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Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men?

Are Women Intimidated By Attractive Men?

We all know that attractive women can scare off guys. You know, the whole rejection thing and all.

But are women like that with men they think are really cute? Do they think, "I can't talk to him. He'd never want me"?

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Women are more intimidated by wealthy men rather than attractive men! You need to notice how ladies get shocked when they discover your financial identity, u really need to experience it. to most, looks is nothing, especially in our nation!

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i remember my ist date,i met ha on social network,she jux cudn believe what she saw wen we met,evry now n then,she wud visit d restroom..i jux cudn help bt laff ma heart out......

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yes! and when you ignore them they try by heaven and earth to get ur attention

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@Winner, I'd be able to read your post again tomorrow if and only if you remove that picture. this beginning to look like an obsession.

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Depends on how you define "an attractive man". I suppose it is more than the look.

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of course. most of them are.

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True talk. all women are intimidated by attractive men expecially when research has shown that women are 90% sensitive to emotion and only 10% sensitive to reasoning. they are easily intimidated by what they see.

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wel i dont think so because of the fact that they are just too full of them selfs .they think they are the most appealing creature on earth that God will ever creat.

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No mind am , babes wey 2 dey form wen dey c fine boi.

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I'm not intimidated by anybody . . . Confidence is another word for sexy . . .

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i don lost d charm wwey u give me now. i beg help me send anoda one.

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Duh^duh because he would be just another face in the crowd that she could care less about.

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depends on what kind of hot boy it is though. if it's one she fancies then the girl will be shy (not necessarily intimidated) but if it's just any other hot boy then i don't think she'll be folding in a corner. lol

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Some 'em are.  Most of them would say they are not, but they definitely are.  I've heard plenty stories of girls folding in a corner when they see some hot boy looking at them, and when he finally musters up the courage to approach them to ask them out, they are caught by surprise.  The ripple effect of the shock and awe of the unexpected could even cause them to heavenly feeling on the spot sef.

Intimidated wouldn't exactly be the right word I would use for it thaw

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@ Na2day,

Don't go after kini? Either you go after them or they go to church because of you.

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OMO 4GET ABT WAT DA BIBLE TOLD U O, DIS IS REALITY LADIES ARE HIGHLY INTIMIDATED WEN THEY SEE HANDSOME LOOKING AND GEORGEOUS GUYS. I NO FIT LIE U O LADIES DEY TRIP 4 ME O WEN I DEY SCHOOL.

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what woman in her right mind does that, not me sha when i see an attractive man i start behaving like a kid in a candy store lol true story though

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it's all about confidence o. some very ugly babes come quite close to me, and sometimes i begin to wonder if these ladies get respect all. But at the end, u find out that it's cos of d kind of confidence they exude. whereas some averagely fine babes do shy away from me. so it's a thing of confidence.

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too cute guys(like me) find it hard to get ladies that trust us enough to believe we aint cheating, she is always like " i know ladies are running after u", blah blah blah, of course naw!, fine boy!, lol

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[[td]tr]It has a lot to do with physical approach. A man must approach in a way that lowers her defense. You cannot compare approach on cyber on one hand where we are just words of expression to one another with a physical approach on the other when the totality of the personality is under review.

If a man knows what strength work for him, then that strength is exactly what the woman senses and will try to block. . . so he should learn ways to out-maneuver and out-smart her defenses in a way that it does not raise flag for her.

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U av said it all.

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lol. just the response i was expecting. Chicken heads never disappoint.

I think like a child she says. ok. that's fine. So this man with the mind of a child is really wise.  only fools like you scorn wisdom.

You are a walking contradiction. You insult gays yet you are so madlessly attracted to that gay, micheal jackson who loved young butt holes too. lol. He transformed himself from a handsome black male to a white female that looks like a junkie. This is the freak of nature you are in love with. hahaha well of course the words that are coming out my mouth will be like gibberish unto thee. You are at a very low level of mental vibration. Those hair chemicals are dumbing you down.

Who said beauty paid the bills? and why is your whole existence dependent on paying bills?

Actually i apportion most blame to your parents, especially your mom. because modern mothers are experts at pimpology. They start programing their daughters at an early age. All the self-hate and materialism are internalized at puberty.

Brothas control your women and educate them on the ways of the most high.

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I can not be intimidated by an attractive man.

