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Can Someone Fan Me? She Betrayed Me

Can someone tell me what to do, this is the girl that i have surrender all my life for, for almost 7 years.

She live in Ibadan while i saty in lagos but i have base in ibadan also, i do travel a lot, just yesterday i went to her place in ibadan without letting her know that im coming, i met her and we play together the way we normally do, later i try to check messages on her phone, first thing i saw was ololu-ifemi on her phone later i check sent items folder i saw her message sent to that same guy named ololu-ifemi that "Honey try to take it easy God is in control of everything, honey i wish you the best and allways remember that i love you. bye sweet dream." I was like a gost when i finished with the message, and this is the girl that i trust in all my life she was like my mother, my sister, my twin second, and my intimate, i was confused i don't know what to do, later i asked her, said she's just met the guy early this month, and she's intensionally did it because I didnt treat her the way she want, that im too strict, she also said that i should go outside  i definitely see my lover, that that's not the end of the road, that she is very sory about it, I reply her back that you don't have point because if you want to do such a thing not until you met someone else, you should have told ealy that sorry you are no more interested in our relationship, she begin to cry that she was so sorry that she hurt me and i should please give her the last chance that she will make the corrections and try to cut that guy off by changing her mobile line and someother things, and she is begging not to tell her mummy. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I GIVE HER THE LAST CHANCE OR NOT? PLEASE ASSIST ME ON THIS ISSUE IM CONFUSED. COS I LOVE HER SO MUCH BUT I HATE DOUBLE DATING.

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GBAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

No be small thing my guy i seconded kalixx1 that is the true word

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Omo run o. This chick will take another seven years from your life and still dump you. Except you are richer than her new guy. Please, I know it will be difficult for you. But try and get her out of your life. Seriously, you will regret remaining in this relationship, if you do not heed to the hand writing on the wall.

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to date or not to date

that is the question

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@poster,

The girl played u big time.

up to u . . . if u think she'll change maybe u shld forgive her . . .if not then bounce her end and find someone else. . and who lives in lagos this time.

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give her a last chance.its not wrong to do wrong,its only wrong to stay wrong

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That should teach you to mind your own business.  When you are off "base" from Lagos and shuttle from Ibadan to Lagos. . .does she check your phone?

Well, like the saying goes. . .seek and ye shall find.  Now faint in peace and don't ever wake up. You hate double dating abi?  That is what happens when you date someone for fourty years without marriage. . .the girl has learned what any wise girl in this world should do. . . never to put all her eggs in one basket.  What are you doing dating for 7 years?  Are you not old enough to get married?

Anyone dating me for 7 years just to phock and play should be ready for the same treatment.

Good for you.

Unnn Tooooooooooooooooooooooor! Showing you the white portion of my eyes!

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I really cant tell you waht you could do but i just cant help wondering how you guys could be dating for 7 years. How old are you Guys? Long dating of courtship is not always the best man. It gives room for a whole lot of distractions.

Equally i dont understand the gal about throwing her SIM away so the Guy cant call her again. There sure are other ways of them contacting each other.

Ask yourself some questions and then trying answering them. Define you relationsip with the Gal before you make your reconcilatory or departure move.

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Can someone fan me? She betrayed me.

What is the meaning? "Fan"?

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