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Can You Date Two Friends?

What really happened is that there is this guy that is disturbing me with calls day & night, telling me he likes me e.t.c but i told him i can't date him cos 've befriended one his friends before. but he kept on telling me he will do me bad if i didn't tell him the positive answer. Pls help me out by telling what to do!!!!

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@Bisanke. U just don,t get it I guess. Do I av to know u before I'm polite with speech? 1st of all u r a human being, secondly u r a woman, hence if I could respect and love my mother, so I do to every woman until u proove to me that u do not deserve or worthy of it.

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wetin be your story. i am not judging u and no intentions to; neither do i take it personally. in fact i am having so much fun with this topic and i laugh at the aruguments presented by u and others. just that u got me misunderstood and guess u should think along what i said and not just read.

my fiance will laugh at what u re saying cos u dont get it at all. good luck in ur marriage, if u get little things misunderstood and dont read between the lines and think along, its pity the fate of the union.

any way dont get upset over nothing, this is a place to have fun and laugh and piss people as well, unfortunately u fell a victim to the piss off game. free up

cheersssssssssssssssssssss !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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jurrel, such a pity u re taking this personal but guess birds of the feather flock together, ur friends will be bad news besides i am engaged. i've never been heart broken before, infact i ve always been with men who love me more so i had never lacked any thing from guys.

are u sure u read my message well, cos u present very misplaced in ur thinking. go back and read what i said.

the point is, none of ur ex mans friend should ask u out if u were respected by ur ex man or his friend.

well i presnted another part of the arugument to spice up things and have another side but too bad there u did not have enough six sense to note that.

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If u do not know my story or what ive faced to be replyin to the topic of course ur gon b typin like dis anyways what ur sayin and my personal stuff is way diff. dont b sry say whateva u wonna say i really dont care. cause u dont know me and at the same time u dont know my business and what ive faced. and at the same time did i tell u dat i see anything like fun?? i'm just sayin what ive been thru dats it!

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Dont date him. especially if they are close friends, and if you sepeated on a bad note(like u dumped him). The former boyfriend might just want to getback at you using his friend.

They will f&%k u up.

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Jurrel,

if u'd presented respectfully and if ur mama had thought u any thing better than my advise, that guy would not even have the guts to come to u in the first instance

u know y

becos he would respect and fear u enough not to come on to u as his friend's ex or whatever girl

but if you re like me

one, he would be scared to even come to u becos he will get the message that u aint no poo girl, he would be scred of getting involved with u in any way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

for ur ex man's friend to come to u just shows that u aint nothing to ur ex man so u re fed for all,

maybe if u worth it, ur man would not even be ex cos he will find it hard to let go

girls like us command respect, we dont seek or ask for it

ur ex man's friend coming to u shows u dont command respect at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ex man's friend's inability to come to u tells u, u command some respect

that is what i am telling chics like u

we know how to roll our cards, we dont speak, we give signs

tell mama to teach u more valuable lessons cos those old strokes aint wise any more

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I love girls like Vienna that use pum-pum to settle scores with their boyfriend. Ride on girl. Your contributing to a healthy circulation of pusayyyyyyy.

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Jurrel ,

chicks like us command respect cos the guys know it aint easy to get to us and the'd be on their feet and have their eyes stock out in fear of loosing us

BUT

chicks like u permit guys to ride u

i aint a poo chick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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pharlah ,

not at all

if u guys re good, then u shouldnt even go for ur friends girl whether ex or not

u need girls like me to put u guys laid, straight and forgotten

yeah

my advise is all ya need !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jurrel ,

what are guys there for if not to be played,

its a game only for the wise

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i guess its allright to date an ex's friend if you like him enough, its a small world and you might find everyone knows virtually everyone, and if i get you right you shouldnt be worried bout what your ex thinks since he didnt actually act honourable during the breakup. once again i repeat it depends on the degree of likeness you have for him

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The rule is that girls may date their friend's ex, but guys must not date their friend's ex. Guys may sleep with a friend's ex once, if the situation presents itself.

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No not an abomination just one of those things one dose not do .

Just an unwritten law"

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i still insist it's an abomination to date among friends' circle, unless of course ur behind wasnt aware they were friends. in western atmosphere all that threats is just noise jare, call the police on his behind or better yet report him to his family members, if ur azz fantasy about his friend and spread rumours so u can be popular or have friends then that's different, i hope it's still a free country where u can fantasy and express ur mind without been arrested or afraid 4 ur life, knowledge talks wisdow listen.

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It is absurd!Why would anyone think of such in the first place?The person that will comfortably do such is morally bankrupt and can possibly kill a friend!

