i need your ideas on this people
mennn i kant say if mine is workin or not so i nid ur views on this, as well, well i am into one which is 1yr 3months, shes based somewher and i am based elsewher, we c like 1ce in 2-3months and durin that time,i happen 2 see that she gets alot of toasters and guys arund everywher in her fone,some even claim 2 b her missin rib abi na shes his missin rib, so annoyin,i happen 2 b in a serious relationship rite in my home town so it dosnt really bug me bt i really love her as well,she claims they are only wastin their time and does her best 2 keep me away 4rm her fone but no matter how she tries i stil get to check whatsup wit her,she doesnt even delete the msgs, she is the daughter of a wealthy man in her state so i guess thats whats kippin me wit her, she lacks respects,maners everytin i enjoy nothin just the beauty, all d same we just still dey 1kin so what kinda relationship is dis,she claims she love me most
mennn i kant say if mine is workin or not so i nid ur views on this, as well, well i am into one which is 1yr 3months, shes based somewher and i am based elsewher, we c like 1ce in 2-3months and durin that time,i happen 2 see that she gets alot of toasters and guys arund everywher in her fone,some even claim 2 b her missin rib abi na shes his missin rib, so annoyin,i happen 2 b in a serious relationship rite in my home town so it dosnt really bug me bt i really love her as well,she claims they are only wastin their time and does her best 2 keep me away 4rm her fone but no matter how she tries i stil get to check whatsup wit her,she doesnt even delete the msgs, she is the daughter of a wealthy man in her state so i guess thats whats kippin me wit her, she lacks respects,maners everytin i enjoy nothin just the beauty, all d same we just still dey 1kin so what kinda relationship is dis
I once had a long distance relationship (for a year). Now it has been four years and we're still together.
1) Trust your partner in whatever he /she does and it must work both ways
2) Be truthful to one another
3) Send each other meaningful and loving and memorable sms or email or letter (Do remind him on how handsome he is and how you really appreciate him)
4) Always support each other and give each other alot of recognition and encouragement
5) Do not be so pushy. Alot of relationship do not work if you contstanly call and sms your guy like 10 or more times a day. . . . . . . . Ad if you go asking so many questions about his whereabouts, he will get very annoyed and might just leave you.
6) Try to make efforts to see each other whenever possible
long distance relationship is quite challenging but if u can earn that trust, it will definitly work. am into one and its three yrs old. these era of free midnight talk and cheap sms, there shouldn't be much problem. the only missing link is the physical contact but its to make u guys strong.
Guys,t rili does happen, work and survive,it simply depends on d couples.for over 2years my gal has been away(yankee),we talk,chat,play like she s just next house and by morning we'll see eachoda again.
Yeah,gals come and go but as soon as they i tell 'em d truth and they fly,some melt like wax b4 flame.
D truth is IT S NOT EASY.
I bet it all depends on who is invloved
If you are an impatient person, don't venture into it
If you find it hard to trust people, don't try it
If you are not resilient, don't go near it.
As for me, out of site is out of mind. I need her close by especially in difficult times
My heart will most certyainly tilt towards that person that gives me more attention.
Sooo it a 50 50 game. If you are emotionally strong and physically capable to withstand the situation, you can do it.
Well, right now, i'm in a long distant relationship that has lasted for three years now and its still working. But men the thing no easy at all. Once in a while he visits and vice versa. I think its based on trust, commitment and love. A lot of us dont know what true love really entails, it has to do wt a lot of sacrifice and u hv to 'suffer' for whom u love ( I used that word for some reason), it's not just a bed of roses. Love endureth ALL things. Anyway, We are still praying that we will eat the fruits of our labour. Cheers
You can maitain a long distanced relatnshp and it will surely work out for real, i know what am telling you and i can't deny the reality in this fact cos am speaking from Xperince.
All you need is to pray to be lucky with the partner you'r about to meet i.e if you should me him/her, they should range between your expectations. and now that we have internet all around us, u both shuld exchange pics to know ur fate. but if you already know yourselves, the relatnshp can go on so long as the guy is caring from a far the girl will have no choice. i know women very well, it's what u give and how u gives it determines what and how you get it in return ok? so it works
the girl am dating today, i met her through muzik africa and i love her so much till date,
I can actually relate to this topic cos i was in a long distnce relationship and it did work.Though not easy(expensive as well u want to try how much phone calls, flight tickets to visit etc cost i dont even want to remember the money now)it works based on the level of commitment and also as someone said earlier God.I guess my husband really made me understand at some point that he really wanted to be with me no matter the physical barriers that actually existed.Gosh, we used to talk more than people who lived together.We knew what the other was doing at each particular point that people around us sometimes found it annoying(jealousy people).Like i remeber in the run up to our wedding he was talking to his bestman and i walked in.That one now thinking it was news said that he had found the their suits eventually after so much hassle and i said yea i already knew and he's like 'but he just left the shop.apparently we were on the phone througout the suit search with me giving ideas and alternatives.Even my mom used to ask if there was nothing we did not tell each other.We just knew that the best way to make it work was to communicate at all times.Fortunately i used to work in a telecomms firm in naija so i had relatively cheap calls.I am sure if he also quantified how much he spent on phone cards people would scream.but it was a sacrifice we both had to make as well as saving to travel to and fro.It was really difficult but i am glad its over now and i get to spend the rest of my life with man of my dreams.But make i no lie temptations would always arise and it did for me but i guess this where the level of commitment comes into play nad how much your feelings for that person is true.
honestly i was just thinkin of openin a topic on this cos thats what am goin thru now.it can work but it is hard!my gf and i talk trice everyday but howlong are we goin to do that.she is in lagos as well as me but she is the lock up inside house kind of girl.we ve been on for 2yrs now but i c her maybe 1ce in 2mths.she is sort of ok with the phonationship thou she sometimes seek to ee m.but me?am nt ooooooooo.all the touches smiles etc cant be replaced by the fone.
2 me, it does work! is it the sex thing that would not make it work or what?
so long there is communication, i believe in it.
take 4 instance,u are wedded and your husband was transfer abroad that later, he will process your papers 2 meet him up over there,and that may take him a year plus.
to those who doesn't believe in it, what would u do?
divorce him or what?