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What % Of People Are In Relationshops And What % Are Not?

I ask this because on Valentine's day, a lot of my friends both male and female where without dates, me included.

Ironically all these people are really correct and cool, so i wonder who are those who have relationships. hope my question isn't corny?

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here is my take on why most girls end up without a date on valentines day or on any other day for that matter. i know a lot of guys who are serious about getting into a steady relationship but who cant find a girl to do that with. most girls want the guys who have hummer jeeps with a lot of money to throw around but who do not love them or who is not interested in anything serious and have about 30 other girlfriends. my point is that too many women will grow old as single and frustrated women becos they have big eye (unrealistic expectations). i'm not saying women should date anyone and everyone cos they want to have dates. i am saying they should get out of their fantasy world and wake up the reality of life. in the real world there are the good times and there are the not so good times. women should learn to start small and finish big not start big and finish at the bottom. another reason why lots of women end up without dates it the over shakara that they do. common, sometimes women just overdo it. well thats just my take and i might be wrong but well its really a matter of opinion here.

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For now, I don't have a date nor even a girl, Why? you may ask, Well, this babe tried using the word "love" to mean "money". She pretended to be in love with me, she was good at it, made me believe her. I thought I was "trapped" and fortunately, I got to know her misleading tricks with which you used in lurring men to herself through her friend, She's a student of LASU (like she said though never saw an I.D and she pretends to be some "AJEBUTA" pikin,

God Help Us, OO!!!

Michael B

www.hitsales.blog.co.uk

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I only remember relationship when something hungry me, to me relationships at mid 20s is bulshit, I mean there are a lot of things to do, how to make money, football, rap hiphops, Games, school. I believe girlfriends are distractions, any small thing you will feel unhappy, like when you see her with another guy, may be her brother or cousin you dont know; you will feel unhappy, all those things are rubbish. I only chop the available, any available I will chop but to start all these love thing, men that is bulshit.

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Wellllllllllllllllll I sort of, kind of , What happened is , Yes I'm in a relationship how committed I'am, not quite sure.

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Nope. given up on relationships. i'm persuaded that my prince charming is having a never ending party with santa claus.

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nope all no be d same,

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aight and for the records am not in ontario, am in the maritimes, lol

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& u r happy, aren't ya? Yes! Miss ontario, 2007, I'll catch you later cos I'm sleepy now,

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naaaa aint hypnotizin,

dis one am preachin for u as if i am in a relationship sef, lol

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hahahahaha, i hear u, mark my words wen u see her, you will remember wat i said, i have already foreseen how it will be

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ill giv u lots of reasons

all this your yarn about been happy single na because u aint seen that girl yet, 

d one that will be your second,

d one that when u down she liftin u up

d one that is not only domesticated but also a classic babe

d one that don't need your money but has enough game to upgrade ya,

hahahaha

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happy single in the afternoon,lonly single at night, hahahahaha

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Yes o, a very loving relationship.

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I won't even stay in d living room! & as 4 woman wahala, I don stay away ooo not because I can't handle it ooo! But because I'm happy as I dey! I don't want sweet trouble cos I no say na bitter trouble you mean!

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Haywhy, no be small thing o. Do u call that evil? i feel it's just a game, Like football , Home and Away

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Why must you pay evil with evil?

She left you 'cos of money, lol I'm laughing really hard

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Awon Alagbara (rich men) have collected my ex-gf with hard currency o, so i'm On My Own (OYO),

Get rich, Or die trying, when pepper rest, i'll be able to snatch someone's gf too.

That is the game.

FILÈ, (that is the koko)

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Duh, relationship, I can't be just bothered!

I'm single & cool with it, I aint lonely, my mind is at peace, I'm free, I do what I like when I like & how I like. Above all, I'm happy! What else am I looking for other than trouble?

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I am not in anyone yet,

Still looking for my bride,

God's time is the best,

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Relarionships hmm! I laugh cos most people (i wish i could generalize) are into conditional relationships. I'm with him / her because he/she is blah blah. What if he/she wasn't blah blah will you date him/her. I'm single and loving it. But i do get my 'groove on', and lotsovit! I have loved a before and nearly lost me life in the process.How far can you go for lover?

