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Beauty Or Character, Which One Would You Go For?

You are single and working in a company that does not give you much time for personal things. There are two ladies that are showing interest in you. Based on your interaction with them, you discovered one is well behaved, respectful but ugly. Beauty, they say, is in the eyes of the beholder, dont forget. The other girl is exactly opposite the first girl and is beautiful. Which one would you go for since you don't have any other opportunity to explore the world except these two ladies. WHICH ONE WOULD YOU GO FOR?

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Your character is nice but you're ugly, some painful words to hear. I'll say they go hand in hand.

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A beautiful woman without scruples is like an apple full of worms, a feast for the birds.

What is the worth of beauty without dignity and integrity?

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for me go for the character first because beauty is not every thing.

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I will only notice your good character when your beauty has attracted me; if you are not beaytiful, you can never attract me. Am so sorry.

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Always try and be friends first is my advice, then their guards are off than if you already show interest in them or are dating them. This has a higher success rate, though some people are just generally fakes until you start dating them.

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I will take the beauty queen and flog the ugly character out of her

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The only way I can know her character is through her beauty,

She attracts me, then evryotha thing follows.

Character is secondary.

N:B

If I stay wiff her and discover I am feeling her xter, I will opt out, and keep searching for d beautiful girls wiff character.

THINK ABOUT YOUR KIDS!

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i will go the character before talking about beauty. All that glitters is not gold

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to live a long healthy life, then go for character,it stands the test of time and is undaunted while beauty is like a flower that fades in due time. but then there is so much beauty in the worst  of us as there is so much  ugliness in the best of us.

but then the best person to answer this question is you, once you know what you want in marriage,then you will know which one to go for. i have a friend that got married to a girl that doesn't cook,it didint bother him during courtship because he likes to cook, and eat outside, and its working for them.

so ask your self what u can do without in marrige, beauty or charater?

remeber king solomon said, beauty is vain, but a virtous woman who can find?

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Character, beauty all is vanity, am 19 what do u aspect huh?

Just Catching my  fun for now

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4 someone like me, I'll search for Both.

but I'll be carefull before i take decision coz beauty sometimes could be deceptive.

character is not a day thing, it's years not even months.

We all can testify that rome isn't built in just a DAY.

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the bad news is that while we can easily see beauty at first sight, character is experienced with time.

I believe we as humans are left with no choice but to go for beauty first. that is why there is so much dissapointments and heart break in this world.

Now, for all ye folks who say they would go for character, can you tell me how you choose your patner? i will really like to know because i and my friends always go for beauty hoping that the character will also be beautiful, but end up dissappointed.

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I'll go for CHARACTER but with minimal beauty!

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wat if d ugly girl is pretending,and d beautiful one is jst herself.if u marry d ugly one and found she is a pretender you will be loosin in both ends.i will advise u talk d creator(God) about this before makin ur choice.good luck brother.

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for a neutral answer i will say both,

but for an honest answer i mean for the real nature of a man now and tomorrow and next, u know the character is the KOKO

guy go for the girl with character and you would have realised she is really beautiful

luck man physical beauty is just extra and is only for the eyes not for the heart. you can ask yourself where u want to live inside or outside and then equate it with character or beauty.

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Character is the key bro.

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Beauty first but without character i will leave.

Infact she has to have the two

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The first reaction will be to say character. Of course beauty fades, but you also need to find your partner attractive or else it's only a matter of time before you start to make excuses for being with them; even when the character is fantastic. No matter how beautiful a woman is, there is always some guy out there who is tired of her poo, so don't put anyone on a pedestals here. No offence intended to the beautiful people on here.

The question is do you find the "not so beautiful" woman attractive? Other people might see ugly and you see beautiful. If that is the case then go on soun and don't care what people say. If not don't waste both your time and hers.

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That's because men are generally not so attractive; for men it's 99% dressing and 1% closeness of shave

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If your character does not trip me, i have no time be you fine or not! - Don't bloody care

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some guys prefer beauty to character. o ga o

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I'll go for character, but the chick has to be reasonably preety to attract , then i can start looking at the character.

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Beauty is trouble maker, no production too many cost

Character is production passive and peacefull

but it depends on the hand tha hold it

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Character is priceless, good word.

Both can come in one package, beauty and character and thats what i opt for any day

Ugly, how ugly if we are to quantify? Be an epe and have the most impeccable xchter in the while whole world, am not impress and will not be.

Haven't dated an ugly person and don't kwn what it's like

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don't forget guys that beauty can fade in no time

but money and good caring can turn an ugly girl to a pretty girl.

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@poster, i personally asked this question in 2006

here is the link, http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-22161.0.html

i decided to go for the beautiful one i dont trust and

here is what happened. http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-122205.0.html

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Please a combination of both! A healthy balance.

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omo the 2 go hand in hand,

1st I go for beauty, then character follows,

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The truth is dat I cnt marry an ugly girl, irrespective of what her character is like,

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gal, my heart always skip several beats when i remember dat. . .sometimes i dont really feel like it, but i love kids

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One night stand: Beauty

Wife and husband: character

A beautiful girl will fade away as she gros older when the bosoms start sagging and all,Money can make an ugly girl less ugly but a girl with good character is priceless and that is one of the few things money cannot buy,

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i've come to realise that d only place beauty resides is in the character

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Without side-stepping the question:

Character. It's one thing that generally remains constant.

Beauty doesn't.

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See also

Ugly intelligent girl or Beautiful dull girl

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3423.0.html

Beautiful and Ugly Gf

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-22161.0.html

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