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Can Money Buy Love?

My dear when u look at the way the country is going, you see that our girls only wants lie and wealth. But this is also a link to a guy who can play around, Before i Joined MTN NIgeria, i have lost 5 of my chicks to richer guys but those whom i have lied to are still my girls to date.

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yes money buys luv and girls, it all depends on the guy concept and how he spend de money.

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It can.

With enough money nigerian female students will truly luv ya.

I genuinely think that giving women money\things (not mouth) truly makes them think you do really luv them in naija.

susbsequently, they luv you right back.

Wealth triggers affection in most women irrespective of age issues.

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It most Definitely can.

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Yes,but such love doesn't last long it easily fades away.

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First and foremost, they've already found love. He's already taken the time to let her know the kind of man he is. When he had money, he got to meet her, give her a wonderful time. Now, if you have seen various married couples, you'd know that they way things were when they were courting is different from how things become when they get married. They tone down the fun and get very serious, but that don't mean they don't love each other.

They will still love each other, but the fun won't be as much as it used to be.

Anyway, their relationship ended more than a decade ago, not because they got broke, but for the fact that each couldn't give up their RELIGION for the other's.

They're both now happily married to other people. Thank you.

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If money can't buy love then ladies on nairaland: Assuming your present lover is a road side mechanic with no workshop, find it hard to feed himself accordingly living in a one room rented apartment with backyard kitchen, Toilet and Bathroom, can't afford to at least appreciate u with gifts and give you surprises. Will you fall in love with him. We are only deceiving ourselves with this love thing with we human the kind of love we proclaim is circumstantial and conditional take it or leave money rules it makes a man a man and buy all things good food, good sex, good women, love, think of anything apart from your soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Good forbid but what happens when he looses his job and can't afford to travel ? will your sister leave him ?

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I see you're still not getting the issue here. Consider a woman that is richer than her man. She's not a golddigger. But a man must be able to afford the things that will provide romance in the relationship. How do you meet her in the first place if you don't go to expensive places? How do you take her out if you don't have money? How you going to take her on a holiday or even meet her up in Europe.

There was a time my sister was dating the MD of NICON Insurance. She worked in an oil company and she used to go to Europe a lot courtesy her company, but whenever he called her and she was missing him, he'd just get on a plane and go check her up. Tell me that is not just the coolest thing or that would not require money.

If I could take a few weekends off to go check my girl up in the UK, our love won't be dying now. Abi?

The problem is, when people think of money buying love, they're reasoning is of purchasing a relationship with cash. That's not all It's about my friend.

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money can buy love in nigeria.nigerian girls eye n love only understand the word money.tried n tested.

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It's a simple thing, money can't buy love, some African ladies pretend to be in love with some one just because he is rich, but such money love don't last cause when it comes to the trying times, when there is no money she'll run away into another arm, that is what most Nigerian ladies pactise!!!

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Many people don't know how to use money.

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Money can only buy time. It can never buy love.

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Absolutely no. This is a mistake most guys fall into.

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@mssiah

Haba,sex na food??

women do not live by sex alone,but by the Word(LOVE).

Believe dat!

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I THINK THE ISSUE HAS BEEN PROPERLY ADDRESS.

I REST MY CASE.

THERE HAS TO BE AN INITIAL ATTRACTION FOR LOVE TO BUILD.IN MOST CASES THE ATTRACTION IS FINANCIAL STABILITY.

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hmm,

will u fall in love with someone who is in rags or is a begger?guys answer now?

it will be 0.00000000009 % of u that will.

so if u wont fall in love with someone like that.y do u think we will.

fine,i don't need any guy's moni,but he must comfortable,even if he can't provide for me!

and believe me as much as i like to fall in love-it would not be with someone who is poor in cash n furture.he may not have a car,good house etc but d future should be very bright n i am seeing his efforts.

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For me, i don't think there is nothing like Love at first site, but i do believe people can like you at first site and

develop a lot of feeling for you. Loving someone takes a process, it doesn't happen in one day.

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Yep,

You have said it all,,there has to be an initial attraction for love to develop.It could be anything.Financial Stability,being handsome ,smart etc.

Samething applies to men,there has to be an initial attraction for a man to be attracted to a lady and to finally fall in love.

A man will not wake up one day and marry and ugly ,neither will a lady wake up one day and marry a poor.

This raises another complex question.Does Love at first sight exist?

Love is like life,very complex.

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Love is something nobody can't just pay for like that, like we pay for sex. My point is that something leads to somebody falling in

love with you. A woman can't just fall in love with a man for no reason. There is something that we men possess that make a woman

fall in love with us and after they have fallen in love, it becomes unconditional. A man that gives a woman financial support and the

woman needed it, she might not find the man attractive initially, but just because she thinks the man care so much about her,

she will eventually start loving the man and find herself in love. A man's financial, moral and emotional support mostly gives a

woman the reason to love a man.

Financial support is very important to the ladies, they might not ask for it, but use your common sense, it

also help the love she has for you grow. That will also reduce the chances of her cheating on you.

