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Can A Wealthy Man Ever Find True Love?

Nowadays love is not blind anymore, some may even argue there's no such thing as love.

Nothing goes for nothing, no free lunch, no romance without finance some will say, hmmmm. . . .

Seems you can get almost any girl or woman if you have enough money to throw around, girls that didnt care when you had nothing suddenly come around when you'r made, displaying brand new affection and ready to do anything thinkable, just for a taste of your cheddars

IMHO, only a very few women (about 5%) out of the total population of women in the world have the moral right to call anywoman a pros.titu.te,  any other woman doing that is just like a black man calling a fellow black man nig.ga. . . they all nig.gas anyway. . .

Million dollar question now is, can a wealthy man ever find true love?

This is just a general question by the way

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If he does not allow the money to go to his head. If he becomes scared of girls being after his money then he will not find it. Simply accept that women want comfort and look for someone that wants comfort + him.

am in a similar situation. loadsamoney and lots of potential mrs Kodewritas. The money draws pple but that doesnt mean some of those pple dont fit the mental image i have drawn all these years.

sometimes what draws them is the belief that you are a guy with a mission. someone with his head screwed on tight. they like a guy going places and its not necessarily about your money. they just want someone who seems to have direction.

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@OP, Yh he can, but very rare!

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Seriously i know a guy who pretended not to have much untill he married he bought 2 houses in abuja that same year and a fleet of cars that year this was someone that was cabbing to see his fiancee b4 she became his wife. U can imagine the wife"s behavior after the houses now, she just dey invite all of us come her husband house just to buga!!! lol

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In my definition, 'true' love means loyalty, respect and devotion to the person so loved. That said, there is no way a poor, struggling or average man can get 'true' love from a Nigerian female.

Only a wealthy man can get 'true' love. Gbägbé.

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it depends on the man's attitude.

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True love does exist no doubt, but is very rare indeed, almost impossible to find when ur paid

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2006? wow! I thot he must have jus released it or something, that's interesting cos I wasnt aware any such song existed. . . It's wordings are true to life anyway

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i love that song, too funny.

heard it some time back in '06 along with "I go chop yo dollar" and "Susana" lol

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[color=#770077 ]^Hehehe[/color]

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Life is simple like a maths Equation.Some people look at it as being cold hearted but i believe that it's how it is.

Come on,even in telle novellas, the poor girl falls in love with the rich guy or vice versa.

It's just simple as Striker put it,The only way of getting close to love is love by potential which unknown to many may diminish or increase as time goes by, at least soccer-loving fellas should know that.

Thar being said,i believe that such ladies should not be frowned at.at least, she had faith in you.

No Risk,No Reward

I think that's a cooler version of the law of karma

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Yes, love is not all about money,is all about looking in the same direction.

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@ Poster, Listen, any human being can find true love, cos i'm of the opinion that, nothing, absolutely nothing is impossible with God. Finally, being reasonable helps a whole lot. Thats all. Its only when the 'wealthy man' is irresponsible & unreasonable, that it becomes difficult.

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THeRe's No lOve WHeThEr u rE RiCh oR PoOr mAtEs, 4 tHe pOor gUy u wOnT GeT ExAcTly wAt u WaNt anD EvEn iF U Do sHe'Ll Be WaItInG 4 A bEtA OFfER, WhIcH eVeR wAy wE Re dOoMeD,

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@foyeks2001,

Oju to nsoro.

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why cant we just see the poll? wtf?

like its THAT important that its so secretive.

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i think a wealthy man can find love. problem is sometimes wealthy guys want to go for the most popular girls. then it becomes a show of which guy has more money to shower on her. plus, wealthy guys probably move in circles where everyone is thinking of how to make more money.

a wealthy guy with a good attitude would find love eventually, even if his wealth serves as the original attraction. a good-hearted girl, even if she was attracted by a guy's money, would learn to love him truly with time. afterall gold-diggers need love too.

guys need to stop trying to impress with money, don't act poor cos no one wants a poor guy. just don't make money a big issue in a relationship. be generous but don't let girls become financially dependent on you

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True love does not exist in this part of the world, let no body decieve u.

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Poor people get married too , abi is it only for the rich?

Any body can find true love; just look for your type.

As for pretending to be a pauper in search for true love sounds home videoish.

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Interesting,

Yes a wealthy man can find true love. If he realises that he shouldnt just be looking for someone who loves him truly, he should also love the person truly. Guys always complain about how girls only go for the money. But most guys when given a choice of a wonderful girl with a good sense of humour, intelligent, lively and truly in love with them, and a very pretty girl who likes them only for their money, will choose the pretty one so they can show off to their friends.

For girls its easy to fall in love with a rich guy, even if money isnt your initial concern. this is because its soo easy for them to make you feel special because they can afford it.

most guys especially those who are not well off, dont understand how important it is to make a girl feel loved. Most girls realise that a card from an ordinary guy who shows you true love is worth more than a car from a rich guy who can afford more. but if the poor guy doesnt even bother to give the card, then you're better off with the rich one aren't you.

PS its not only rich guys who are finding it hard to find love, there is something genetically wrong with our generation, we just dont fall in love. I've wanted to fall in love all my life, hasnt happened. hasnt happened to many people i know either, maybe we're too selfish or working too hard. but love is being very elusive these days.

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yes, if he does not throw his money at ladies in order to have them.

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just give him time to explore and exploit!

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can it found?

can a fine, rich girl find love?

