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Being Big, Is It A Crime?

I really want to understand if it is a crime to be big. I can't classify myself to be big but pple says am big since i got heavy bones, even if friends are complaining that i look so lean, i still weigh at least 80kg.

I have embarked on serious excercises that nearly put an end to life for me, but still pple beleive am big as i am and to be attractive to men of nowaday u got to be lepa.

Pls what do i do friends?

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My dear if you are fat, what will I now tell myself? When I was back home compared to now I was like gbonga!! But people were still calling me fattibombo then! Quite frankly even if I lose an obscene amount of weight I never want to be where I back then because I seriously lacked self esteem and HATED the way I looked. Honey do you. Carry yourself gracefully, continue being a beautiful black queen, keep your eyes open for when that special person comes and you have no qualms. The way I see it being on the plumper side means we get the added advantage of weeding out the guys just in it for the kpanshing activity and keep the ones who truly are interested in what you have in your heart and in your head. If being plumper helps me separate the weeds from the flowers the better for me.

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abey that is not a big deal, l love big and fat girl and i think some people do as well

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@ Aduks

Baby, don't take this personal, leave him okay? he as well bullshit me, silence is the best answer for a fool.

@ swiftycool

Why are u being nasty? you don't need all these nonsense, a real man don't act the way you have done.

As for me, i don't need to drag anything with u, i got some cool nice guys am chilling out with, say whatever u like i don't give a damm.

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@ swiftycool

U got a big problem, a very big one indeed. U are to read through your posting again and figure out exacly what u meant by trying to get peoples' attention. Meanwhile, i don't need fool's attention like u, that is why u should read thru again and again,to know how u sounded. I threw a topic to the public and was well handled by the wise people of nairaland, av said it b4 and still advising u to go and jump in to Ogunpa river if the picture u saw was ur problem. slowpoke

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@ Aduks

Well if truely the picture in GNL's, or is it SNL's profile is yours, then u guys need to teach me how that works. And besides those bosoms are surely bogus to me, it cant even convince the dumbest. Well i think you just jumped into answering a question that was not directed to u. Any way it happens a lot thats what we use during aptitude tests to cut off a number of not-too-brights. let me give u a hint, READ AGAIN or get an INTERPRETER.

Besides i'd love to visit that river, ogu, ,  whatever,  is it in your village? and take a dive will u come along?

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@swiftycool

What exactly is the meaning of this? why not create ur thread for people to read instead of punishing ur finger in typing here? If u chose to contribute why not read thru wise posting before u jump in to what u don't know. For ur information the pics in there is me, okay? if u r not happy with it go and jump in to Ogunpa river.

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Baby, who told u that u r not cute as u are? pls u r perfectly ok the way u r, but as for me i will like to throw the question to the public cos i dont know what i can do to reduce my bosoms, my tommy is as flat as a day old baby's tummy, but my bosoms is hell. pls what can i do? i have engaged in series of excercises coupled with herbal medicine but to no avail pls help me out, i was not like this when i was younger.

Andrea.

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People will always have something to say.

Start liking yourself - i was like that too, two years ago, i was slimmer than i am now. I tried everything but the weight just wasnt shifting.

I just decide to wear clothes my size, be happy in maself, wear very firm underwear that hold everything in place - you know the sort.

And just be generally happy with yourself cause if you are not people will sense that and try to put you down.

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OK now HOLD UP

I think its high time we move away from this Thread

Cos all i see is some Insecure, attention seeking tight Bottom chicks

@ GNL

c'mon girl that aint u, i bet u r not even that cute and besides there are softwares that can give a better

more convincing picture of the woman u chose

@Aduks

Ok, Ok, You are fine, fine picture, we've noticed you

you are not Bad lookin, now lets do something interesting

@ Topic

If there are any real orobo chicks out there , lets share your problems

and not all these notice me lying @#$%#@@!!!

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It's not a crime, the problem is societal norms. If you can overcome this, you are cool.

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If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then, it must be a duck,

Fat is unhealthy, and that's a fact,

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OROBO KIBO, U RE ONLY WANTING ATTENTION. IF THAT IS TRULY UR PIC ON UR PROFILE.

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You're beautiful enough not to have to worry about anything. Feel free to focus on more important matters.

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i like dem BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG,the bigger,the tighter,the tighter the better,the better the sweeter,the sweeter will make us to go for more.I like dem BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG.

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Thank u all, love ur contributions. My recent pics is on my profile now, am not really concerned but i hate being called OROBO.

thanks to u all

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Thanks Hector, but i have grown a little bit fatter than the pics its just that the only pic i have on my system. U all are great thanks for ur words i wont relent, its just that i want to hear the wise men & women's view.

Thanks all

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Who said u have to be Lepa to be attracted to men nowdays?

Me i am a full man and i see lepa as breakable cos if i handle them,

I love "Clean Heavy Girls"

Moreso from the pic i see in ur profile

You are Beautiful and wonderfully made.

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Baby, just continue with d exercise. Make it a little lighter daily. U dont need to kill ursef. But just ensure u exercise for about 60 mins daily. Some men actually go for big babes, so u just cant lose notwithstanding which side u are.

goodluck!

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It is no crime oooo. So long as your healthy and got proportions (sorry but being a number 1 figure is just drab). There are men out there who like women with meat on them bones. I know it feels like you aint attractive right now because, brodas might not be knocking down your door to get with ya, but just keep your hopes/faith up that you will land a guy who will adore your curves. No kill yourself trying to be something else ooooo. Love yourself!

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pretty

hot

and

thick

phat!

is still some peoples favourite

they ll find u

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