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At What Stage Does The Hard-to-Get Game Become Ridiculous?

it seems some men believe that when a woman starts pouring hot water on them, that is when they need to quit - i believe quit from the second trial - leave with your ego and your pride intact - for every 'no' there must be a corresponding 'yes' - abi wetin you talk? 

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@smooooth, i find ur own version of boy vs girl more interesting than that of ebonyeyes but on a serious note i think the problem is that some men just dont know their level, who no like better thing, if a nice looking, sophisticated and well to do guy wants to get to know me, if am not in a relationship, i might consider him, maybe not say yes immediately but at least consider him, so its okay if he tries again, but if a man who needs to be focusing on his life and acheiving some level of success decides that it is me he wants to chase all over town, then obviously that kind of man will never get that no is no until maybe one pours hot water on his head.

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Forget the chase after the first rejection.

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girl- will u stop followling me around town, i hate it when guys follow me around on th street

boy- welll then, why dnt we settle in that cool spot, i promise it wont take a min

girl-well fine, if that will get u off my bac

boy- cool, just talk

30miss later,

they make their way to a hotel close by.

so u see, sometimes no can mean yes!

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Well, I have seen a few situations where the lady said no for months and now they are married.

So there is no hard and fast rule to this.

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i think a lot of guys cannot detect when a 'no' is 'no' and when a 'no' is 'yes'

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sometimes it pays off.

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You guys shd learn how to differentiat between a No, Never, Maybe and hard-to-get! Then maybe you'll be able to tell when to let go.

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