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Can You Date/marry A Man 20yrs Older?

If you meet and fall in love with a man, then getting to know him, u realise he is 20yrs older though he looks far younger than his age(like 10yrs younger), divorced with 2 children from two women. Would you go ahead dating or even marry him?

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There is nothing wrong in it - but the main thing such must have to cope with is VALUE / NEED DIFFERENCE whcih is once vital termial point to make or break any relationship,

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Should probably be broken into 2 diffrent questions.

1. Can you date/get together with a guy 20 years older? I really do not see any big deal here. This happens on a regular basis.

2. Can you marry a guy 20 years older? Depending on the actual age, this can be an issue. Since we are talking about long term here. 40/20 is different from 50/30 etc. In the olden days there use to be a lot of disparity between the ages, but things have changed now. If I were female in my 20's I sure would not want to marry someone in his 40's

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i can do 7 year but i can't do 20year. your man have to be more mature than you but not something else

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think about it, can you date father?

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without the wives and children YES, age is dos not matter as long as he is older but with wives and children NO

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No i can't and i won't. 20 years is just way too much talkless of him having kids and wives!!! he's an ancient story.

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I can't do that ,with kids!what is my hope?i can never do that,I still have alot to do on this planet.

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i probably cant and wont

but some like them Old way way older

but 20 years paaa damn , i think not

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nope i can't even do ten talkless of 20

and he got kids hell to the no

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Hell- NO!!!

20 years!!

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Dont think there is anything wrong with dat? Really i dont

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