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I was in a short term relationship with a girl. Nothing serious just friend with benefit type of relationship. She honestly told me that she's seeing someone but we could be friend then I said fine, then after some weeks we start getting down  . We've had sex without using CD'S Onces. But instantly took some things to get rid of it that night, then I stop seeing her. We talk on phone rarely and see each other maybe onces in a week. I stopped calling her when I hear people saying they saw her with a guy  or something like that. Then she called me after 6-7 month told me that she's pregnant and that I am resposible for it LOL. I don't know what to think ,? Help, can this be possible . Is 7 month the best tyme for her to tell me that she is pregnant or she has tried many guys and finally want to put that on me,

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when you get the child call him atutuboyoyo

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Okay oooooo, LOL, I will try

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Well, i am sure things will be settled in two months, go for a DNA test, and give us the results will ya?

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Thanks alot, I can't wait till this's over. I will do the DNA test. I bit my dad's decision is going to be YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN NOW BUDDY. My mom will be cool wit it thru, I don't know why she nail me down. Menstrogen ain't working then, God desired.

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Ignore the whole situation

Only reason why she's now pining it on you si cos you asked her about it and she figured you'd be the best scapegoat. If she had a leg to stand on, I bet her family would have seen you by now

Avoid her and talking about her until she give sbirth and contacts you/

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We don't communicate much. I still wonder why she don't call me that much , she don't even disturb me with her parent but she keep telling people that I am responsible. I don't know if she's scared to call or talk to me, for 7 month now I have not talk with her in person. She told few of my pals that my nbr is not going through. While I recieve calls everyday, Kinda weird

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i really wonder what you are seeking on this Land

Thats all.

You must face the conseQ of your actions

And im too glad, the baby is alive and not MURDERED!!!!!

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aight I can see why you can't baby sit for me then. But, If I have to do the DNA . She will have to call her boyfriend that she told me about with me that day and the other guy in her estate . We will go together and do it for 3 of us. then I will then think of facing my responsibilities. This's optional, I am not sure.

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Man!

Stop whining jo!

i tried to refrain from posting here,

What are you trying to get from Nairaland?

Go back to the Real world and sort yourself out!

Why didnt you think about the conseQ before getting into this rubbish

and you come here whining!

Puhleaaaase!!!!!

Han han, Myopic Puga!

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It's not that easy to take the baby, I wish you were in my shoes. Why I do her is because I do her before researching and I could just turn back the time. and Undo her, well I stop everything when I find out about her. I don't even have much time to know much about her before we start doing that poo, I can't stand being a father now, sucks. My future plan will be ruin wit dis poo I can't get it off my head

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Well, She took the menstrogen in my present.

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Dont know who told you poo about slat water. Pregnancy is different from toothache.

as for the other two, they should have worked. Did you WATCH her take them?

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dude, stop calling her.

if after the child is born and she still bothers you, tell her you'd like a paternity test and follow her

Simple.

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You cant do anything apart from DNA

I suggest you start saving

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I bought her Mestrogen and Postenor Instantly. and also I told her to drink water with salt, all the pro I learnt from peeps.

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D-reloaded , This's very funny but it real. I think the preg is 8 month now. She didnt even tell me that she was pregnant , someone called me that they saw her and they think she's pregnant. few weeks later she called and asked me if I am at home I said no, and she said I should call her when I return back, then I redial her number and ask her myself that someone told me that she's pregnant and she said yes. and she said I am responsible, She didnt tell me anything till I asked her .

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how far along is she now?

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@poster

na waooo,where has dat word self control run tooo,how will congee hold a guy and he'll forget to use a condom wen d babe aint d wife,same to women too

anyway oga poster i will advise u continue making love to her,so dat she wont have complications during labour,doctors advise every man to continue doing the jigijigi until a little before d due date,so dats my advise for u

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I will blame you for not having self control ! And as for the pregnancy; i think she is trying to play a fast one on you !

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