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Can Dis Be Real Love? Pls I Need Matured Minds Here:

we dated for 3 years, and he came up wit geting married to me, december last year, he came to my place and tried to see my parents,they talked about marriage stuff, he promised to come back january to get the list,

all i got, was a phone call,telling me  that he is not happy cos he some told his elder brother about his intensions and his brother became angry, why he did noy inform him,

well he concluded that he will get it hot wit who ever said that, i know i did not even call his bros,not to even discuss such,which i told him the truth.

March this year, he called it off, telling me that they told him in his church( CHERUBIM AND SERAPHIM) that we are nt compatible,that he will die soon, can u believe this?

i was amazed, although it hurts, but not becos of his person, but for 3 wasted years,

Now i find it hard to LOVE again,i dont trust any man, please i need matured mind on this,

wat should i do now!!!!!!!!!

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@190 u're not in da position 2 do dat.u don't hav her consent 2 proceed.

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deefact i 190 hereby Joins you in holy matrimony with vic2k3

for better and better and if it gets worse, run comot from him house!!

and Vic2k3 by the power invested in me, i 190 here by Join you in holy matrimony with deefact

for worse and worse and the if she nor give you baby boy after 5 attempt marry another woman Join her~

U may now lick her dish clean kiss the bride

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********smiles********

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@190.no offence taken

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deefact

Ive already added u~

we are friendz already ON FB

dont worry i would get u a good guy ook

this vic2k3 is wack!!

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Sorry 4 some of da english blunders in da above post.reason cos i am mobile so without my lappy i can't proof read

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Y don't u start 4gettin about him.lets say u over him(not sure about dat cos of d period of. . . ,). "so what do i want 4rm you" i will say u to rediscover ur charm (in another word happiness).

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Papa is right, i could make good use of you, please elaborate more on what you want from me before i will give you my contact details.

MOBO444, U AR NT MY TYPE, TNX

am taking my time, God will give me the best.

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I can imagine the hurts and the betrayal.

Please, take solace in the fact that a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage.

Even if you had dated for more than 3 years, not wasted still.

Thank God the marriage did not hold after all.

In everything my dear, give thanks to God.

Trust God!

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His brother advised him against marrying you, not the church.

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Papa is right, i could make good use of you, please elaborate more on what you want from me before i will give you my contact details.

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@deefact. points of correction:

1)mis typed name<it's vic2k3>

2)misplaced gender(i am a man or rather a gentleman)

3) misinterpretation of intentions. Bin a man (not married as u said) i felt angry,irked,annoyed,gutted @ d inhuman attitude of ur ex-fiancé. So plz take note.then on d other hand i wont like us 2 be enemies or foes so i am sorry 4 misunderstandin ur post.i will leave if u still insist.

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@ pash, thank you for ur advise, i appreciate, the only thing there is, i don't wana forn*****cte, am praying, god will make a way,

@vic2k3, i think you are not married urself and kind of frustrated seeing me about getting there, instead of advising, u go about abusing a fellow woman like u dat is in pain, chei na waoooo

look am still a small babe ok? u can check me on FB, and see my profile, pix and were i work, AM NOT DESPERATE, OK?

i dated him 3years, without cheating on him,dat alone made me a proud girl, how about u?

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@ Op

A broking relationship is batter than a broking marriage. Stop saying you wont LOVE again, you will, wen you see or feel true LOVE den you will know this ones re not really LOVE.

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@deefect i can now understand y u felt so gutted.no no no dats not d attitude.u seem 2 desperate 2 get married and not lookin 4 love or compatibity or even @least understandin. I wont b surprised 2 see a post dat says NOT AGAIN OR I FEEL SO USED.

vky2k3,do u know me?

why do u judge people so fast, u surprise me, i thought we are all here to help?

are u here to abuse me?

u cant even stand me to my face,cos u don't know me, i bet u, am 1000 times better and more decent than u,

u talk dirty as a lady, may be u are talking based on experience.are u jealous that am inviting those guys? wats ur own

please mind ur business pls and leave my post, its for matured minds,

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190,mgbo Let apply,or add me on FB, i mean good and interested ones,God fearing, uya

Mr.Cork and Okija_juju,chelseabmw and 170 see u soon

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@deefect i can now understand y u felt so gutted.no no no dats not d attitude.u seem 2 desperate 2 get married and not lookin 4 love or compatibity or even @least understandin. I wont b surprised 2 see a post dat says NOT AGAIN OR I FEEL SO USED.

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i pity you, please take heart,

he was never yours and mark my words sooner or later he would

come bak pleading wif u 2 give him another chance

i advise you get another guy and date immediately so u can forget abt him

we have tons of em, here,

like odiaero,dobodobo,candylips,dual core and MOBO444 ( a korean) if you are interested in datin whites~

@ 190,please i think dats wat i will do, they should apply, dawus14real@yahoo.com.

hope they are good?

thanks dear,

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i luv ur spirit gurl.Move on,hope u learnt a thng or 2 abt r'shp management dat wil help in ur nxt stop?wsh u d best

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The cherubush and serafool people poisoned his fake heart.

u make me laugh, funny u, well ttnx, u guy are making my day,

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@Poster

first of all thank God he walked away when he did. what would you have done if he came up with reasons as silly as these to leave you after you guys had tied the knot?

secondly it is time to get on with life. that one guy disappoints you does not mean that everyone out there is the same. there is some good guy out there waiting for you and if you seclude yourself you will never get to meet him.

finally the 3 years were not wasted. rather they are an experience you should learn from. if you had not had this experience you may well walk into the same situation later on. at least now you know better.

put on a smile and go out. the world is waiting for you! Wink

@ kila, with ur words of advise,am smiling already, thank you.

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The cherubush and serafool people poisoned his fake heart.

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i pity you, please take heart,

he was never yours and mark my words sooner or later he would

come bak pleading wif u 2 give him another chance

i advise you get another guy and date immediately so u can forget abt him

we have tons of em, here,

like odiaero,dobodobo,candylips,dual core and MOBO444 ( a korean) if you are interested in datin whites~

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Holy cow!!!this is simply hilarious.i didn't know dat ancient practices like dis is still in existence.Gee dat waz really immature of him. Dis is definitely mayday.i wonder y others complain of achilles foot while others hve achilles brain.my dear he waz jxt lookin 4 an opportunity 2 dump u.wise up ma dear.real guys will come

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@ adiaero, thanks, i will try

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just go on with ur life

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i guess u didnt luv d guy, u called d 3years a waste Huh

jus go on wit life, destiny is destiny.

@ Makadi not a waste at alll, slip of teeth, at least, i realize on time that he was joking wif me,

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Thanks Alusi, i know God will make me happy cos i never cheated or offend him, i dont know why everything went like that,cant figure it my self,

@izeek, am not desperate,i never ask him to go that fast,he single handedly went to my parents,i did not force himoooo

beside, dont u think 3 years of courtship is too much to tie the knot?

u wanna court for 10 years?

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There are better men out there,just keep you head low and you will be amazed how many you will find

For the records that your ex is a dork

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There was no love before. simple

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3 wasted years? that was all it meant to you!

surely u was desperate to tie the not, but don't mean you should term those years together wasted.

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onething thing i always believe is when things dont work out as planned ,always trust god he has a better plan for u.wat u may gain later may be 20 times that 3 yrs.This is an experience that will help u later in life. we cant use because somebody died inside river niger and not drink water again.u have to give love another chance because mr. right may be just by the corner.

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