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Are Virgins Still Respected?

do virgins find true love this days? is any guy ready to get married to a virgin?

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^^^^^^of course^^^^^^

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All virgins here u are invited to my INDEPENDENCE PARTY tomorrow@eagle square.Please wear bullet proof jackets and bomb dtetectors lol.

VIRGINS ARE THE REAL HEROES COS FOR THEM TO STAND UP IN THIS PRESENT WIDESPREAD MORAL PERMISSIVENESS,THEY NEED A STANDING OVATION!

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A virgin should be respected because GOD has ordained it to be so

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[b][/b] virgin ko, ifo ni, i dont like to date any virgine girl for no reason

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@ TKB, I'm cool. How are you doing?

All these virgin threads, I thought people will be tired of them by now.

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agree with the bolded.

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yes of cource if they are under age of 10. if greater don't expect.

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It's still rather a man's world. While it's a stigma for a woman to sleep around, it ain'the same for men. It all boils down to one's personality and belief. Truth is, while most of the 'break outs' claim satisfaction from pre or extra marital sex, truth is: some are just spending money they never earned! Guess you know what i mean. This is one reason why sexual infidelity remains a problem - the non virgin male/female lacks patience with their newbie spouse who's knew to the game. In search of satisfaction, the promiscuity emerges and they seek 'satisfaction' with an experienced 'partner'. A man's 'bullet' shouldn't be found on every spot too - that's also a public utility.

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I think someone is attracting too much attention here. Time I unsubscribed,

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why now? dem try now. can't you marry a virgin?

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@chinchin and her personal sentiments.

Pray tell me if you are also grossly offended by the inundation of sex-tales by non-virgins.

Think they should keep it to themselves too? And have you told them to?

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chinchin!

And redundance does not invalidate their existence. Simply skip them over.

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Respect for Virgins ko, respect for non-virgins ni, I mean who cares?

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its terrible cos your actually a child at that age!

but its associated with poverty and illiteracy to start indulgin in such at young aages

God knows the borough where im from the men are proffesional cherry poppers

bunch of perves!

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^Yes, it does happen in Nigeria. But not as prevalent as in the States. The non-virgins are the minorities so yea, you wouldn't be made fun of for being a virgin.

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yes i think they are still respected

even i respect them

it takes alot to keep it nowadays

shows control and self respect

were in the world but were not of the world

it dont matter what they say!

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i know but i couldn't believe they made it seem like it was a bad thing to still be one. or that i was a loser because i wasn't out sucking d*&%

lol

i was so lost.

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Disclaimer: I am not a saint. But I respect Virgins and dont understand why people want to run them down or spoil their shine. period.

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LOL. It is really funny to read all the non-virgin people (esp. girls) trying to console themselves for their lack of self control saying that "virginity is overrated". LWKMD

Everyone was born with the gift of virginity - Yes.

But it was a gift reserved for someone special, your spouse.

Some have squandered their gifts with every Tom, Emeka and Musa or Julie, Bola and Maria.

Some are still holding onto their gift with the bigger picture in mind, marriage (and you want to say there is no diginity in that?? really?)

Virginity in this day and age is not an easy thing to maintain.

PLEASE PEOPLE LET US STOP THE PRETENSE AND PRIDE.

later people will wonder why the world is full of single parent families, std's and high divorce rates

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Yup, the utmost respect.

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you didn't answer my question and/or statement.

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On no ground r we suppose to argue on such a topic.The BITTER truth is that remaining a virgin till ur wedding night is great irrespective of ur sex.If possible , be celebrated.

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looooooool

why do people always assume because you said it's no big deal not being a virgin until married they assume it translates to open your legs to the world at the age of 10. and why when you said such you didn't say "advice son to stick his d*&^ into anything at the age of 10" why did you only say something about females? so this virginity thing really only applies to females? bunch of hypocrites.

some foolish people sef, shior. *rolls eyes*

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Some people r just being very unreasonable with this virgin issue , and to my greatest surprise it is coming from the ladies, No problem sha, when u 'ladies' get married advice ur daughters to start opening their legs at the age of 10 , afterrall there's no big deal being a virgin on your wedding night. NONSENSE.

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is it a case of being a virgin to earn respect?? Then its meaningless that way

I think virginity should only be ones choice of self respect of one's body which has nothing to do with anybody.

maybe a practical way to curb epidemics and some chronic ailments that comes with abusing one's body before marriage

me thinx

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The poll says it all.

