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Broke Guys: Are They Worth It?

Hi people,

please what do you ladies(and guys too) think of a broke guy, that is soooo broke that cannot afford to call you even when you are sick and lying in the hospital, so broke that he cannot afford transport to visit you in the hospital, so broke that he has never bought anything for you before and you are the one doing all the buying for him and he doesnt evr reciprocate,

is such a guy worth it, wen it is only mouth he uses to proclaim love,

a woman needs some kinda sign that he aint a gold digger now

agh agh!!!!!!!!!!!

ALL MOUTH NO ACTION,

wat do yu guys say?

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totally agree. Dont know why people are calling the girl gold digger when she's annoyed mainly by him not caring that she was in the hospital. Even if he had to SELL the stuff she had gotten for him in the past, he should have to at least see her at the hospital. Nonsense

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wow,you dont want abroke Bottom dude but when u get a guy spending you want your freedom and the womens lib 50/50, why cant you spend money for the guy if he is broke?if a woman was the broke Bottom and the guy was loaded then no one sees anything wrong with that because a woman needs to look good , make up your mind if you want the old skool the guy is the head n all that or if you want the modern women's lib kinda relationship

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With or without money - those chauvinistic pigs are not worth it.

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Understand what I am trying to say. Not that I support the guy, but it takes love and care to do just that. If the care and love is not there, then how can money be in the picture? I believe when you show care and love, money is involved anyhow.

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That's what broke guys say.

During Christmas, it'll be "The gift does not matter, it's the season of togetherness, love, family", Just admit you're broke.

Guys, be realistic for once, No finance no romance, buddy

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We are not talking about money here. What we are talking about here is care and love. It will take these for the guy to pick up the phone and call her sick girl or better still get transportation to go see her in the hospital. This guy doesn't give 3 fucks about you. I suggest you drop him fast!

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some of them are worth it, but not your kind.

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If there's 2 much of an imballance, u may need 2 get out

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U guys won't stop making me laugh! Don't u people know that there' a gr8 difference bw being broke and being poor with being stingy as a bold line in between the two sides moving parallel to being well to do?

Being BROKE is a temporary affair. Do u ladies now trying to tell the guys that if happen to have a guy who's got all that it takes to be a real man, and all of a sudden due to some ill circumstances he gat broke, ur surname then turns to LAGBAJA abi?

Saucekid, U 2 don dey fall my hand oooooooo! If I go broke, Y my chikara no go raise me eh?

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you have been to hell and back i presume

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Broke girls are more deadly than HIV and malaria. GUYS BEWARE, i see a lot of them here.

i personally dont like hanging around ladies when i am broke, cos i tend to lose my confidence, i definitely avoid them.

why would a guy make his girl know that he has not eaten? i will never go that low in a relationship

nevertheless am a born husler, why would i be that broke. NA WA FOR SOME GUYS O, THEM SABI DISGRACE US NO BE SMALL

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funny girl, they ain't worth it for real no i mean vice versa

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uhm. . .

que sera sera

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@ candylips point of correction not all women.@ poster   i see nuttin wrong in datin a guy who is not xtra boyant bt he should nt ask u for money and he should atleast try to try.hw wont he ve moni to come see u at d hospital or call u?he should ve borrowed.does he not wear clothes,where does he get the moni to buy them?i seen cases where guys do xtra ordinary tins 4 deir babes.jst check d topic,the most silly thing you ve done for love.

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@ poster

that guy aint worth it

why in God's name do you still hangout with him?

ur funeral i guess

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All you women of nowadays are just gold - diggers

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LMAO. . .you won't kill me with laughter. Strict Daddy

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Why are you complaining now? You shouldn't be mad at him, he's only being what he's always been. . .the person you met and fell for.

Some women complain about their partner changing after they get together, you are complaining because yours hasn't change.

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u knew he was such b4 agreeing to date him.

na koboko fit u

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clapping softly

Tee hee hee

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OMO IBO, he has always been like this,

i tire,

au on earth does one differentiate between him been truthful with his situation or he been fake abt it,

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Look no condition is permenant.

So many guys support other females and pay for everything they request for.  I can't see why a woman can't do the same.  If you see him trying his best to better his life then stick by him.  Not all of us have it easy.  Plus its a gem in your crown that you stuck by him.

But if he is just lazy and not trying to better his life omo move on.

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uve ignored the other part of my post. ask urself this question? was this guy like this b4 u started going out? if the answer to that question is yes, then u need to log off and go sit ur Bottom down. u knew all along but went into the relationship.

chances r u r comparing him with someone else whicch most of u women are guilty of

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toyin darlin pls dnt let urself bcum a payee to one guy o.he will definately nt ask u for moni directly cus he did nt give u any to hold for him so he will use style to ask(i av nt eaten).rem na frm clap dem dey enter dance.frm eatin money ,u will find urself givin him moni for bigger tins even to spend on anoda girl

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tatoo boy i dnt get d last part of ur statement.did u say u r deola?

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he didnt force me but wen he starts going like "av not eaten all day" "i dnt av credit to call", do i av a choice.

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reply: so broke he cannot afford you!!

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They aren't worth it. They are back breakers. They are always complaining!

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@welli

accepted, but don't let 'em deceive u, guyz are dangerous. but do  you am deola1?

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Thank u sir for the clarification and I did went to skool.

That was just the song that came to mind after reading the post.

They still have similarities.

@poster,

Dump the guy.

he could have at least borrowed money to come see u while u were sick

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at poster, may i ask what this guy was like b4 u started going out? if he wasnt as u described b4 getting with him then check that guy again. otherwise, check urself

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@topic

If a guy is broke as ur decription u mean dead

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@poster

atleast he proclaims his love 4u, and i'm sure he didnt force u to buy anytin 4him.just because he aint gat no doe now doest mean he wouldnt later. i'm sure its the hospital tin that tripped u off.cut him some slacks jo.

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der is a diff between bein broke nd bein stingy.ask yourself this ques.does he buy clothes?if yes how often nd what quality?if d ans r positive,den he is eigther stingy or does nt love u enough to spend on u.cus when u love smone bt you're broke,out of d liltle u try to get once in a yr,u mst sacrifice a liltle for her sake.often times in such a relationship ,d guy begins to ask u 4 moni.gush!i hate such guys.becareful sm guys dey wey sabi use mouth flex girl.

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i dnt fancy dem.be a man all way round.both in cash and other things

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Kick him out unto the kerb! but why u sef gree for broke Bottom nigga?

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