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Can you date a first time prostitute.

some people say well its alright by them as long she is not into it any more and some say tufiapa over my dead body.

What's your own angle to it?

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only meant for the wicked

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na wah, women should try to say no to prostitution,because it demeans women,men view them as sex objects;as a result, d dignity of  women is degraded.pros.exist cos men want it,without d demand, there would be no pros.certainly demands affect supply;It can also happen d other way-a well marketed supply can create a demand.it involves  private immorality and public irresponsibility.it also also causes individual and collective harm.

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YES AND YES,I CAN DATE A HARLOT AS LONG AS SHE CAN TAKE CARE OF HER SELF.I MEAN USE CONTRACEPTIVES TO PREVENT VENEREAL DISEASES.

WHAT OF IF SHE LIVES IN ITALY AND SEND MONEY TO YOU HERE,CAN'T YOU MARRY HER ? WELL I CAN MARRY ANY WOMAN DESPITE HER AVOCATION.EVERY LADY IS SWEET SO ANYONE THAT COMES TO ME IS GOODLY WELCOME.SERIOUSLY !!!

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who the hell does that guy fink he is to play God.That is a script too hard to act.

If he truly loved the girl,he wdn't av gone to that extreme length cos we're all human

Even he himself cld fall if tested in some situations.

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@ poster

Only the repentant ones perhaps, cos we live in a grossly hypocritical african society.

Men patronize these women of ezy virtue n yet turn around to speak ill of 'em.

But that's cos they can't keep their Joysticks in their pants.

I don't really fink i can date a pro whether former,retired,active,once,twice,first,second,.I won't at all

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note:-not all prostitutes love prostitution o!yes, money is usually what gets them into the bizness in the 1st place but i think i can can date a prostitute if she's ggiving up d job.and hey,look at the added advantage if u know wat i mean

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let me tell u a story about a girl. this happened in naija.

     one day, girl meets boy, and they fell in love. the girl later confessed that she is a prostitute but stopped because of the love between them. the guy believed her but there was still the tiny lingering doubt in his mind. the guy spoiled her with many things, took care of her family (mother, brothers, sisters, etc).

he later proposed to her and she said yes.

     one day while waiting for bus, a nice car stopped to offer her a ride and she graciously accepted. while talking (in the car) the guy was asking her out, she declined but the guy still gave her his business card. they met again and the guy offered her 2 million Naira to sleep with him, she declined on the spot, the guy didn't accept defeat and said she should call him if she changes her mind. (note that she didn't mention that she was engaged to be married soon).

     she got home and started thinking. she calculated that the she can do more stuff for her mother in the village (after all the fiance has done). she was like one more time can't hurt. she called the guy and they set up the date for the "koko." she got to the hotel, the guy showed her the money and they got busy, after, the guy called for room service. room service turned out to be the fiance. she was shocked (yawa don burst), the fiance just picked up the briefcase and left with his friend.

     it was the fiance that planned the whole thing to test whether she has completely left prostitution and whether she could be trusted to do the right thing in the face of temptation.

     the moral of the story is that no matter how much u say u love him/her there will ALWAYS be a lingering doubt in your mind about their trust or faithfulness. applies to both popular and abele (hush hush) prostitutes.

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@beninctys why not ?

dat means u as well can date or even marry a male prostitute.i don't think is dat easy,u know u females complain alot .u ca't withstand dat.

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[color=#000099][/color][b][/b]the word prostitute itself i hate it.mind you the is no first time prostitute,a protitute is a prostitute.i don't think of dating a protitute not to talk of marrying her.Guy what make you think she's won't be back to her former attitude.protitution is an addit,she is addited.

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People prostitute for different reasons. Imagine a girl who does it for the fun of it, can she really change in her heart? After marriage, whats the guaranty that she will not do it with someone either for the fun of it or to get out of a difficult situation.

I dont think prostitutes make the best wives. some may change and become very submissive to their husband, that may just mean they realise that their choices are limited and try to salvage whatever is left. That doesn't make a good wife, it simply makes an unequal partner.

There are good girls out there, why should I marry the tainted one.

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A prostitute is only worth a facial in the alleyway!!!

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i case you are testing the waters to make up your mind on being a pro.

Note that most men will not marry a retired prostitute. Your market value will plunge by 99%

Even if he turns a blind eye, his friends and family will cause you both hell.

I will never marry a prostitute. Its not self righteousness, but am too jealous to even share a girlfriend talk less of marrying a known prostitute.

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What's the difference?

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A prostitute is a human being of cause. Some of them turned into doing it not because they like it that way but due to some difficult circustances. U can change a girl from wat she is by the way u treat her,she might be a prostitute today but turn out to be the best tomorrow. All she needs is someone to show her the real love and not all about money.Be determined.

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THEY SAY U CANT TURN A BAD GAL GOOD ,BUT ONCE A GOOD GAL GONE BAD SHE'S GONE FOREVER[quote][/quote]THIS IS FOOD FOR THOUGHT YA'LL DO THE DISHES

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In fact, make it your heart desire to marry a pro!

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Also somewhere in the bible, where Jesus came visiting someone's house for dinner feast, Jesus allowed a prostitute woman to weep her eyes on Jesus' feet to wash and used prostitute woman's thick long hairs to dry them up.

Other story in the bible about angry Israel men were about to throw rocks on prostitute woman but Jesus saved her from the death.

So God loves prostitute women despite what she did wrong sinfully---knows she will be born-again Christian when it comes to heart-at-romantic rich men to marry her. Nothing wrong with her (prostitute women).

Do you know that Ruth is a widowed woman (Noami's daughter in law), was happy married to wealthy man, Boaz (read the book of Ruth in the bible)?

