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Beyonce's If I Was A Boy Does It Say What Women Really Are? Or What Men Are ?

Was Beyonce saying the truth or she was just talking for the sake of Music, I support that Girls are more faithful but its not all of them, we've got alot Player girls, say your mind, funny enough I like them player girls but don't expect my woman to be like that, she could be wild and crazy in Bed or very sexually active, but not the player type, but then I don't expect me to stick my privates in just or only one P ussy, I can hit out there once in a while. So was Beyonce's If I was a boy the true nature of Women? waiting!

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Lyrics: www.metrolyrics.com/if-i-were-a-boy-lyrics-beyonce-knowles.html

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She is flogging the issue from the wrong point of view.

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beyonce is pagan now? intersting

ant who yes poster this is how most women think

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The song was originally writen by BC Jean www.myspace.com/bcjean. Beyonce stole the song.

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Beyonce went straight to the point to let the boy know that if he was in her shoes and she was in his he would not like what he'll get from her behaviour.

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when i saw the video for the first time, i was shocked at the truth it revealed about us guys. i've been hearing the phrase "if the shoe was on the other foot" but never before had it graphically portrayed before. it was an eye-opener.

its a very deep video

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Really funny the way people view the whole thing, well the Song is nice I enjoy it I like the video and all that but was just wondering if what she said about men was really true and that there are no women with that kind of character too, some people said its men that basically do that kind of thing, while some agree that there are women that do it as well, Men are not the only ones culpable as there are women too that are into cheating.

Songs like this should get people thinking not for us to criticize her only.

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You know that Beyonce was exploring her lesbian side using 'if i was a boy' as a decoy.

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SHE IS MY CUZIN U KNOW I LIKE THE VIDEO

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Funny post and funny replies. shio

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if beyonce was a boy? what if she was really a boy living in gaza strip with isreali missles flying over her numb skull

she would find better inspirations for reasonable songs. why are artists today repeating and over emphasizing intellectual miopic

topics? ish.

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if i ever become a serial Molester with a propensity for policewomen, this video is the reason why.

on a serious note, there's no excuse for cheating.  if you're going to be a player at least be up front about it. 

oh and women do get turned on, they just have more self-respect about it.

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why not quote out the part that is false, thank God, u be man

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Beyonce is simply telling guys to see things from ladies' perspective. Society makes a hero-a don juan- out of a guy that's hugely successful with ladies while a lady exhibiting the same behaviour is called a SLUT, LovePeddler or is simply regarded as CHEAP. This mentality has embedded itself into our psyche. Beyonce's song simply brings us back to earth. This is one song we really ought to think about while doing our thing. Of course ladies are no saints either.

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rubbish, shw me whr u got this ur yeye analysis from.

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well, guys are hard wired to love sex, even in dreams and there is nothing women can do about it

and from experience, i will say women tend to be more faithful cos they are not easily turned on by most of what will turn every guy on.

95% guys cant stand looking at a Unclad woman when the atmosphere is one that's conducive for sex, without giving in

whereas a lady can stand this and even watch a Indecency movie with you in such environment, and nothing happens

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The song is the truth for some, we all know that. Its always good when you go about life, to put yourself in anothers shoes. If people stopped to think whether they would put up with, what they themselves dish out to those around them every day, would they be ok with it? It can be a man or woman, the difference is how society digests it/reacts to it.

The song is like a mirror, you will only see whats actually there staring back.

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That someone is making money does not mean we cannot debate a point, She raised an issue and I felt like hearing from other people if they agree with her. thats all.

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Beyonce's song is simply asking men a simple question, [i]how would you feel if we(women) treated you(men) the way you [/i]treat us? its not hard to see that men in general think that they can get away with anything, a man considers himself disrespected if a woman cheats on him but it's all fine and dandy for him to cheat on his woman right? a woman is as much a human being as a man and deserves the same consideration a man does, this isn't a cry for woman's liberation,its simply common sense especially when you take in the fact that some men treat their house pets better than they their wives!! the new breed of faithless women out there is simply a product of man's insensitivity, what goes around ultimately comes around,

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I guess its very obvious a lot of guys out there are not keeping to faithfulness,i prefer hanging out wif my g anytime any day as long as i am the only one for her cos i cant imagine my G cheating on me.Beyonce is just fictional about the word though,so dont take it more serious than u think,its just a lyrics.

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i think the real qst is was she talking abt boys or abt men! and DO U CONSIDER URSELF A MAN OR AS A BOY! cos she def. said if i were a boy

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I thought you peeps are supposed to be on bed by now.

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I'm trying 2 understand why this made the headlines, methinks it's just a song and it could be in reference to jigga or maybe a close friend of hers has a cheating boyfriend.When she did "irreplaceable", Ne-Yo remixed it to the dude's version & it might occur here too. It's all about d $$$.

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The song is fictional,it is just about the song.

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i fink beyonce is trying to tell us somefin, may be JayZ has started cheating on her,lol,

anyfin dat has to do wiv the emotions of the heart,,ladies are always too quick to blame the guys,, though we have more players in men than women due to the nature of creation, but we still av good men out there,

its shows its a man's world, dont fink any male artist will sing "If i was a gal"

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Wonder why this topic made it to the headlines.

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I am not sure what you mean by drive?

do you mean the desire to see/date/Bleep other people?

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Self-justification. A weak one at that.

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Well you still find faithfull men but a faithfull man is diffrent from a loving man.A man can be loving but not faithfull!

Its a man's world in Africa for real.

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I have come to the conclusion that it is man's world as per naija culture,

Women would just have to learn to survive in it.

There is no excuse for cheating. I believe real men dont cheat, It takes a MAN to stay faithful to one woman.

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The truth here is becos of my drive I expect any woman I go out with to have that kinda drive I have or else we are going to keep having issues

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It just seems to me that you find it very hard to be faithful, instead of working on the issue, you've found an excuse for it.

Well, right now, because you're young, you can get away with it, but imagine at the age of 50 still doing the same thing, never mind feeling worn out, you'd probably start yearning for the pleasures that you can only get in an exclusive relationship. Think. . why do people even entertain such relationships?

Anyway, about Beyonce's song, I believe that she's merely trying to make a point about how much guys are allowed to get away with in society, NOT that every guy cheats or not, she showed various scenarios that affect relationships.

- Hanging out with the buddies, instead of including your partner who is just sat at home waiting for you.

- Flirting with other people when it's such a disrespect to your partner

- Cheating & when people think it's ok

I mean I am not saying every guy cheats, but knowme in particular you make it very clear that you see nothing wrong with the idea. Imagine when the table turns and you love a girl so much to be committed to her, but she is using the excuse that you can't be around her 24/7 when she has urges to sleep with other men, now tell me you'd be okay with that excuse and I'll accept yours.

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Tope what do you mean i should make up my mind? the point is a woman cannot satisfy me alone so I will need something additional, More over my work takes me out alot, I do alot of travelling, so when am out there am Hot I just call on my shortie in that Geolocation and get some rounds before I go back to my woman , so you cant blame the Bruz would you? and you did not answer me question about what Beyonce is saying.

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Ignore Beyonce and her pagan music. It dosn't convey or represent anything, except the will of a money-hungry sell-out chick who would disrespect herself and everyone else to make more and more money. She is not a positive role model for ladies or anyone else, and she is not a representation of me or my people.

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Sometimes beyonce i must confess sings crap. Like single ladies. Maybe she wont have sung dat if she dint marry hova.

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