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Are You Really Single?

Why should you say you are single when you are in a relationship?

You may not be married, but that does not mean you are single.

How can a woman who is not married, but has been cohabitating with a man who is the father of her four children still claim to be single?

Oh, she is the celebrated single mom with the single dad of her kids?

You can only claim to be single if you are not attached or engaged to any man or woman.

It would be misleading to claim to be single when you have a regular mate in your life.

Hello!

You are not single, because you are hooked!

Try dating a single man who has a girfriend and see how she would react!

I have seen a jealous girlfriend beat up another girl who wanted to snatch her man.

She almost stripped the boyfriend snatcher Unclad on the street!

It would be better and safer to use the term "unmarried" or "yet to marry" and not claiming to be single.

"Are you married?"

"No."

"So, you are still single?"

"No."

"You are not married and you are not still single, then what is your status?"

"I have a regular date."

"Oh, I see."

She swallowed a lump of saliva and hung her head.

It was better and safer to tell her the truth.

To let her know that I was already hooked.

I have seen sexual harassment online and offline once you label or tag yourself "SINGLE".

Many "wannabes" rush to lure or talk you into a relationship.

It would be better to let them know the truth.

I am not single, I have a man!

Or I am not single, I have a woman.

Give me a break!

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Just enjoying myself with whoeva feels like been with me at any point in time 't' till such a time I choose to change the equation.

Having a boyfriend is a plus; don't have to bother myself with any1 been attached.

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yes oooo,they want u to keep saying u r not single,even though u r dying in d relationship

i pity for those un married sisters out there claiming not to be single,cos they have partners,they will stay there and grow old

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What if you are in a dead end relationship? You should still say you're hooked up and spoil potentials?

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no be fight jare my brother,i just no dey like am wen person give her own opinion another person wey i no know where she evaporate from go come dey call am bullshit,i wonder if we aint entitled to our opinions anymore

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as long as u both are not married,u remain single

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Opposite of single is married

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@Lady J

suffree ooooo na fight,

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@ ibkaye

sorry am @ work,  net access  was off,en wetin u talk sey may we begin yan, 07025016495

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thank u.d last time i checked,dis is a forum and we r all entitled to our opinions ,arent we?

u can as well go ahead and tell every guy dat stops u on d way dat u r not single,keep chasing them away until u chase mr right

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as long as u are not married, u are single.

am i single? yes i am(with or without a girlfriend).

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as long as u r not married,u r still single

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If you are not married does not mean you are single.

You could be engaged!

In Igbo and Yoruba culture, we do not regard unmarried lovers as single.

We call girfriends as "wives" of their boyfriends.

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am aight. work is ok. how u dey?

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@Topic if you are not married you are single if you are single you are not married simple there is no confussion there

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i am interested as well IBK.

your stock value just dey rise oh with all 'em dudes running after ya on NL

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@IBKAYE

IF YOU are single & im single we two can start a race, abi wetin u think

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PUBLIC NOTICE:

I HAVE A "WIFEY"!

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I am taken o . . . by the richest guy in the whole wide world!!

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Oh smart one im sure you'll come up with a solution to that. Im in a relationship right now I ain't married to the guy, we don't live together, I guess that makes me a single lady. Over here if a couple are cohabitin they are referred to as common law wife/husband.

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@poster i have a gf,but not married. am i single?

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i can boldly say that im single

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