@poster, silly question

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You can only find true love when you learn how to use your money right, if you are not arrogant with how you spend it, if you talk to the right girls, if your expectation in a woman is not too high, if you realize that no body is perfect, if you don’t feel money can buy you love. Some men are so arrogant when it comes to talking to girls. Imagine a guy that tried to chat me up kept on talking about his beautify house in Asokoro and what he went through to furniture the house, I got so tried of it all I told him to take his house out for a date. Some men will never learn, when you throw money around, you will only get the love that is equivalent to that money, when the money finishes the love will diminish. Please understand that money is not every thing.

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You can only find true love when you learn how to use your money right, if you are not arrogant with how you spend it, if you talk to the right girls, if your expectation in a woman is not too high, if you realize that no body is perfect, if you don’t feel money can buy you love. Some men are so arrogant when it comes to talking to girls. Imagine a guy that tried to chat me up kept on talking about his beautify house in Asokoro and what he went through to furniture the house, I got so tried of it all I told him to take his house out for a date. Some men will never learn, when you throw money around, you will only get the love that is equivalent to that money, when the money finishes the love will diminish. Please understand that money is not every thing.

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1st time replying to a topic.

First and foremost, who is a wealthy man? How do you ascertain that a man is wealthy?

How do we categorize a wealthy person?

If these questions can be answered then i guess we'll know if a wealthy man can find true love.

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just pray and never look for rich men child because they are spoilt. YES HE CAN!

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this is the first time I am replying to any topic.

First of all, can we first define who a wealthy man is? What is the category of being wealthy?

Then I believe we can prove a wealthy man can fine true love

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YES a wealthy man can find tue love if only he involves the GOD FACTOR.The God Factor helps him know the woman that is not after his money but ready to add more colour and beauty into his life.A man know matter how rich he is financially but if he is  not  married,he is not TOTALLY responsible.That is why countries like US and others cant make a bachelour there President. With ths fact,I think a wealthyman find true love.

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Ask Tiger Woods and co!

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i mean realistic in the post above

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Lannre,

i guess you re not reality, we need people that ar real in the house , not trying to please the F folks, but say the truth so that some of them will learn, i am getting married next year, i can kindly tell you if not my status, my job , my money and every other things i wud nt ve gotten my wife to be , to a reasonable extent there is  ECONOMICS IN RELATIONSHIP/ LOVE, quote and take it to the bank, it wudnt bounce.

if no economics in relatinship, (whys)

Do you ve to borrow your friends car to block a chick

why do you ve to impress her in your first date

why do you ve to stay long on phone with her

why do you ve to buy so much gift, do you do that for your mother

why do you ve to go extra mile to make her happy

all thes put together is money and , most ladies now realise that guys are not real in substain all mentioned above, so they need guarantee, which is the zillionnaire!

the only way you can find a true love , here in lagos without solid economics attached, is for you to go to your village

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If wealth makes him stingy then he might struggle.

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True love exist, we should not allow personal experience to change our view about issues. True love exist. I believe a wealthy man can find it. if He really want it.

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Nairalist,

you can find true love relatively,not based on wealth when you were schooling (higher institution), but now you are a working class and she is too, man she definitely needs your cash at least to grease the love. note this , love in your school days goes with contentment, but after school, goes with avaries for wealth.

for example, no lady wants to rough with guys to the top again, even some that does it , they ve sugar dads some where cleaning the congo and keep the guy as an assured husband. in conclusion, lets face the truth blindly and unabatted, love with wealth is fustration, quarrelling, unromatic, abusive, unsubmisiveness, irritation, complain and many things.

imagine, taking your girl out to silver bird cinema in the evening and you dont have a car, after the movie both of you starts treking or taking a bus, by this you will agree with me experiencially, the kind of girls you have this days, except she is those desperate aged ladies that need a man , only that ground she can take it

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With wealth?

Its not realy easy

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True Love DOES exist, but in this day and age, its getting harder and harder to find one.

Ya'll are looking in the wrong places for all the wrong people! There are still very very few girls who will stick to you through thick and thin, its worth it IMO to find them.

And I can assure you, you wont find any of them on NL.

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he can buy 'L' from 1, obtain 'O' from another, and accept 'VE' from veronica, and if it must be true, do it in church, true love is overflogged, is there anything like untrue love? its not love! and no matter the love, doesnt it always dwindle to tolerance, companionship and compromise, i sound cynical, but please, wake up!

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my fren says love is a mirage, me i don't think soo, i am living it cos i believe it, it won't be until i get moni,

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It depends on what the guy is looking for and whether he is a money miss road. The question should be can a lady marry a wealthy man know fully well that his wealth is from fetish means or armed robbery or he will marry 4 other women after her or he has no respect for women or he is a woman beater or madness runs in his family e.t.c

And the wealthy man, what kind of chicks does he normally go for? The types he wants to show off? ( trust me they very very high maintenance) or the one that will help him expand his business empire or the trophy wife? Then and after then can we talk of true love

personally I don't believe true love exists

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lol

coming to America

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The truth is that you cannot hide the money but can play nice game lovers play and respect her for who she is,am sure the love will come if you can also take her to the highest of her peak !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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my brother e go hard;for a rich man to find true love is by prayer or Gods grace(some would say luck).its just like a guy that stays abroad coming to niger to look for a wife.most girls are after money these days n will do anything to win the heart of a rich man just because he's got cash.one of the ways he can find true love is by disguise which works to an extent.

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why cant a wealthy man find true love but it depends on how he present himself to ladies if such man shows up has being wealthy and rich any lady that would jump on such man would ususally go because of his money and love most of our ladies nowadays dont find true love any longer but wealth so my advice to a wealthy man searching for true love is to becareful.

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can't u see - i'm coming to lagos state

oya park that camry and get down to mr biggs as a waiter - akeem style

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Yes, because he has what it takes to have true Love.

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No because the point of attraction for a rich guy will be his money.Definitely which bring more ladies to his reach.

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