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Can A Girl Truly Love One And Deny The Person Intimacy?

I dont think a girl can truly love a guy and still deny the person intimacy. When you truly love a person, you'll do everything possible to make the person happy. If a girl is truly in love, she'll see intimacy as nothing more than a mere momentary allowance of a manliness into a kitty. They only bring that virginity hocus pocus when they have shallow feelings' for someone. Someone is still gonna get her laid, might as well be you. So,

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By the way, I never did find out what "dalu" means. Anybody care to assist in this matter?

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You are a Cow! Should S.ex be d basis for a relationship?

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@rickie4us:

Very eloquently put!

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A guy that truly loves his girl doesn't need to unbutton her shirt just to see a better view of her heart

GBAM

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@Igwe. & rokiatu:

Thank you very much for your graciousness and your kind words!  And, rokiatu, you're going to make me blush!

By the way, Igwe., I must confess my linguistic ignorance. What does "Dalu" mean?

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@OP

don't mind all those people bashing you.

'Cos although love is not all about intimacy,

good intimacy is also an expression of love.

It's sad that women use it as a bargaining chip,

even though they love it more.

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Love has to do with respecting each other wish as well except one is selfish and would not call that love but lust.

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(FOR THE POSTER TO HEAR) YES!!!! but really NO

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wel intimacy is not luv so a girl might decide not to hav intimacy with her bf,but its not a guarantee that she is decent cos girls pretend alot

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if u truly love her u should not be freaked out about sex.

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Some women use their kitty to control men. Do not be with someone like this. Your relationship will not last and you will make it harder for the next guy after you. NO KITTY CONTROL UNLESS IT IS PMS.

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please read through. Its just a question, it didnt happen to me. I was just tryin to know cos i dont believe a girl cud love sumone and still deny d person intimacy.

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@ poser,

dat d mind of an armed robber.

So u re equating loving someone 2 SEX. Why re u of a shallow mind,

Hum!

Why not take ur mind off dat & c hundred's of reason 2 appreciate her other dan sex.

but, 4 any reason she wan drop 4 u fit take am but don't force her or use it as a yard-stick 4 dating her.

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@chrisrock that is why i said girls are the most confused beings they would have driven the guy borderline insane then complain about him not being caring

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@Post

If the girl is still a virgin, that could be understood and it would be selfish for the guy to force her hand but if she is not a virgin and is seXXually active, that's something else.In between, it's guys that bring this calamity on themselves.They make it look as if she is "giving them something" whereas they are the ones "giving up the goods". When a woman knows that you treasure seXxx a lot, she go use am do shakara for you.Always have a nonchalant attitude towards seXXx and she will be wondering if you don't find her attractive.

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Girls are the most confused and complex living organism.

They tell the one they love to wait and dash the casual the honey

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@Mynd 44 i disagree with you,i think issue concerning girls and intimacy is a thing of the mind,when the time is right they give it to you,and when the time is right and you are not available they give it to the guy next door.

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It might actually be true that most of the girls that deny their boyfriends intimacy are actually giving it to someone else. However for the sincere ones, they deserve to be respected for their decision, haba. Na by force.

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Its just a question, it didnt happen to me. Its just some sharp girls like pullin this card.

The thing is that true love is not supposed to bounded by certain dogmas and principles. Intimacy is a sacrifice and if she luvs the dude, you will sacrifice. She'll go the extra mile.

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OMG probably the reason why she havent opened up to you is because you dont show real love to her. From your scrip, seems like you are only interested in getting some of what is in her underwear. Shame

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Physical intimacy is only a small part of a relationship. A very small part, at that (no pun intended). Indeed, many people do truly love one another without physical intimacy.

You can love someone without intimacy, and you can have intimacy without loving someone.

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