Dear Naira Landers, My girlfriends and boyfriends say's I am a very selfish person, Stingy and self centered. But I don't really know why they choose to label me like that. I am the kind of introvert I don't really like associating much with crowds. Any where there is crowd I don't just feel comfortable e.g. clubs, party and so on But I have a typical method of having my own fun. The worst part, some thing happened of recent and my elder Brother said it to my hearing that I am selfish and wicked. Naira Lander’s would you spend your cash unnecessary when you have not budgeted or give out cash when no one ask for it.
I need to know how I could improve socially dealing with people around me. Any clue to this please drop me some hints.