
are you a virgin? please answer yes.
you're obviously slow. like i said before saying you want to do it with the right person doesn't mean waiting until your wedding/honeymoon night. "virgins get more love from their husband, virgins blah blah this, blah blah that, marrying a virgin means blah blah, her husband can boast about it, blah blah." loooool. what does it guarantee?what does the woman gain? nothing. or you just want to brag? or. . .you have a fetish for popping cherries?
4:00 hahaha honeric on his wedding night.
Awww, why the yelling now? what do i stand to gain? you still can't read abi? it seems you just love to ignore points right? so because i said i was not a saint, should that make me beat down the value of virginity? i can see that it's really eating you deep, anyways i think i have said enough already and since it's no big deal to you, i still wonder why you are yet to give it out freely to anyone that comes your way.
again, stick with your Nigerian mentality. all this "you might have lost it" doesn't mean anything.
she said what she said, and she is right.
WHAT DO YOU STAND TO GAIN? YOUR HUSBAND'S BRAGGING RIGHTS? so when you said you're not a saint either, what does that imply? don't tell me you have lost it and you're being a hypocrite here.
lol Nigerians. shm.
Looking at what you posted, one might think you lost yours as early as 8 and have been "doing'" it since then, so the word Virginity sounds alien to you. it's no stupidity to be proud about what men killed eachother for in the good old days, in some countries, it's a disgrace to have a daughter that's not a virgin, even in this modern times, Part of India still practice this and it also help in curbing immoralities if you don't know, reduces sexual diseases, promotes self control, so on and so forth.
Imagine a scenario where a community value and appreciate virgins, each parents would do everything in their power to make sure their kids are taught the advantages of staying a virgin and with this, the community wouldn't have much of sexual problems to tackle because kids would have been taught from birth why they should have self control and to respect their virginity and also of their neighbors.
anyways, i am not here to condemn those that already lost theirs (not a saint either) but i am here to encourage those who have not lost theirs to please go on with keeping it and to also make sure that they improve in their character as a person so as to be a complete package to their future wife/husband.
With the way you sound, i can clearly see where you are coming from even though i explained what you stand to gain being a virgin before getting married.
maybe when you come across the real mean who knows how to appreciate girls who kept their virginity (especially the pretty ones with manners), then you'd change your orientation.
you are on a totally different drift here.
i said staying a virgin until marriage doesn't guarantee anything and its over rated.
that doesn't mean i said you should go and have sex with anyone. it's called still having dignity.
i just think this "i must marry a virgin, my virgin wife blah blah" is overrated cause it doesn't guarantee anything.