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Can U 4give your Guy/girl 4 Cheating?

would you forgive your girl/guy if he or she confesses to you on how you were cheated on?

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To be honest when I was younger, I used to say I"ll never forgive such things, but sincerly life is no White or bLACK, it depends on many things but one thing is sure: I'll refuse to be humiliated many times, it means if it's a mistake (because no one is perfect) I can forgive you even though you will have to regain my trust, but if this is a man who can't control himself, then I'll go

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I have forgiven the only girl/woman who has cheated on me even without her asking for forgiveness.

I have forgiven her, because I LOVE MY PEACE OF MIND.

MY PEACE OF MIND IS ACTUALLY WHY I AM STILL SINGLE, BECAUSE I DON'T WANT ANY PALAVER OR WAHALA IN MY LIFE.

MOST WOMEN COME WITH THEIR PAST PALAVER AND WAHALA AND I HAVE A LOT ON MY TABLE TO BE TROUBLED BY PERSONAL AND SELFISH PASSIONS AND POSSESSIONS.

My life work requires peace of mind without selfish distractions.

Just forgive and fill your mind with pure, true love and peace of mind.

UN-FORGIVENESS IS WITCHCRAFT.

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I will forgive her if she wasn't bought over by her slu/tiness or greed. Otherwise, i will get her a/ss kicked out so fast it will make her head spin.

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It hurts terribly when someone you've entrusted your heart to breaks your trust and disrespects you by cheating.

It is never okay to cheat. Unacceptable. Even if you forgive, don't forget or accept or make amends.

Move the hell on.

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then u have no choice but 4give him or her

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It's areally hard to forgive him/her but if you really love him you should forgive him.

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what if you were married?

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"Over my dead body"!!! that'd av been my answer few months ago, but now; my girl cheated, told me, promised it was over but still went on to break-up our relationship cos of the guy. She wants to come back now and even though i'm stalling and forming i know within meself that i'lll still take ha back. Its crazy the things we do for love!!!

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I can forgive her,

but i won't date her any longer .

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yes bros true love no dey play wayo, but some ladies go say na mistake. lets just say she doesn't know what came over her.

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Boyalinco Y not contribute ur own make we see who dey yarn opata?

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@debojyde;u dey yan opata

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BUT by god ,s grace it will never happen to me sha!Kai-i can,t even start to imagine it.Make i comot this thread.

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I can forgive but i can,t forget.If this happens to me ,i go fashi the girl sharp sharp.But i won,t hate her forever-i mean as a guy you might be down for a while but within a short time,u 4get it and continue life(woman plenty for town).The fact that you broke up with her doesn,t mean you didn,t forgive her,it just means you can no longer trust her.If i meet her anywhere in the future i would still say hello.

As for the guys who bring down heaven and earth on the guy who their girl cheats with,i feel that is a totally uneccessary act.You suppose they thank God say u even catch the girl(what if you didin,t catch her and you end up marrying her)?Besides,"Guys will always be dogs"the fact that a girl has a man doesn,t stop me from going for her(Na that one sweet pass self).It is up to the girl to keep her head straight because if you have a girl that is soooo sexy guys like you and me will always try to get a taste of that apple pie.

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you shouldnt really.

crossing that line is bad enuff.

it symbolises the fact that all respect has diminished.

you know your mate better, if he wont change move on.

PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA.

Besides, that suff is bad for your self esteem big time. Just get out, and move on.

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well it easier said than done,i think i can forgive but dont know if i can forget,when and if i get to the bridge ill cross it,until then,

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No i wont cos if she catches me cheating i dont expect her to 4give me,love or no love

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It depends on the circumstances of cheating, but if she is someone am already getting tired of, i will forgive her for it!

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Funny enough, used to have a boyfriend i love so much that i decided if ever he was going to cheat on me, i would definitely forgive him. That was because i loved him  but unfortunately, we didnt break up on cheating ground, it just happened recently and its still tearing me apart. It was a thing we both could not help. Dont think am going to love that same way anymore though.

So its possible to not only forgive but forget too if u are in love.

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well that is how i am and will continue to be . It hasnt hurt me so far. Besides i am still friends with a guy that cheated on me so thats that. I dont have to remain in the relationship, nobody HAS to do anything. My opinion, my way, works for me. Others may forgive and carry on, i dont and i certainly dont stay bitter either. My attitude towards relationships is very easy going. Plenty fish in the sea like you say innit

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Would you rather prefare keeping the truth from you?, allowing it to keep hurting his feelings until you both get married & he opens up at a later time?. If you say you have really forgiven him then you have to give him a second chance, that will show you have forgiven him from your heart. for him being able to open up without you finding out that means he will not continue, it simply shows how much he loves you (i.e. not being able to live with the guilt of cheating on his love)

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oh i know of strings of people that have cheated only once and never tried it again when they saw the repercussion.

@busta

yeah, there is something really wrong with that statement.

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Well how many people have heard about someone only cheating once? Cheating isn't just a one time thing, well for most people.

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that is a fib. that you did it once doesnt mean you gon continue. if the person is sincere about not doing it again, give the person another chance. we all humans.

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I would forgive them, but that doesn't mean I'd still be in a relationship with someone who cheated. Once you start, you're prone to continue. No point in sticking around and waiting to get my heart broken again. But if after a while, I see a reason to trust them again, I may reconsider.

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yeah i will forgive her and i will give her another chance. i am dat merciful except she wont be getting some from me in a while and i know how to make her conscience hurt her. diddy forgives but tortures your conscience.

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all yall saying i can't forgive or i'll forgive but can't get back y can't yall put urself in that shoe

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For cheating on me? YES, To get back together or continue the relatioship ?NO . I just take it the relationship is over and move on , not a problem there is no rule that says you must be long suffering please. Dont have time or energy for relationship games. If he cheats, it shows he doesnt want to be with me. If i cheated i wont expect forgiveness. It mustn't have meant that much to all involved if you got to  cheat.

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to hell is human to 4give is divine.so am human i shd be abe to 4give.

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yes if he is sincere,and if he is worth it i would take him back.

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I tink a similar topic already exists bt @topic, forgiving someone is more about u than the person ure 4givin,so no matter how much it hurts i sure will 4give for ma peace sake. Bt takin him back might be a waste coz i dnt tink i'd trust him anymore. It depends on d circumstances that led 2d cheatin sha

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one thing is that if you forgive them then you are giving them license to cheat again, i would forgive him but there is no way in the world i am going to take him back, i can't be someone's sucker.

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are u in LOVE?thats question u have to ask youself.if u are,then thats what love is , ability to forgive to carry on

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@topic

depends, he/she might be really sorry and its good to forgive but the question is if u wanna take em back or not.

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seeing ur name in here grosses me out. Your sense of reasoning is no diff. from a 2yr old.

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4 GIVE ABI 5 GIVE WETIN U TALK.confessing to me is an insult already.Infact it is an insult upon injuryI will go batshit with her.

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It is very hard but u love u can forgive and overlook it, But true love dont cheat i guess

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Yes. Again and again. Many times over [sigh] what a waste,

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