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Buying Her A Phone: Does That Makes Me A Mugun?

I met this girl 2 months ago and now i just got her a brand new phone. I told her my intention of getting her a phone b4 i bought it, and her response is that she doesn't need a phone now. I got worried cos she's a kinda indoor girl who needed a phone to control her movement so went ahead to get the phone. She refuses at first, but later accepted it after lots of pestering.

Now, my friends told me i am a MUGUN for buying a woman a phone, am i?

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Yes you are a MUGU.This is the problem with SOME naija men.When you are expected to be a LOVER,you turn into a PROVIDER.There is a huge difference between being a lover and a provider.She wants you to be a Lover,and NO,Just like a typical naija man,you end up buying her phone to win her love.It doesn't work.Now that you have become a provider,that is how you will roll except you make a detour and start being a LOVER,Else she wil leave you when a lover comes in.

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She said she didn't need a new phone, yet you went ahead to buy her one.

What's up with that, cause that don't translate into her loving you more -hope you know that.

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guy !!!!!!

why will u compel a girl with gift she doesn't want,

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I will only call you a mugu when i know the type of phone u bought within 2 months. . .

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I see you as a very caring man who is trying to please his woman and not buying her loyalty like someone said.

For the fact that she is an indoor girl, u need to communicate with eachother and the only way to do that is by calling her on the fone since she doesnt like to go out.

I dont think u bought the fone to monitor her movement.

She didnt demand for it in the first place, u insisted to buy it for her. she may be a shy and a type that nothing freaks girl thats y she rejected it the first time but whn u persuaded her she collected it. It isnot every lady that likes to collect things from men.

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No, you are just a man who likes to please his woman. Just be careful hon, some women will take advantage. Give gifts but make sure it does NO INVOLVE RUINING YOUR FINANCIAL CREDIT!!!!!  

Sharrap Mobinga! LOL be nice sweetie.

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@Poster, Nothing wrong with that, you offered since you felt she needs it. It may also make communication in your relationship easy and fun. Now comes the maintenance Good Luck!!!

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I don't think the phone you gave her fall on this range, Nokia n97, n900, BB bold1 and Bold 2 or 3. BB storm1 or storm2, Sony Xperia. I bet you if were to be one of this phones dem no born am well make she reject am.

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You bought her a phone to control her? that makes you possesive not a mugun

no buying your gf a present doesnt make you a maga, but youve only been dating for 2 months. . . . . how expensive was the phone? how rich are you?

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my man u are a mugu when u keep donating to girl that do not cherish u.

forcing her to to collect the phone shows that she does feel anything for u or that u are practically forcing  her to love u or trying to buy her love over. see it does not work that way.

what u have achieved in doing is to open free access for other guys to  woo her and she will continue giving out her number and the calls will keep coming and by then u cant do anything about it.

mind u that u will be the one to keep buying the recharge card.

so tell if u are a mugu or not?

infact, i certify u the 1st class mugu!!!!!

ekwu chelem, gbam!!!!!!!

ndi igbo ibem kwe nu, kwe nu, kwe zuo nu ooooo!!!!!

biko kam juo, nwoke obu nwa afo igbo, ka obu onye ofe mmanu?  na uche nkem obu onye ofe mmanu!

ndi igbo ibem, obu ako na uche ka eji agba 190!!!!!!!

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HAHAHA 2 FUNNY NAIJA GIRL DON SUFFER

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Give her one month and you’ll be surprised by the kind of romantic text messages she’ll be receiving from other guys; and believe me, you won’t be able to do anything about it.

Or would you collect your phone back from her?

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You could have allowed her to love you back first before buying her a phone; the phone you bought for her now won't change her feelings for you, you may be a mugun in the end.

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u got her a phone not cos she asked for one but cos you wanted to keep in touch with her as often as possible abi?

2months seems like a pretty short time to me but then again na u dey the relationship and na u sabi wetin sweet you

but then again your friends dont have to tell u if ure a mugu and u dont have to look for validation on naira land

be strong my brother when you make decisions, me thinks u are exhibiting a case of low self esteem.

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@ poster

Forcing a gift on your girl will not necessarily translate into love.  Cos what i see is that you're trying to buy her  loyalty.

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If Nairalanders could say i am a mugun, then i believe i am, But can u tell me how i became a mugun or what exactly is wrong in buying someone u love a phone?

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If Nairalanders could say i am a mugun, then i believe i am, But can u tell me how i became a mugun or what exactly is wrong in buying someone u love a phone?

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If Nairalanders could say i am a mugun, then i believe i am, But can u tell me how i became a mugun or what exactly is wrong in buying someone u love a phone?

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Nope U ain't Broda. Stay tite. U only become 1 when demands for recharge cards comes

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