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Can Two Men Share The Same Bed?

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Hey guys, I know this might not be the right place to post this thread but I have a reason for posting em here, cuz a lot of pals come in here,  This friend of mine really need you opinion.

As he told me:

I have a room mate who is very much older than me. When I moved out of my family house. I rented apartment  which I share with a friend. He bought a coach and while I was sleeping on it, he wasn't happy about that. I later after one month bought a whole set of King size bed worth $1850 . The point is that I don't sleep with a male in the same bed I can manage and wouldn't mind if any of my close relative. Now this guy will sneak into the bed to lay down then I will because of my habit leave to the living room. I am getting tired of sleeping still in the living room when I have a cool bed to sleep on. What do you think I do about this please please reasonable suggestion will be appreciated. I respect his age but I am beginning to think that age got nothing to do with this,

Note: I am a male,  African/American (Nigerian) I just wanna know the proper way to direct this issue to him, I wanna still  share then appartment with him until i gather enough capital and properties to move.

Thank you people. 

FYI This is from a friend and not in anyway from REALITY101

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dont see why or why not @ topic.

free world.

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You gon mess around and wake up with a lil friend visiting the brown canal,

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Its not pretense. 5-10 years ago, i didn't have no resentment sharing a bed with another man but considering the latest development,you can't be too sure of anyone else. You will be astounded when your pal lays a pipe up in your Bottom' at night, TOL. LOL.

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What a thread! Everyone is just pretending, hmmm.

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What a shame everyone is pretending !!!!!!!!

Nothing is wrong to share thesame bed with your room mate unless you are( insecure or gay )that the older guy will find out and get mad at u if not then no PROPS

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bros, better tie up your 'kini' everynight, plug the poo hole and keep a big stick handy. i am neva going to do or accept sleeping with a guy on the same bed. no not until now till when i am old.

but it might be delicate to start an argument when you still need the as a room mate. else leave the place for him and find your own. how are you gonna be a man. don't even let your chic hear of this. it will be scary to them, homo thugs and stuff.

life is hard, tough decisions. you never know. all call for ACTION!!!!. tell the what is bothering you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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if he is not a gay, there is nothing wrong. but if u personally don't like it, dats different thing altogether, communicate to him politely he wil undstand, But note ur intention may be misinterpretd as selfish

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people sleep on bed(s) whenever there no options that is to answer the question from the topic.

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Hey! The dude try buy bed $1,850. Shey na h20 bed?That alone would rent an apt in abj

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It depends on why you are leaving together.To me their is nothing wrong with it.

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wait and notice if he starts developing attraction wit u. Cos som habits have started erupting in the country. Same sex are getn common nowadays

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Poster, Wisdom they say is the principal thing, in all thy getting get wisdom. There is no way u tell himm that will not feel bad, Sooner than later u will get separated , don't act funny but let us actions speak louder than ur voice. hope u get the message (Wisdom)

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be patient , everything will be ok soon

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This is the kind of story that makes headline in NairaLand, idiotic and non sensical. If you cant share a bed with a man, then you have a problem, abeg.

Watch as this topic goes into 69 pages very soon.

and what is romantic in this topic to occupy the front page and the romance section?

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Reality101 i am in Missouri City, Surburbs.

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Men are so cluelesss,

The girl tryna get something started, and you talking about a damn movie, YOU MAKE ME SICK REALITY,

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ok cough well well ok, Damn this movies is cool.

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Okay Imma need to measure the balls,

I have to make ball huggers,

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Reality and Vic,

I heard that you guys want me to make you some pink outfit for Halloween? Should I put Sugar Lip 1 and Sugar Lip 2 on the back of the outfits?

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Well the word sugar get me all confused because there this gay dude who I absolutely love to pieces, he name is sugar boo, and every time I hear sugar, i think of his flamming azz,

I am not surprise of a gay bar named sugarland, I was floored when I saw a gay organization called SUGAR LIPS,

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Why do sugarland sound like a gay village,

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Yeah! Sugarland was kinda boring, the whole place was really hot and dry when I was there.Thought I was in the desert.And most of the drivers there are something else!

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I hope that condition isn't a visit to boring azz sugarland!

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Sweetie, its not you that your talking about in this topic right?

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I am not bored, merely a resurrector! (throwing dishes on ground and sticking tongue out at Reality)

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I see you still tryna get people to visit BORING AZZ SUGARLAND,

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I dont know Udezue. Sugarland na una rich people dey stay that area o.

I throway salute

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Sugarland Area, U know Udez?

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Which part of H-town do you live? I lived in the SW close to Galleria

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NO job @ all, I live on food stamp do u have problem with that?

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O.k, truce then.

But you have many posts on NL o! I joined since 2008 and don't have as much posts as you that just joined this year.

Do you work from home?

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lol, I know about Dez no clue bout Aloy Emeka nor you, So which

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How many of us dey H town self, i only thought it was Aloy-emeka and Udezue. So we plenty?

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^^^^Just as I thought, I knew you had nothing to say to me.Whatever!!!

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anther mumu thread in the homepage.

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he face his own side, you face your own side

. nothing spoil

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So you find nothing wrong in men [not related] gisting away in each others bed?

We're not talking about situations where they have no other choice.  If you and your roommates had your own bedroom and bed, would you still want your male friend to be "gisting" away regularly in your bed?

Whatever happened to gisting in the kitchen or living room?

Me and my roomy sometimes watch movies in each other's room/bed, but when it comes time to sleep, she's gotta bounce.

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Why would it be okay for two women to share a bed which they do often, but not for two men to share one. I might think of sharing a King size bed, but if i notice any gay tendencies I will castrate him. Tufia! Not my Bottom please! I hate Bottom bandits!

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Whats the big deal with that?

While in School in Ife I shared bed with guys regularly when like 13 boys stay in the same room

We would just sleep in "69" position even some guys do "69" on upper bunk.

Atimes when I go home my brother sleeps on my bed cos we gist way into the night

Its only in America that people ascribe meanings to issues like that

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Ikeke-Idi I enjoy your posts. Houston, TX here.

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Ha! Well, Its not cool to share the same bed every night with another man. Those days are gone, Hustle and get your own place. Or, tell the bros to pick his own nights with the bed while to have the rest.

But if he's going to throw you out because of this, then, don't complain o.

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i don't think there's anything wrong in two men sharing a bed, as long as neither is gay there'll be nothing sexual about it. of course, they both have to be clothed.

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@ndipe i feel you people like you your hubby na to criticize i love that @OP defend your sharp sharp

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@Onyema1

YOU ARE RIGHT, MOST REALLY PEOPLE HAVE POLLUTED MINDS.

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Most people here just have grossly polluted mind.  What's the big deal in 2 guys or even 4 guys sharing the same bed.  back then at Kenneth Dike Hall we sleep 6 guys in a room in the same foam.  Nothing  even crosses any body's mind and every body is happy sleeping that way.  Some times you go visit your guys and you feel like sleeping over without hassles.  Well I guess it's part of the packages in America where about 30% of men are homo or the tendency to become one.  @OP you cannot live in the same room with someone and not want to share your pptys.  if you want that privacy move out to your own apartment that's how big boys do it.

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I think two men can share the same bed as long as their backs face each other. One persons back should not face another persons front, in case of incasity.

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