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Calling All African Guys: What Should I Tell Him?

Well okay. Here it goes. There is this guy I met on myspace and we only talked one time. He has his mobile number on his account so I decided to send him a text. Am I crazy to have done that? He responded to my text asking who is it? What should I tell him after I tell him who it is? I don't want to seem desperate or weird. I'm asking all guys to give me advice on how they would feel if they were in that guy's shoes? Do you think I should talk to him? What should I say to him? Ladies are welcome to give advice too, but I would really like to know the guy's opinion on this.

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wait until he GIVES u his no.

don't just get it from his myspace, that's stalker-ish

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U r daring the odds.

I like it nd itz a gud thing.

Go get him.

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text him again and ask if he has a gf

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Well if you are going to put yourself out there be very, very careful. I suggest that you enjoy your youth and your naivete very, very well

and if you believe if fate  you might actually meet with him in person when the time comes: who knows?!

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thanks i see what u mean. i just wanted to show my interest in him without seeming desperate or promiscuous.

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I sense that you are very young. My best advice, I think someone said this already, is to introduce yourself to him and maybe meet him for tea or coffee, <or something along that line> just be very certain to make sure that the nature of the relationship is very, very, clear.

Single on myspace does not mean single in real life.

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he's single and only two years older. we are both students. and hell no i'm NOT some LovePeddler looking for sex.

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Do u hv a crush on him?

Where u dt formal or intimate in ur first text 2 him?

I think u should just b formal in ur reply by telling him dt u re d girl dt he has been communicating with. U saw his number on his profile and just wanna say hi.

Even if u do have a crush on him,remember ur dignity as a woman becos we guys(most) think 2 far.Just b ready 4 any question he might ask u and give it a candid answer. Good luck.

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you might come off as being pushy if i were you i would have asked him first if it was cool to contact him through his mobile. Well i hope in the conversations you both had you both proclaimed that you like each other or at least find each other attractive. If that is the case tell him who you are and if he freaks out so be it.

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I think it is CREEPY to start texting strange men you met on myspace and purpose of contact is to phuck him ?

what if he's married ? has a girlfriend ? what is the purpose of the relationship that you are seeking ? How old are you ?  what if he is a criminal or a mass murderer ?

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