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Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ?

CAN A POOR GIRL LOVE GENUINELY?

Based on the hardship and economic sitaution in the country its hard to find a good girl who can love you for you without money.

In the past, the parents use to say, if you are looking for a good girl, dont go to the house of the rich, because their daughters are spoilt and wont respect you, but i have noticed that if a girl from a wealthy home tells a guy that she loves him, its 99.9% true, but if a girl from a poor home tells you she loves you, its 0.0000001% true.

I,ll tell u a story and after which i,ll tell u my latest exprerience.

the story starts like this. A young man, who does not look nice and does not dress well, is driving down the streets and he sets his eyes on this girl that is prety , the girl is not so well dressed and this guy is an importer and making it big time in business. He stops the girl and calls her to the car, she comes, and the guys says, baby, how are u, and she says i am fine, then starts, asking stuff like , do u stay around here, i will like to get to know you more, she is just there enjoying the Air condition from the car and noding her head like a goat. Now the guy says , i am going somewhere now, can i call u later or u call me? she says i dont have a fone, he says, ohh sorry, u know what? take this 1000naira, and he wirtes the number on it, call me by 5 this evening and let us see.

By 4pm the girl is already around the public phone, waiting for 5 to reach so she can call, she finally calls this guy and directs him to where she is calling from, the guy comes and picks her, and buys her a brand new fone with credit on it, she is very happy, meanwhile she has a boyfriend that is a carpenter in the area, he manages to put credit on his phone, THANK GOD FOR 100NAIRA MTN CARD. now this big guy takes the girl shopping, and buys her cloths to look good, the girls parents cant wait to meet this guy. He finaly comes to their house, and the enviroment is so poor, they use a public pit toilet, they are 5 in a family , she has just goten admision in the university, the boys are labourers and the other girls are in elementary.

This guy pays for a house for them and moves them out of there, gives the brothers capital to start business, and pays the fees of the others, he becomes the MESSIAH OF THE FAMILY. NOW When this guy calls this girl on that fone he bought for her and he says i love you, What do u think will be the girls response ?

Now what happens to her carpenter boyfriend ? most parents tell their children, when i married your dad he had nothing, (gone are those days). you see that the love of the wealthy is more genuine than that of the poor.

Poverty has made love to loose its meaning.

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@ Topic, it is vise versa a poor girl can love if she is honest with her self and cannot because she hasn't seen money yet if you show a poor girl money and she maintains her integrity then she is for real money has a way of making people arrogant

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Just like there is no flame without fire, there is no Genuine Love without money.,

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Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? NO

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love and poverty are like oil and water

they mix but only briefly

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IF the poor girl loved this carpenter, why would she live him for the rich guy ?

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Why not? As long as he potentials to become something other than what he is presently. I believe that NO situation in life is permanent. Our destiny is in our hands.

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Based on the , the initial story that brought about the topic, Would u say the poor girl was in love with the carpenter?

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Spew this story now. . . . . U made a promise!!

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Lame!!! Lame!!! Lame!!!

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It's the inevitable, please take it passively. *hisses*

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Please turn your behind to them and enjoy it. Yeye!!!!

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In a situation where the robbers are gay, you would relax and enjoy it since it's inevitable?

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una still dey here the poor girl don marry since.

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Why didn't Jack offer to swap positions? Was he dumb also?

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It was her job to offer the switch, at least we'll have known Jack was simply silly if he refused it

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Jackal, would you risk marrying a poor woman?

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simple. Dont talk love until you are stable on ur 2 feet . . . its the same thing u'd tell a chic who is still struggling with high school maths and blithering about boyfriends. Pass ur exams first.

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so a guy who is not rich stands the chance of loosing his love to a rich guy? are u saying a guy should make money first before talking of love ?

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The truth is that love cannot be bought by money, how can a rich guy u meet in just a few days, destroy the love u claim to share with this guy for years? men money is becoming more powerful by the day.

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for me i will take the i love u i get from a wealthy girl more serious than the one from a poor girl.

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mayne i wish you would come to the states. it will be a eye opener. you think because a girl is rich she no longer sees men as an opportunity, then you got a lot of experiencing to do. mayne the girls will eat up your ATM card faster than you post your radical responses.

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if a rich girl tells a a guy she loves him, you can be 90% sure its true, because there is little or no reason to lie, but if s poor girl says she loves you, wait till she has a taste of the other part of life and see if she will still love you .

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Oga faith yur fate alone abeg. U r OYO.

