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Can U Date Or Marry A Disabled Man Or Woman?

Hi guys, i have a very good friend, She is tall, pretty, polite, intelligent and well educated but she is deaf, Can u date or marry someone that is disabled?

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I am a disabled man of 34 years from India, a bachelor. I proposed many girls for marriage but nobody is willing to marry me. Everybody saying I am looking good and you are so loving etc etc but i could understand that it is only a kind of speech coming from their mouth. Actually most of the people wont like to live with disabled people in my experience. For instance once I registered in a matrimony site with all genuine profile with picture including my difficulties not in one matrimony nearly 8 sites. Unfortunately there was no reply. But after some months i changed my profile with the same picture without showing my disability, fortunately there was more than 1000 call naturally and at the end of conversation on phone calls I used to tell them that I would like to "

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m nt able to walk.. (in others word,cripled or handicap as people or world say)

i hv no bstfrnds .... it make me feel shattered wen. ppl coz of my problem hastitate to talk to me , communicate... i feel ahh

i ws the person full of life n postivity m.still but its geting fade by watchng ppl reaction...

my luks r gud ,m.educated but known m crippled every1 goes as m.alien.

i dont think can ny 1 loves me truely.

can.ny1?

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Agathamari

"what i'm saying is thet a physical disability means nothing and should never stop anyone from a relationship"

marvelous talk.

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actually me n a friend was talkin abt this- so long as the guy is good lookin

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Inesqor

may god bless u for those comment u made.

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Every man, every woman, all are disabled in one sphere of life or the other, physically, emotionally, intellectually, socially, financially, spiritually, etc.

The only thing is that some people handle theirs better, some people let it overwhelm them while yet other can manage to suppress it and use their other traits to mask their disability to their utmost advantage.

So I ask: for Gilligan's sake, Why not?

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Yes. I once dated a very beautiful physically challenged Igbo maiden and I was very proud of her.

All you need is humanity and not sympathy.

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Agathamari

so what are u trying to say?

if other countries forbid them does that mean we should do same?

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this guy no let god vex for u o.

so u mean say god make mistake?

mind u, some of them where not created like that,

some occured through accident.

what if u are opportuned to marry the most beautiful gurl in the world

after 3yrs of marraige with 2 beautiful kids, she had an accident and became disabled,

will u dump her with the 2 kids because of that?

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so u mean disabled are forbidden right?

are they not created from the same god?

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no problem with it at all, unless they are severly mentaly disabled then no because they cannot give proper consent and many countries forbid it

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I could.

Anyway, i wouldn't blame those who wouldn't.

Everyone knows what s/he can bear.

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SHE CAN BE BLIND

SHE CAN BE DEAF

SHE CAN BE DUMB

SHE CAN EVEN BE A CRIPPLE BUT SO LONG AS SHE CAN BREATH, ,   I CAN'T WAIT TO SAY "I DO"

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A friend said to me "if it bothers you and you can't see the person past the disability, then don't" This makes sense to me because if you really love the person, none of that stuff matters!

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@ indie 22, thats so true, she can rightly pass as one of the most intelligent in our class, even more intelligent than i.

@ mstom, u r so right. Ur friend is so lucky, the type of women dat can accept pple with such disability is so hard to cme accross.

@ highland, tell tom am expecting my own i.v.

@ snowflakes, no girl want to be treated as a sex object and i knw u dnt want a girl 2 treat u like one either

@ all, thanks 4 ur comments, i can marry a disabled person too cos i have had the priviledge of knwing one ( she wasn't born deaf) , she is so caring and a perfect friend despite the fact dat she was so cold 2 me (my assumption) when we first met.

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Being disabled is not a predicament, most of them are actually highly gifted, if they make you happy and ure able to look past their disability, then its all well and good.

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I can.

She needs to be confident of herself though. No one is perfect. People have a cross that they carry too. It is said that a chicken sweats. It is the feathers that hides it. I have a friend who is born blind, intelligent, a journalist and is happily married to a beautiful woman. If one can communicate and the love for each other is there, then I would say go ahead. one has to be determined though to fight for what he believes in cos people would discourage the relationship like they do to any other relationship.

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She should hope 4 her own lover. Recent events show hw pple wt 2 eyes geting married to totally blind or deaf lover on TV. So her case is not d end.

My friend john(not d realname,he can see dis thread) is cripple on both leg, so he uses wheel or hand to move around but has a girl that i stil wonder hw come she got herself into loving john.

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Yes I would marry someone with a disability. (if I happen to fall in love with em) I would date such a person.

I would want to feel loved and to love that person and not be concerned with the disability.as long as their heart and their feelings is not disabled.

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nothing wrong in that, so far i can communicate with her in some way and we love each other. it will surprise you to know thatt disabled people are better spouses.

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To be sincere it is easy to say but difficult to do

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This topic's been done to death, but still. . .

I would, all depends on the level of disability, and how I felt about the girl in question.

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yes she has a point and she doent have a point becos in life a lot of folks walk wiv one deformity or the other but please do u know Cobhams he is living life to the fullest pls let her embrace life.

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My friend doesn't feel like someone can truely love her and never get tired of her, she doesn't socialize, and she gets alot of male attention becos she is attractive, but she feels lyk they will reject her once they find out abt her disability. So i just posted this topic to help her discover pple's opinion on her predicament.

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luving is a choice @poster I wud do it a 1000 times provided I have seen she posses qualities I luk 4 in a woman

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What if u ve been dating the person and he/she had an accident and become disabled, will u leave him/her because of dat? Does disability makes someone any less a human being?

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What is wrong wit that?

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