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Can I Marry Him N Start Living In 9ja?

Im a Malaysian indian,its been long im in relationship with tis guy n nw it time 4 us 2 get married.He want us 2 get married n start 2 live in 9ja(lagos). I never been 2 9ja b4 and i dont have any idea abt staying there.Hw is the future 4 foreigners like me there?can i get a job there?(im a teacher)Can i manage myself there?Oh God im so confused!!!

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@poster, my straight advice for u is to stop determining your actions based on peoples opinion on this forum, u actions may just be rite. i havent been to asia before but i hear a lot of our NIgeria guys genuinely like asain women. if he is serious about settling down in Nigeria. i guess u can relocate with him. Nigeria is a place with where serious minded people with ideas can make it. GO 4 a need and fill it up. believe mii sky is ur limit. i wish u all d best.

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Besides why does he want to move back? Aren't u guys comfortable over there?

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@dsha

i suggest u come to nigeria for a holiday first then make up your mind on what u want to do. And i think its best yiu di it before u get married

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Thats even more scarying

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Why? U hit the nail at the head with ur last post. No they will not kill u, God dey.

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i agree and disagree, the only reason why the standard of living in poor in 9ja is cause,the population is tooooo muchhhhhhh!!The money from oil is not enuf for everyone,

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I bet my balls that the poster is no other person but GABRY. If you doubt me, please prove me wrong. A lot of usernames on the screen but behind the screen, it is the same user.

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1-24 hr electricity!

2-good roads!

3-no too much 419!

4-one begins with M'uuuuu, the other with N'uuuuu(village tong)

5-higer standard of living

6-higher standard of education

let me stop here, because if i continue writing Seun'll  need another server to contain the information!

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Malaysia is an almost developed country. They have good health care, light, water, security things our great country lacks.

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i mean wat i say,its been long im with them,

i knw wat their doing here in malaysia.

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i knw abt nigeria n nigerian, bt does tat mean everyone is te same?n i cant marry them?

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Girl shine your eye. He may just want the Malaysian passport. Goodluck.

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Yes ohhh. . .they do it a hell lot. . .

I'm not tryna discourage the woman. . .but all am simply saying is that she be really wise about it! she shouldn't just give up everything like that. . .because I have witnessed a handful of Asian women who were in her position. , and I know where they are today. . .

there are actually genuine Nigerian dudes over here that love these Asian women and marry them for genuine reasons. . .but the percentage of these guys is like 5% against a whole 95% of bad cases. . .so Dsha just be really smart about your choices. . .

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ThoniaSlim, i dnt really understand wat ur trying 2 say here,

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what has that got to do with the post?

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Lagos is a beatiful city. my advice is to try and secure a job first before relocating to naija.

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Actually the country name is NIGERIA for you, not 9ja, we dont call Malaysia Mlsha now do we??

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