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Naaah! i was in one for 2 yrs but she left me for another guy who she felt was richer, cos i was broke

When i got back in form making big money from a new good job, she tried to come back.

Wev'e dated from time to time but i cant ever give back my heart 2 her again, and she knows it

So im playing d feild till i find my angel, i know shes out there somewhere.

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nope, not really, am single right now, but am thinking of settling down.

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Am happily in a relationship

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you should examine your life and the kind of people around you

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I e-mailed my bf telling him that if he doesn't shape up, I'll leave him. I think it scared him because he wrote back saying sorry blah blah and that he'll promise to change blah blah. Girl, I'm not the one to play with in a relationship.

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Hello the ho World i need a serious relationship am early 20 and still don't have one , anyway i break up with her one year ago and trying all my best to get a serious one if you are there please email me @ Emmanuel_koya@yahoo.com the best way to get intouch with me if you online girl.

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Hello, am sorry to jump in to the discuss anyway am not in a relationship and am trying all my best to have a serious one , am 20 ig you care to be please do email me , emmanuel_koya@yahoo.com, am tired of be alone,

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In mizkay's term, i am in a good and long relationship

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if relationships mean being with oneself then yes, i am in a relationship with myself

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I had a girlfriend over 2 years back, been single ever since! lol!

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i have a passion for computers and stuff. so basically when i say fun. i dont mean sexually. there is more to fun than sex. i aint even a club kindda guy maybe cuzz i havent made real friends yet since i havent been here for so long. if it was back home. i clubbed every weekend.

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i wuz in a relationship a month ago, it lasted 10 monthz. nd it ended basically because he wuz feelin more 4 me than i did him*he has a tattoo of ma name on his chest*i think part of it was prolly because im too young. i kind@ felt like i owed it 2 him 2 stay because he went through pain 2 get ma name on hiz chest. nd it almost felt like we were married. i mean i loved him nd all*nd i still do*buh im jus not ready 4 that kind of a commitment. bottom line iz, frum what ive learnt, realationships are wayy too complicated

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@retro

why are you freaked out cause i'm 19 or cause i've never been in a relationship.

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I'm in a relationship. We broke up 2 days ago and came back together today. Woooot!!

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and why musnt you be in one

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Why must you be in a relationship?

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It think the reason why most people are without partners is that we are attracted to "what we want and not necessarily what we need".Does that make any sense? Chicks are like - we want them fly boys and things(but most fly boys aint serious and they've gotta a lot of chicks following them at every turn),basicially we need a guy whose sensitive and loving- whether fly or not.

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SOME relationships lead to marriage

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seun, it's relationships that lead to marriage

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Well I don't take "relationships" seriously - except marriage. I can ask any girl out as long as she's not married. This makes sense since so many people are claiming to be in relationships whereas only very few of such "relatioships" are capable of lasting long. This is a bit offtopic but I just felt I should mention it here. Cheers!

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personally i am not in a relationship

i wouldnt say i know why, but then thatz just the way it is

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Sounds like a lot of people are not in a relationship.When my friends n I each spent our Val at home sleeping,i thought we were the only ones and everyone was some where having fun.I took a break off relationships and i have always felt i was single and happy,but now i'm not so sure of that.

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nope. I 'm taking my time. y'know it demands more patience to seperate the best from the rest.

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Well i like what teju said now,  it very rare to be alone but to me i was alone sha on valentine's day even with friends who got their loves right beside them,  when we talk about relationship, relationship is not a mere thing where by you see someone is dating and u will want to date too Relationship as gone far more than that. why see some of them is because maybe they had misunderstanding with themselves and some had broke up from relationship

Anyway what i do feel is Don't date because your friend is dating, or  you want to get a boyfriend/girlfriend because my friends got same people want to be love but there is a scarifice to pay

Well i'm ready to pay that scarifice if i see some who is really serious for relationship

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