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Are You A Go Getter?

Gone are the days when ladies wait for the man they have crush on to ask them out. It seems that many women these days do not follow the traditional way of waiting on the man.

Guys: Do you subscribe to this new line of action from women or are you more cormfortable when you are doing the chasing?

Ladies: 1)Will you risk it and wait for a man that you have a serious crush on to ask you out even though he's not getting your hint or will you bold up and ask him out?

2) What if you are dating a guy for some time and he's yet to pop the 'will you marry me' question, do you continue waiting or will you ask him to marry you with immidiate effect?

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OSANOBUA!!!!!

hotfunmi,why now?

abeg oyb is ahappily married man o

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You better close your mouth before i fart in your face again.

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didn't say 30 is the new 19?

and 50 is the new 25 for most ladies.

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You still live in the 80's. Women are no more scared of age 30; life begins for us at 40, so a 30 year old woman is still an infant and guys that knows their onions do not mind. I know you like orishirishi women sha, may God deliver you from them.

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hotfunmilayo,na you biko.

after you na queen Eliza

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is this a joke, who wants to marry a man hating feminazi.

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Don't you wish your girlfriend/wife was hot like me?

Don't you?

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you work in a market or are these the same guys everyday?

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Not true, some flow to the lake, others join the pacific ocean while there are those that flow to the dam and pit laterine.

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At the end all flows to one source

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Average of 5 guys per day.

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that's like trying to swim in molten lava. amy winehouse says no no no

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Yes. . . . it should be OYB . . . . . .I suppose

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Is anyone chasing u just yet?

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Eeeeeeeeewwwwww, that's what these losers are waiting for in Nigeria. Never! Guys, Chase us around or stay miserably single forever!

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he talks like chris okotie wt all dis grammar

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this is love,so strong

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sorry ibkaye

this is no more d generation when you use telegram to send messages to other continents, now we use small hand phones to do it, buckle up and propose to me, i am waiting

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yes,but thats is d language of d whites,not nigerians,no real men in naija

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What do you mean by get real? Should we lie to you? I've said my own if i ask a guy out just know there's some hidden agenda.

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neither has dis time changed the nigerian men,it only changed d white men

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u r here making all dis mouth ,im sure u r going to be d first to shower d girl wt praisies of insults once she comes asking u out

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Laydiesssssssssssssss Get real pulllllllllllleazeeeee

This is not 1600BC.

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i'm being real. Dont use the same brush to tar us all.

that one na small pikin moves. If a girl says she digs you, you shld be pleased.

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no it should be the other way round , it should be[b] infact more insults await the woman in future[/b]

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Get real pleeeeeeeeeeeez. Nigerian men will rubbish you if you make that move. Go getta!

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The topic is even clear, Go Getta, Go Get HER

A go get her can only be Male, except of cos You swing in That way

There you have it people, Guys go get Your Girls, dont make em wait!!!

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omo ibo,i know enuf to mk me a respectable lady in d sight of every gentle man who knows me.understood?

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If the girl pops the question there's no harm in that. She likes you and is bold enough to say so is not an excuse to treat her any differently. Infact, much respect for such a woman.

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Thats a very bold and good line tho. Have you used it before?

lol, don't tell men like OYb that because they may release in their pants before the date.

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ofcourse we talk about it,but we dont say to each other AH DAT GUY DAT ASKED ME OUT IS SO CHEAP no we dont ,cos its not a new thing if a guy ask's u out,but u men also discuss women,and if a girl that happens to ask one of u out is d subject of dat day,una go use cutlass and matchet ,matchet d babe for d discussion wt words like so dat babe open mouth ask me out na waoo wat is dis world turning into ,another will say Bleep the girl and throw her away since she no get shame and another will say WHY U NO SPIT FOR HER FACE AS SHE DEY ASK U OUT i could go on and on and on

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Yep

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If I should ask a guy out just know that I'm after something else, definitely not love.

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Abi o. But that's to the guy you like. People tell me that I flirt, I don't know how. Some people don't get it. Just because you're joking and laughing with a dude, it does not mean that you're flirting jare.

If I like this guy, man, I will get him. Unless he shows that he's not interested, until then!

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i wonder why una dey worry una selves with rejection. this is exactly what we go through. after uve turned us down then we face our friends who'll laugh and yab the life out of us. somehow, the news of our rejection tends to travel faster than the speed of light. thanks to ladies

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thats right dearie, for me,flirting is 100% allowed

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needlelady and jenny, ru ladies trying say u dont make us guys the subject of ur round table discussion? or when u have that 3-way telephone conversation ofr hours u dont talk about the guy or guys that may have asked u out?

common now, be real?

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@omo ibo

it is better to ask a white man for a relationship because i know they will not laf at u for asking,than asking u nigerian men wt una bad mouth,na this same mouth una go use yab d girl finish,all u nigerian men,its better i miss out from the potential loving dan enjoy it with one eyes opened one eyes closed ,or enjoy it with my heart in my hands,waiting for d guy to sing the national anthem to me, .you're d one that asked me out i did not ask u did i

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really, what do u know about being a lady?

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that thing you call pride is what makes the woman in us.when we ask u guys out ,you tell your friends we are cheap,when we say we can't do that you say we are proud.say what you like the truth remain that some of us who knows the rules of being a lady just can't.full stop.

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oga sam, thank u for detecting that thing. that ish go make these women miss out on potential loving and lovely relationship that they crave.

These naija women need to get with the time. keep playing sisi eko till flying boat fly pass u

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That means you still believe in the traditional roles. What if you date that guy for a long time and he's yet to pop the question, will you help him do it?

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Gbam *where is omo ibo*

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oyb is asleep right now

wait till he wakes up

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