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Can You Change A Playa?

Can you change a playa?. Is it possible to love him/her so much, be patient with him/her, retrain his/her mind to become faithful to you?.

If no, why do so many women exercise patience and pray for their philandering husband to change?

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Make that PLAYERess!!!!

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But we are talking about whoring circles.

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In football circles, it means the most valuable player.

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Hence, you have the most coveted trophy as MVP and no it doesnt mean most valuable playa

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Of course.

I am a striker. . . . .I have a prolific goal scoring record.

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but you play on the field, right?

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Why will you even want to change a player? He is not the only guy in the world. Save yourself the stress

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it is much possible to change a playa but depend on you, but it something that take gradual process

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Playas never change.

The game changes (girlfriend, marriage, whatever), they change their methods.

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you mean "J HOE" , she is on her third marriage. married the last one only a couple of month after her engagement with ben Affleck fell through, it sounds more like DESPERATE to me.

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your cousin wasn't a PLAYA, he was a CHEATER, don't make the mistake of mistaking the two. most young man will cheat, its in our genes. we are not strong/experience enough to turn down toto at an early age,  control come with experience and our testosterone are at an all time high.

very few young man will turn down a toto if it was served to them on a plateau!

a cheater does cheats because the opportunity come his way,  the playa  goes "out of his way"/hunt for opportunites.

it's like a vampire that needs blood,  women being the blood. a player is NOT a man in search of the right woman or love, a playa is a man in search of CONQUESTS. don't mistake the two. a man searching for love IS and WILL never be a playa. it's an OXYMORON!!!!

a playa is in love with HIMSELF!

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They probably can change but I don't have to time to teach a man how to be a real man. That was his parent's job.

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You can take a child out of the ghetto, but you can't take the ghetto out of the child. A player would always be player.

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“Never try to teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and it annoys the pig.” Robert Heinlein

(Not to mean pigs can't sing)

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you can't change a playa. but a "playa" will change after meeting the person they luv on his/her own. so d idea of some people doin every thin dey can 2 change a guy is dumb. If he/she luvs u they'll change. how does a 16 yr old noe dis? because i have a 19 year old cousin who was a heartless player but changed after meetin his current girlfriend. (they've been 2gether 4 7 months now, n he's never cheated on her.

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in every game, a playa is substituted for another playa in other for the game to go on. or have you ever seen mikel taken off the field and replaced with atiku?

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St Funmi

Haba all in the name of changin Playa

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dont mind her

she is a difficult woman

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@tytaylor,

You don't seem to believe that a playa changes,they do change if it is a man but women i do doubt.

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and you are the Goal Keeper

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lots of players do change once they get dat once in a lifetime encounter with that particular girl they av a challenge getting

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Nobody can change anybody!!!

Change comes from within.

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na lie, its in their blood

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once a player finally meets sum1 he luvs there is a tendency to change

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@poster

the truth is u cant change a player.a player is one who is not interested in ur emotions but ur body.

the mistake most girls make is believing they can change a bad guy,only to complain that he broke their heart.

YOU MET HIM A PLAYER,U WILL LEAVE HIM A PLAYER.

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Ladies,u can change a playa,cos a playa is someone who tell d ladies that they aint poo.They have all it takes n what it takes to get into a ladies heart n in between her legs.Playa's do not fall in love,except u're not a true playa.So those of u sayin u can change a playa thats in love is lik buildin castle in d air.But u can still build that castle in d air,by havin some invisible pillars that suspends it,but for u to get the code for d invisible suspension is a secret that only playa's know.For u to change a true playa is by , . . , NO i wont spit out,before some nairaland playa's begin vex 4me. Anyway,the truth is by makin a playa fall in love wit u,that way u can change him,but u never can say a playa wAS in love wit u before he met u,that way u can change him,NO way

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i begged my latest chic to, but she couldnt even when she tried

i wish i could because its got so deep into me, its like a snare now

and the problem is that, its em' chics that wont leave this playa alone

the truth is that some playas wish they could change, but havent got who could change them, get it!

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You cannot change a playa, he can however choose to change for reasons best known to him. Some change cos they're getting mature, some change cos they now want something serious e.g. marriage, others change when they fall hopelessly in love with someone lucky. . . But no woman can change a man or even as much as force him to do things her way, dont ever think like that cos a guy can give u the impression u have succeeded but when u least expect, he just changes, and that one hurts even more cos u could be married with kids by then.

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you mean it's advisable for d woman to stay calm and eat poo from her cheating husband?

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i know guys can definitely change if they meet a girl they really like.

In all the cases i know of, the girls didnt nag, complain or show that they are worried.

the guys just stopped being playing

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i dnt tink "playa" mostly men can change, even after marriage they still play arround, but its easier for women to change after marriage

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of course!!!!! there are men that run away from love. not everybody wants to submit to love. like gangrene, just get rid of the affected limb.  we all know that love is like a drug that can bring you up but also bring you DOWN!!!!!!

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Are there men that r incapable of falling in love?

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it depends on what YOU describe as a "playa", if you think that a man who cheat on his woman is a "playa" then i guess you can change him, but if, by "PLAYA" you mean to describe the man that:

-has no emotions

-never falls in love

-never gets attached to women

-never got caught cheating

-can make a women do WHATEVER he pleases

-has a minimum of 5 women on the go at any one time

-can sweet talk and bed any woman so long as he puts his mind to it

-chasing women to him is a sport

-uses women to get what he wants/needs

-sees women as pawns in his game

- understands that women are a dime a dozen and therefore LOVE isn't part of his vocabulary.

then i am sorry but this kinda man can NEVER be changed. it's all about deceit, the game is about making people believe that they are the one and only, so even when you THINK you changed him, you might just being played!

for a playa to be changed, you have to cut off his rooster and make him mute and deaf.

it's all about the satisfaction the conquest brings to him but as soon as he has conquered the lady, then he needs new challenges to bring that high/rush again, just like women and shopping.

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Of course you can change a PLAYA but he has to like you to the marrow for you to get close to achieving that.

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Tragic !!! Tragic !!!

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Do female players change too?

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Oops wrong thread!

Retraces steps back quietly!!!

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yes one can,smtimes u dont have to do anything

i know a lot of players dat changed after meeting a girl

when they really meet who they really love,they get to slow their roll

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You can't change anyone, aside from your own self.

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