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Can U Pack Condoms In Your Husband's/bf's Travel Bag?

Was at a friend's bridal shower and an argument came up.

Some girl said she'd rather pack condoms in her husband's bags when he wants to travel instead of him giving her stds, Some girls supported while the others said it was encouraging the man to be unfaithful.What do'u think??

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Well we will just have to wait and see if you would actually do that , i hope we all dont fall prey to a thing like this. Being a single parent is not as easy as its glamoralized, Besides i will have my children to live for instead of me waiting on one human being called a man,

Ps am not hating on the guys but u men really have to step up your game,

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I don't agree with that, if I know he's cheating, I'd pack and go. HIV/AIDs no be small thing to joke with o

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Those women know the kind of men they have thats why. Godforbid i have such a man and if devil break im leg push am do that kind thing, that will still not be a license for me to put condoms in his bag.

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annoyed pained with the topic and the subsequent responses.Your response was ok.

Some women usually knows their husband is cheating on them but they don't care.Rather than reprimand or fight to get their husband back.They resort to buying condoms for him.What the hell?

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Ok, what do you deemed to be an "important issue"?

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And what do your record say about important issues when your statistics on Nairaland reveal you spend most of your time in the Forum games and Romance sections. Wouldn't it be quite distasteful if we go by your analogy, that you Hollandis should be or preferably are a woman because your contributions on NL has fallen less than what you deem as "important issues"?

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I am sorry did you miss the name of this particular forum:

ROMANCE

What else are we supposed to discuss in Romance other than Romance?

There are other sections where women contribute:

POLITICAL

RELIGION

FAMILY

FOOD

ETC.

Look around NL I am sure you will find women in other forums as well.

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I don't understand what you're getting at, hun.

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And how do you know they are ONLY interested in love and romance.

Addtionally why should it be sent to the recycle bin?

Maybe we have helped prevent some girl from ruining her marriage. Is that worthly of being discussed?

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What would he need the condoms for?

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i don't think its advisable i will never do such a thing

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Inteeeerrresting topic, even more interrrressssssting responses

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y ur ans come short, LOL

Newayz, bring 'em on: i'm bein educatd 4 real,4 free

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In the real world when husbands all of a sudden go for thier weekend or full week business trip and leave you behind.You honestly think he is not bonning somone, ha, i laf in french.

If i happen to pack some in his bag it would mean that I trust you enough and you seeing it shd reflect that even though i dont approve, its kind of a guilt trip thing, but it depends on the man you marry oooo some men dont just have that consience, it was a gene that mutated at birth, lol

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Never would I pack condoms, it's like admitting you've lost the battle before it's even started. Why send out such signals?? I hate the idea of accepting infidelity as a common thing and 'it happens'. It should be an outrage, yes I guess the woman believes she's looking out for herself, but she obviously is not willing to trust any man she might end up with, to be pre-empting things is such a dangerous route to take.

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Even if u're pretty sure he cheats, would dat be de best way to solve it?

Dat's really absurd to think of; how much more tryin it out.

If a gal tries it, she's not only tellin u dat she doesn't trust u, she's tellin her man dat she can/will neva trust him.

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Thank u jare, that is not even in the realm of a relationship. Some people say they are being proactive and I say they are being silly. I guess they feel like he their husband has a right to cheat. Lai lai not on my watch will I be packing such. If i ever get to that point, then I guess the relationship is as good as DEAD.

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No way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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im not traveling with him so why should he have condoms in his suitcase, to be used with who?

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What? No.

Unless, I'm coming along, no condoms.

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No.

packing condom in my bf/husbands bag? it simply means I'm encouraging him to sleep around.

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Hell to the NO!!!!!

If my husband/bf was so inclined as to cheat on me while traveling then I would think that he would at least respect me enough to get a condom and use it.

But under it all lies an even greater concern. The lack of trust.

If I was a male and found that my wife/gf had packed condoms in my travel bag I would be highly upset that she is so distrustful of me that she would do that.

If you cant trust your man to stay faithful while traveling then why the hell are in a r/s with him.

I would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever dream of packing condoms in his bag for him. If i ever did that the r/s is over.

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