Like the ladies says " WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY"

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Love is spiritual and cannot be explained.It is unconditional,no one ever understands.

I do agree anyway that a woman who is in love can still cheat.But this is under extreme condition.Like you being out of the country for five years and other reasons.Not that is justifies her action.But that is reality.Some women will claim they can stay without sex for five years.But I know that is a bloody lie.

It is good for a man to be financially stable ,poverty is a disease and can create lot of challenges and temptation for the woman.

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Attention and love is different .

When if you have money you have many friends and girls fighting over you.Try to imagine what happens when the money is gone.Although money can get attention.Attimes Attention can develop to love.

I have to be sincere some Nigerian girls think that a man is to carry the whole faamily burden and tend not to go for love but for wealthy men

,Not that i BLAME.If you dont love a man there is bound to be problems in the marriage.

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Wnt say much pal "money 4 hand back 4 ground.

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so u think your money can buy a woman's love??

then u must be told the truth,ut money can only buy u a woman's pretense but not love,try to always remember that!!

but just curious,au much do u think u can offer a woman for her love??mr rich man

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An attractive, responsible, caring, God fearing, educated beautiful girl will be able to get my love.

Different things can give you a chance of getting a woman's love and money is one of them.

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@Kojeiwa

au much can buy yur love??

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So what can buy love?

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I think money can buy you love but not by direct purchase. Money can afford you a lifestyle that will attract and sustain love.

With absolutely no money, can you even go on a date to start with?

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Kojeiwa,i think you are finding it difficult to differentiate between love and attention/fake friends/sex.I don't believe money can buy you love, forget about broke brothers or not.It may actually make you have the attention of lady and probably have sex with her but you'll know you haven't bought her love for you the period you are broke,she will immediately be thinking of leaving you for someone she really loves/someone else that is ready to buy her attention, don't forget that thing that pushed her to you in the first case still lives in her.

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o yes! money do buy love, bt only 4 sum tyme i.e. as soon as there's no more money, the luv fades away.

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Dude, women don't need money to buy a man's love. They have other powerful possession to buy a

man's love other than money.

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The fact that a woman loves you doesn't mean she will not cheat on you, is just that the chances

that they will cheat will be slim. Money means a lot to most women, including Nigerian women.

Is only those broke brothers that don't want to believe money is a source for love.

Try to marry an Igbo woman and tell her family you can't afford to pay her bride price and

that money don't buy love, and see if they will give her to you without paying bride price.

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Money can get you the attention of a lady.Can buy sex,fake friends,popularity e.t.c

If you are in luck and if she is meant for you, love might develop.This is only a probability 80/20.In most situation.The woman is with you because of the money especially if she comes from a very poor back ground .

Money can never buy you love.If a woman marries you because of money,there is high tendency she wil cheat on you after marriage.But when a woman loves you,she will not do such.

My brodas money can never and will never buy love.

I am talking from experience.

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My dear money don't buy sex from only prostitute nowadays anymore. Even if you a cute guy,

decent girls still want you to have something going on for your life, meaning they want

to know you have a good job, what does a good job do? bring in the cash.

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money can only buy you sex from a prostitute

If sex equalls love for you then you can buy love

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sometimes money can sure buy love.

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i totally agree with you

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Every women has something that they like mostly about a man, It could be because

he is handsome or funny or responsible or caring or rich. If the man posses what she likes, that gives

her the chance to get to know the man and maybe eventually fall in love. Women see a man's

richness as a sign of success and women likes when a man is successful.

Money might not directly buy love, but it could be a source of love, just like a man's personality

could be a source of love.

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Kojeiwa, money has wings and do fly, whatever happens to all the old names that we used to hear in nigeria that has money?

The most important thing is love, and trust me, Love covers all, although, love with no future is uselessly useless sha.

So Love is good and Money plus Love do wonders.

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so koje,money gets you the attention then maybe you get to fall in love from there,interesting, its takes much more,from the look of things

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Most people that are rich don't easily run out of cash like that, and moreover if she is already

in love and they have gone far in the relationship, she is already comfortable with the man,

money won't matter to her anymore. When a woman has finally given up their love to a

man, they don't just easily take it away like that, women have pretty strong emotion and attachement.

Even if the man become poor. Believe me

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kojeiwa, just wait till the money finish, then, you will know that money cant buy love, cos same man with all the love that grown and developed, will be un-develop and loose all the growth, lol

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A woman might intend to date a man because of his money, but when they start to

have sex and spend more time with each other, feelings start to get involved, eventually

she find herself in love. On the long run, money has just bought love.

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Love could buy you sex, the body of the woman, but not the heart of a woman, cos that is where the love so, Money cant buy love.

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i think i am looking out,to what the guyz think too,guys ,can a lady buy ur love with her money ,a lot of money ,if u get what i mean

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Money buys you things simple

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Yeah, money can buy love but it wont be a genuine love.

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you will see that no lady is reply your topic, why? because it points an accusing finger at all of them, or maybe it doesn't make sense.

Post another topic friend

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