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Can Albinos Lead A Normal Social Life Just Like Any Other Person?

I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE SUFFERED THE KIND OF HUMILIATION ,I GOT IN THE HANDS OF MY PRETTY COURSEMATE WHOM I HAVE ADORED FOR THE PAST 3 YEARS, AFTER MONTHS OF BUILDING UP MY COURAGE,I BLUNTLY ASKED HER OUT YESTERDAY,AND TO MY GREATEST AWE SHE REJECTED ME JUST BECAUSE I AM AN ALBINO.I HAVE ASKED MYSELF THIS QUESTION COUNTLESSLY,"IS MY COMLEXION A CURSE"?

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adam brody has said it ll, albinos unfortunately are looked down on, so its gonna be hard, but keep tryin.

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Guy i dey feel your pain. 4 i be chick now i 4 marry u.

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i hated biology like mad

this guy just reminded me of that subject

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i was watching a documentary on albinism last week on the cable and one side really baffled me. . . . now am not saying this to frighten anyone ok. . . truth sets us free. . .now they say:

1. albinism is a gene (i believe everyone who studied biology in school knew of this, if not search your modern biology)

2. and its said that this gene is found in male and female hormone, (thats why m and f can be albinos)

the most amazing thing is that if partner A (male) has it and partner B(female) doesnt, then the children will never be albinos, but if partner A (male) doesnt have it and partner B (female) does , then the offsprings MUST be. . . mark my word. . .MUST BE!

Now they say we have RECESSIVE and PREDOMINANT ALBINISM

recessive means it is 10% -0% visible,which means we could be albinos and dont know, it doesnt show in the skin nor hair, but is in the blood

predominant means it is 50% -100% visible, which means we see red hairs and red and almost transparent skins,it is in the blood and also on the skin

the fact i am drving at is that females are the carriers and birthers of ALBINISM, so for those dissing from the predominant ones you can never tell you are 100% free from it, until you are tested

CHEERS!

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ure right. wizard=Osho

Emeere=Ogbanje

I dont need to bite u, na to e-flog u well well

olodo rabata

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Figured wizard was Osho

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@albino

To tell the truth , people would stigmatize you for your colour and a handful of the ladies on this forum who have given one or more advice wouldn't have a second look at you if you met them on the way.

You should just hold your head high and make as much money as possible , believe me money covers all "disabilities" and try to work on your style.

I once went to this eatery in Aba and I saw this very beautiful chick with this albino who was not even too handsome if he had normal complexion , and the girl was all over him.I was flabberwhelmed and overghasted to say the least but when they were about to leave they entered a Toyota Avalon 2008 model , now tell me how she woldn't jump through burning hoops to satisfy him , so bro make enough cash to get the best dish.

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@albino:As someone suggested you just concentrate on your career by making money, and your self esteem as well. It cant be easy for an albino to live a normal life but trust when you have money,babes will come looking for you.Pascal Dozie is an example of a succesful albino.

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@ albino

Adam Brody said it all, but i want you to know something, you would find someone ooh, but she'll love you for who you are and not your color. And my advice to you is, don't ever try to impress a girl into going out wit you. Instead try and make build on your self esteem, listen as Adam said, there would be more of this, but it depends on whether you would want it to bring you down or make you stronger.

If a girl you tried asking out happens to be someone you'll definately see everyday, pretend as if it doesn't bother you. Always have the mind that you'll get someone.

But if after you try and you don't succeed, my guy, stop falling your hand and go and make money or go join the seminary, take the celibacy line and the Lord would expand your greatness.

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@albino

Dont let all these people decieve you! You will not live a normal social life like anyother person. They are just trying to be nice to you so as not to hurt your feelings because they are typing behind a keyboard, but not one of these women on nairaland especially the shakara oloje ones will even look at you twice in real life.

They are programmed to date only either "tall, dark and handsome" kinds and not "tall, albino and handsome"

Its is a social stigma and you go try before you see fine naija girl date talkless of marry, so you better remove your eyes from them. It will not happen because they naturally are discriminatory in nature towards albinos. How would i know? One of my best friend in secondary school then and part university was an albino. He was very funny and likeable amongst all the guys and we used to hang around him all the time but women were afraid to talk to him talkless of socializing because of their various cultural taboos. He used his humor and charm to make them his friends but to no avail and the boy left that secondary school without a g/f through out. In university, it was even worse because now you had all sorts and he tried to mingle but, trust naija girls and their preferences.

He later had to travel out in his second year and i havent heard from him in a while. So dont raise your hopes high guy! I am not going to pamper you to tell you it will be better!

Na lie,it will only get worse!

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Don't listen to what people say, just try and make money, woman will come and beg you to marry them. take the aki and pawpapw instance. woman and begging them now. so money make the world go round

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Dear, let not the rejection weigh you down because whether you are an albino or not you will surely encouter rejection one way or the other in life. Be cheerful and continue to lower your net in other side of the river, you will surely catch one day. Best of luck.

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