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virgins are not respected in the world today. people who are virgins are considered fools today .but gods word the bible franks at sex b4 marriage and dat must be respected. i submit that virgins are still and shld be respected

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are you a virgin? please answer yes.

you're obviously slow. like i said before saying you want to do it with the right person doesn't mean waiting until your wedding/honeymoon night. "virgins get more love from their husband, virgins blah blah this, blah blah that, marrying a virgin means blah blah, her husband can boast about it, blah blah." loooool. what does it guarantee?what does the woman gain? nothing. or you just want to brag? or. . .you have a fetish for popping cherries?

4:00 hahaha honeric on his wedding night.

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guy, u better go into hiding for now, the heat is just too much for now, the guys are all angry including you and i.

maybe 2 weeks after the nations cup, we can now continue with our home base coach theory.

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Some people sha.

to each his/her own.

Maybe you failed to see the word "might think" in my post.

haven't got the whole time to spend responding to your recycled post.

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Awww, why the yelling now? what do i stand to gain? you still can't read abi? it seems you just love to ignore points right? so because i said i was not a saint, should that make me beat down the value of virginity? i can see that it's really eating you deep, anyways i think i have said enough already and since it's no big deal to you, i still wonder why you are yet to give it out freely to anyone that comes your way.

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Much ado abt virginity sef, over flogged topic IMO

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again, stick with your Nigerian mentality. all this "you might have lost it" doesn't mean anything.

she said what she said, and she is right.

WHAT DO YOU STAND TO GAIN? YOUR HUSBAND'S BRAGGING RIGHTS? so when you said you're not a saint either, what does that imply? don't tell me you have lost it and you're being a hypocrite here.

lol Nigerians. shm.

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gosh this virginity thing is bcoming rather overbearing,

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Looking at what you posted, one might think you lost yours as early as 8 and have been "doing'" it since then, so the word Virginity sounds alien to you. it's no stupidity to be proud about what men killed eachother for in the good old days, in some countries, it's a disgrace to have a daughter that's not a virgin, even in this modern times, Part of India still practice this and it also help in curbing immoralities if you don't know, reduces sexual diseases, promotes self control, so on and so forth.

Imagine a scenario where a community value and appreciate virgins, each parents would do everything in their power to make sure their kids are taught the advantages of staying a virgin and with this, the community wouldn't have much of sexual problems to tackle because kids would have been taught from birth why they should have self control and to respect their virginity and also of their neighbors.

anyways, i am not here to condemn those that already lost theirs (not a saint either) but i am here to encourage those who have not lost theirs to please go on with keeping it and to also make sure that they improve in their character as a person so as to be a complete package to their future wife/husband.

Thank You.

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^^

cite example~

of sm1 running arund disvirgin girls around

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lolol, that's exactly what i said in my initial post.

they run around having "sex" and deflowering all these girls but at the end of the day they want a virgin for this and that.

nonsense.

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GBAM!!! my sister, i don tire sef.

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anyway, bottom line, i don't see it as a big deal and maybe others do.

alrighty then, toodles!

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With the way you sound, i can clearly see where you are coming from even though i explained what you stand to gain being a virgin before getting married.

maybe when you come across the real mean who knows how to appreciate girls who kept their virginity (especially the pretty ones with manners), then you'd change your orientation.

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you are on a totally different drift here.

i said staying a virgin until marriage doesn't guarantee anything and its over rated.

that doesn't mean i said you should go and have sex with anyone. it's called still having dignity.

i just think this "i must marry a virgin, my virgin wife blah blah" is overrated cause it doesn't guarantee anything.

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No matter how you try to make virginity look, it's still valuable to those who appreciates it.

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hmmmm, nevermind.

i forgot Nigerians obsess over virginity. so it may be true wherever you are.

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How is it not true? i am telling you this from my own experience and with the way i hear these men talk about their wives in public. (being a virgin when they married her).

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totally not true, maybe just for you. again virginity does really equal anything.

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It does not guarantee a successful marriage but it adds to the success, most men married to Virgins have more value/respect for their partners (see how most of them talk about it with their friends), which adds more trust to the union.

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It guarantee a succesful but nowadays, it is not important 2 men.

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Bless you

Does virginity guarantee a successful marriage? HELL NO!!!

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