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there is some truth in that some what of a liable response. hardship those make the love between two stronger. if the love of two people can withstand the sorrows of life then that love is true. but love should also be about comfort. if im in love with the person im with then i there to be some comfort. i dont want to have to suffer the whole time. what kind of relationship is that.

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Well love should not be based on what u will get in return, Love should not be based on comfort. you can only see true love in hardship.

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I should have known you were the kinda chap who would let your lady roast in the face of danger. . . . . , . .

News Flash man. . . .It is our fate as men, We are fated to make the ultimate sacrifice.

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I wonder!

didn't she see those roadside tambourine players in Quebec ?

The girl had been eating plain dumplings and drinking pure water since childhood and saw an opportunity to help her family move out of  the Ojota of Quebec

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I'm talking of what it actually takes to decide you want to marry that girl . . . love is a mere 5% of the so many things you need to take into consideration before deciding this is the woman u want to spend the rest of ur life with.

Spirituality, compatibility, family, friends, behaviour are all part of the remaining 95%. Romance keeps the flame of marriage burning . . . if u're both financially incompatible it can only burn for so long.

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E no mean say every lady wey dey im condition dey marry im music manager. . . . . .

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Even the celine dion nwa left her impoverished home where her parents with 12 children lived in a "see me I see you" and married her music manager.So what is she rapping about now?

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and there is no guarantee the rich man will not go for a poorer girl.

What are you saying?

Yes we do foolish things when we're in love that has nothing to do with finances.

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hmmm, i have problem with the highlighted area. i feel a marriage is 25% spiritual, 25%, love, 25% romance, 25% substance.

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True love has no Price Tag, Once the girl leaves the carpenter for the rich man, its no more love, because there is no guarantee that she will not go for a richer man. Celien dion siad, LOVE DOES NOT THINK TWICE, IT CAN COME ALL AT ONCE. you dont love with ur head u love with ur heart. Why do u think they say, ONLY FOOLS FALL IN LOVE, because when ur in love u do foolish things.

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Flesh and blood did not reveal these things to you.

Don't mind these people lying through their gapped teeth

Even the 5% love sef is based on reality.

Without reality,there is no love.

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Gbam!!

Her love for her parents won't even let her do such

Her mom may die of a heart attack

That's where her love must be truly shown.

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hey man you need to take a step back with that response. that is truly offensive.

seriously?? you think that all nigerian girls are basically gold diggers?? cause that is not the case. there ladies out there who want to feel financial secure. in case something happens they know they got something to fall back on.

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You cant hanker after what you never had. A poor pepper seller probably doesnt know better, she wont think twice about marrying a carpenter afterall her father was never more than a taxi driver so poverty is all she's known.

Imagine a middle class chic who has seen her friends and elder sisters married with fairly higher standards of living? What love will drive her to marry a carpenter so she can be using a small kerosene stove to cook when her mom always used a gas stove?

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All I will say about this woman is she named her pikins Shanikwa and Taninikwa

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@David

@Queenisha/osisi

You just a chameleon

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All you small small children,keep on shouting lovu lovu.

When it's time to marry believe me  love is not enough o

Thereare other condiments to the equation ooooooo

especially to the girls here

don't let love blind you

open ya eyes too.

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Have u seen what hardship and poverty has turned Nigerian girls into? President YARADUA must say something about this topic.

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Brilliant!!!!

Even a rich gurl wants a richer boy!

Who wants to stay around stark poverty??

Poverty is a curse, innit??

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meka abeg don't blame the girl jo.

who wants to suffer ?

she must have fancied the carpenter genuinely until she loved him no more.

She has a right to change lovers

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are you serious?? i mean come on now. i know alot of rich girls who be telling they boyfriends they love them but of course it is all lies. just because a girl is rich doesn't mean she still doesnt see things as an opportunity.

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Gbam!!

If you're a carpenter, look for a seamtress

If you're a seamstress,look higher than a carpenter

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Wake up to reality. Carpenters surely will marry . . . but as long as they dont look like they can better their lot in the near future it would be better they choose from those around their social status.

Lets not lie, everyone is inherently "racist". Very few are willing to marry outside their social circle.

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first i must say this guy sounds relatively desperate to me. how can you just start giving money to girl that you dont even know her last name? i cant blame the girl, she took the advantage of the situation that was obviously ridiculous. to answer you question if a poor girl love sincerely, of course they can. just because she is poor doesn't mean she cant love. im not going to say there arent some girls who are opportunist because there are. but you cant make that assumption to all girls who are financially poor. you are have to judge the person as an individual rather than in a group.

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