Can u go back to a former boyfriend and marry him after he stopped calling you for over 2 yrs even wen u do? Such dt at d end of d day, u stopped calg 2 and started a new life afresh.
His reasons been that he got misinformed about an issue and was expecting u to tell him. But d lady did not and he decided to withdraw to his shell.
In those 2 long yrs, he had a girlfriend and decided 2 call it quits with her. U also had a boyfriend and even though he was not ur kind of man and u were not happy even though u tried loving him all those while , u still find urself crying in the closet. (The guy went all d way to rent a very expensive 3 bedroom apartment as he was convinced and wants 2 marry d lady).
Whereas the 1st guy came back one day and started begging sayg he was misinformed and all that, that he wants her back. She told him she had a guy, he told him he has a girl 2 dt he had 2 leave her too since he was not happy , though it hurts.Now, this lady loves d 1st guy very much, but, she was committed 2 d other guy. She even told d other guy about wat was happening and he got mad.
Things actually went from good 2 worse, to bad as d 2nd guy stopped trusting her even though she never actually 4 once double-dated him (she was not really in love with him anyway 'coz he was not her kind of man , she stayed with him 'coz, he has done 2 much 4 her willingly in so many ways, by sacrificing his time, money, resources etc on her even though she tried stoppg him most times).
Now, d 1st guy is on bended knew saying d lady shld av been open 2 him in d beginning on all issues dt he did not want any problem or fall in2 a trap, dt dt was y he kept distant all those while. He told his friends, 2 beg d lady 4 him and other relevant ppl on this issue while promising he will continue loving her. He even promised marrying her immediately if she consented as he has known d truth 2 all wat caused d mix-up then.
The question now is should d lady return to him or stick with d 2nd guy who have now taken things so hard and even calls her names , dirty names , (sayg she is double-dating which she is not. She regretted telling him anything) ,
She is in need of answers as this is a critical case in her life now.
One more tin is d 2nd guy has turned aggressive sayg he can't stand infidelity etc. The lady's family has intervened and he spoke harsely to them includg d girl's mother , he later regretted as they say its up 2 her 2 decide if she still wants him as she has withdrawn from him 2 as d heat was so much from him dt he almost beat her up. He even spoilled her phone on one occasion after wanting to collect her phone 2 know who was callg her ,
The 2nd guy has come begging d lady on bended knees also sayg he's sorry that he has now learnt his lesson , but d lady is still adamant sayg she need 2 think over d issue very well ,
D first guy have also gone 2 d lady family explainig 2 them all wat happened then and y there was break in communication , and y he knows she is d 1 4 him.
D lady is in a dilemma , opinions please!