What if he's so attractive and for other qualities he's below average, and has no self confidence? Why should he's looks alone intimidate me for crying out loud, not possible.

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Pretences!!

All dis gals wey dey holla say they are nt intimidated, na dem no fit tok.

But com guyz Y is it that d galss are xpectin d guys to start talking to them.

they blive its d mans responsibility to stat talking to them so even if they are attracted to a man if he didnt talk to them they think its cos he is afraid of them or becos he is not confident

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SO once you meet a good Looking man before he converse with you,you ask for his statement of account or what ?? Cos am a little lost.

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@fayahsoul

I would take MJ over u anytime

u say ure older but u think like a child in highschool? does ur beauty pay my bills, does it have a brain for itself? Guys that focus on their handsomness instead of their success are gay.

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I think it's quite the opposite - men are intimated by attractive women, insecure men, that is.

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Babes r always pretending. Wouldnt mind, they will still pretend.

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I guess a lota women are but I'm SO NOT intimated or I won't be dating my very gorgeous and extremely handsome beau. Lol.

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@ platinumnk

Micheal wacko joke o is a homo. You are in love with a homo and that's partly the result of the chemicals you put in your hair. hahaha. . .that's right, i will not let it rest till something gives.

You are still a kid to me no matter what. And i could still smack sense into you in real life simply because i am your senior who is wiser. I have more existence in my being than you. Ya digg?

So listen up and good. . .A handsome man is all natural but beautiful woman artificialize their beauty. Their beauty is like second hand. I know u know wat i mean. So females envy that natural beauty of a truely handsome man.

I have strong black locks that looks well groomed and healthy. When i come through like a lion destined for zion but whom is stuck in babylon,(baby-london) these weave wearing perm loving females get all uneasy like they hating on the sight of beauty they have lost and can never recover. lol

Finally, all these chicken heads yapping about being intimidated by a man's wealth and not his natural qualities, are just total lost causes. Natural qualities like the content of character, dept of knowledge, beauty and so on are not determined by ones socio-economic status, . . .

A handsome man who can provide for himself(family) and is self sufficient and wise will always be respected. . .regardless.

I do get my fair share of respect or is it that i command it? well be it as it may.

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@webdezzi

spot on the operative word is "dream man"  A very confident and beautiful woman could find herself tongue tied when she meets the man of her dreams. It may not be because the man is handsome but the shock of meeting someone who ticks all the boxes - its just too good to be true its scary. If this happens before you learn to compose yourself,  girl you are in big trouble!!!!

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am with you on that note. . . lol

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There is no attraction in a man who cannot pay bills, take care of his responsibilities.

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i guess this threads for highschool

does it pay bills, buy a car or whatso ever?

pssh, . . . what benefits a cute poor man?

na money intimidate me lol

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Now what is ur obsession with iice?

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@eyonigger

on point bro.

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Yes I believe most  women bt not all feels intimidated by attractive men. However it depends on how really attractive the man would be, because there is no limit to seeing finer people. So if a lady is completely attractive, she can still be intimidated seeing a one of a kind attractive guy.

That be said, confidence also plays a big role on this issue, a guy could be so so so attractive, but when a lady senses his lack of confidence, then there are limitations to being intimidated. For example, my gf is a hotty, but she felt intimidated by my approach,although she is more attractive than I do, but my confidence won over her attention or else she would have hissed and walk past me.

@ some guys stating some gurls come up on here forming, na true, and the number 1 example is iice. She is the only one that is being falsely blunt about this issue, but I believe in real life, not just NL, she is the opposite.

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Believe a relationship with a more attractive person is a fertile ground for breeding a complex (inferiority).

the person will always take advantage of that. (to both sexes)

to avoid that, stick to someone within your beauty class.

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intimidation is the act of making someone feel lower than urself,

why should anyone in their right minds feel lower than anyone?

pshhh, na2day u get a huge eye roll from me eh

u no sabi

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It depends on the level of intimidation but yes i agree that some women even if confident can be intimidated by an attractive man.

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abi u no sabi?men u still dey ask?dey dia while we hansome guy collect all the girls.

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i once polled opinions of friends and though there were mixed responses, the bottomline was that the intimidation applies to both sexes.

even when all obstacles are surmounted and they give the relationsip a go, the attractive member of the union exploits his or her marketablility and it turn to a one sided relationship. painful.

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