i feel when it comes to romance both guys and girls are in the search for fairy-tales, which is probably as a result of too many unrealistic romance movies or mills&boons.
ever ask anyonewho he/she would like to spend the rest of their lives with, what the always discribe are physical qualities, tall, handsome, e.t.c nice Bottom, bosoms hips e.tc.
dont you think we become too vain and aiming for things that will fade with time while qualities that last like a beautiful spirit, kindness, sensibilty, love are are being forgotten? i fear for many of us cause many folks are empty( have not depth on issues) and we pursue shallow things that will cause problems later. when u get married it not how much of sex u know that would count but how u take care of the person u married, it not to be how beautiful u are cause the guy will see many others who are more beautiful, it not how cool u are as a guy, but your ability to lead your home.
marriages are breaking cause there is nothing inside them. sex isnt enough o, wake up