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May the Almighty God bless you more and more for your divine insight on this topic.

Jesus Christ loves you.

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Read the book of Hosea in the bible. God chose Hosea as prophet to marry a prostitute for God's purpose.

I have seen few real pastors do marry prostitutes (from their own personal not-shameful testimony to share with us my church's conventions/workshops to show how proud pastor marry former LovePeddler or drug addicts to raise 3-5 children).

I guess it is nothing wrong with dating then marry a prostitute if you find them love compatible under God's eyes!!!

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I know one actor who is a Sunday school teacher in the church of a pastor and presidential aspirant. I know for a fact that he is NOT gay.

well, maybe he's not the same one you have in mind

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Radiant,

I have met young women who were commercial sex workers in calabar, but lived normal lives in Lagos. And  most people in Lagos regarded them as good women with their shops in Lagos.

There was a time my youngest brother needed money urgently for his studies at the Moshood Abiola Polytechnic and I did not have enough money and I did want want to borrow. No parents and no relations to turn to. So, I had to raise N8,000 (eight thousand naira) by showing my private part to one prominent  Nigerian.  And that was how I gave my brother money to return to school. The man wanted us to be lovers, but I refused. He was very close to IBB and OBJ. His daughters were even London trained lawyers. And he tried to impress me that he could make me very wealthy. I still turned down his offers. He promised me an apartment on Victoria Island. But, when he saw that I wouldn't give in to his overtures, he gave up.

What would you call that?

Prostitution.

Many of the celebrated actors in Nollywood are gigolos and gays.

When the time comes, I will drop their names if they continue with their notorious practices.

But, if they repent, I won't disclose their names.

One of them is now happily married. And he is even a Sunday School teacher in the church of a pastor and Presidential aspirant.

Let us be realistic.

I like people who are not ashamed to say the truth.

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You and Orikinla. Polygamy is a great option in this case.

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if u dont marry the prostitute, who will?

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Orikinla, I respect you a lot on NL but honestly, this your comment ain't just it.

Things don't work that way just because your own sister was once a pro!

And what would you say about the guys in EUROPE?

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Yes.

I can date and marry a prostitute.

My elder sister was once a prostitute, but she is now happily married with four children.

Lest you forget, there are thousands of Nigerian babes and ladies who are prostitutes in Europe and when they return to Nigeria, you wouldn't know.

Anyway, any girl or lady who dates a guy or a man for material benefits is a prostitute.

Be wise.

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Sure! are you mixed (half German) that you have a German passport? If no, how did you get the passport?

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Hey radiant, stay cool! As u see in my signature me I live in Germany. Yes I have a good job and a German passport and a Naija girl friend. So much for this.

I know the Nigerian community in Germany, Italy and France (Paris) quite well, also Belgium and Netherlands a bit from tavelling.

Be honest: if u don't study, do big business or have family, how can u get into Europe these days? Illegaly!

If u have no papers, what can u do: prostitution and drugs (for the boyz).

Many manage to get out of this, some are deported, but most - this is what I said - start like this.

Ain't it a pity?

P.S. Sorry, I don't have time to hang around with prostitutes, but I met so many women, that today e.g. run an Afro shop, but later they tell me how they got the start-up money,

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lol. . . You in Europe? How did you come in?

You saying 90% of girls that come to Europe, start up with prostituting themselves? I should ask you what part of Europe you live in?

What do you do in "Europe", if I may ask? You don't sound like a student to me. You can tell me you 'working'. Sure! Please what kind of job do you do in "Europe"?

That's not life in Europe 'cause I also live in Europe. If you choose to hang out with prostitutes, then that's your own migraine.

I agree there are lotsa girls doing prostitution but to say, "that's the life in Europe and 90% of girls. . . " is just crazy. Answer my questions tho'.

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Has Any One Read The Book " How To Wed A Ho" ?

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The fact I know someone had been a prostitute is enough to make me not even be her friend let alone date her

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hey marry a what 1st time or second time or 3rd time , ashewo na ashewo.

just think of ur wedding day and some men would be smirking or leering at your wife.

but on the other hand our undergraduates of today most of them do aristo runs to keep up in school, [ wats d difference between aristo runs and ashewo] . so to me make man shine in eye.

marrriage is in the hands of GOD.

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I have done it before. But dear Nairalander, it was an experience with mixed feelings. I dated this babe close to two years. In the course of this affair, I discoverd that prostitutes also fall in love. I too was totally in love with this lady. She would tell me that I was the only one she has affection for; and that every other guy, "it is money for hand, back for ground". No doubt, I kind of enjoyed her the period this game lasted. But the fact remains that these people are of 'EASY VIRTUE". You can't tust them. She could f**k your friend, your brother, name it. It is better to avoid serious relationship, because your heart will be broken by her. However, the repentant type can be considered after all the necessary therapy and tests

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Hey Radiant, where do u live?

Sometimes I have the impression prostitiution is the statr up

of like 90% of all that Najia girls that come to Europe until

they find a job or a man or both.

Some students even do it to top up their allowances, don't tell me this

is not common in Nigerian universities.

So many guys , when they come to know a girl better,

suddenly are confronted with her past, that's live in Europe

for many of us!

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What's with you guys and prostitutes? Be seeing this poo all over NL. Get a life!

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it depends on wat you see inside of her b4 deciding to get married to her . . .

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So this thread seems to be the follow up to the "Can u marry a former prostitute" thread, just a bit lower profele, eh?

Anyway, my answer would be yes, if she stopped working.

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Not again! *rolls eyes*

and what the F u c k is a first time prostitute?

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I can't do that. Not only will he go for all these tests, he will have to be born again and have his own money.

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Indecency Star Yes, prosititute, NO!!

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