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basic steps

1. the guy have failed he threatened u.

2. guys would always be guys, ur ex might have told him men go get ur share put her under a little pressure she would give in, an di bet u he is workin under that impression.

3 the truth is if u stand ur ground he would chill but if u give in i dont see these lasting

4. by the way ur not in a confussed state of ok i like his friend but am dating him ur not int hat state so shun them girl

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Elizabeth

you're 26 not 13!! fix up

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YES

IF I LIKE BOTH OF THEM

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ride on girl, whats wrong there, do him well and go. there is nothing wrong with dating two friends ONLY IF both of them love u but please dont love any of them ok

u can even date them at the same time but dont let em know, play the cards well but rule no

1: make sure each of them have true feelings for u

2: Do not be emotionally involeved at all, dont love em ooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

for more advise contact me

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Hey girl, just saw your pic onlin. What's to know what I think?

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You've dated a person, to protect your own dignity you have no business dating anyone in his circle of friends or familyagain, no amount of love he shows you may come out of it injured cos you will only be used by him and dumped. To them you may be nothing but a bed mate (behind you they mock you) and nothing for you. No man would really want to put a former friend's girlfriend in the house. It is shamefull and morally degrading. Even if the man puts you in the house the site of his friend will be bringing a demoralizing memory into his mind & such occasional thought may brake your house in future. So don't do it, if you have for your own good dump all of them & look for a better future elsewhere.

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DONT EVER TRY A poo LIKE THAT.May be the other guy that you just broken up with has told his friend how easy,sweet and enjoyable you are for his friend to try and CHOP his own from the DISTRIBUTOR AGENCY(you).And if you give-in to the threat you are a cheap AZZ-HO.[color=#006600]

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I think it stinks when ppl date there friends ex's, i had a friend , so called best friend that dated not one but 3 of my ex boyfriends but at the end of the day, they always wanna come back to me and i won't lie, I took one back becos he was good at u know what, oh well. hahaha

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@jurrel

awww, i feel you. they will take you for a hoe but this your story was funny. im rolling here. damn

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@mamaput's story

And in the end bleeped himself up lol

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Something like that happens all the time.

The girl next door:

My daughters classmate .She has a boyfriend but this other boy wanted her and she refused.

Oneday when they went out in a group, he stole a Cell phone and sid she was the one .

The whole group of friends were hating on her but her boyfriend stuck to her.

One week later they all went swimming and he hid the cell phone in her bag. And showed the others. But this time the girls did not believe the story because they had seen her bag and the way the bag was , no girl will ever leave the bag that way to go into the water (open for all to see) The bastard had to confess. He wanted the boyfriend to break up with her.

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hey baby,don't really c wat d prob is.I feel it's ok dating d friend since u guys had broken up(that's if u v got feelings 4 d friend).But considering d 2nd part of ur story with his threats, , I feel u'd be devaluing urself dating such a guy who doesn't v respect 4 ur personality. he doesn't v an atom of love 4 u either.probably wants a revenge on smth u aint tellin us.

so watch out gal. I would say stay off such a crowd if u love ur self which i believe u do!

Like pple v advised, report to any authority(police,his parents or family members,ur brothers).

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i agree with eerthing Hottie said. show dat guy off. wonder what will make u date a guy dat will show u red eye if u dont date him.

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Guys wash-out.

think before you introduce your gf to your friends or else after you finished with her, she could be curios to find out who taste more sweet among your friends,

ATTRIBUTE OF AN HOE

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it meterless jare, go on soun

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what is here behind doing here? miami baby

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Been there done that

Hey if u really like the guy, heck he could be the one for u, sound like u care about how ur ex feel, if that's the case then don't do it and tell the stalker to f*ck off

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Eli, i thought i told u not to tell anyone about this, u think u can run. about d bad stuff i really do mean it so just give me a positive answer if not den u will see my red eye.

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i think loverbwoy said it for moi. report his bugging Bottom to his mama. i bet he fears his mama.

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true talk, at least before issues get out of hand

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Ahhh crap!!!! ddnt notice the BEFORE! lol, got it now, well it's difficult dating someone who is a friend of another can't help u here

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I don't think you guys understand Lizzy. She has apparently broken up with the guy's friend, but she's asking if it's okay to date a friend of one's ex.

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Ask him is he SICK? does he own ur life? if u like try it, b4 ur eye wuld open.

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thanx 4 the break iice

maybe let the other guy know wats going on and be sure not to be forced into doing wat u don't want or outta pity.

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A guy is disturbing her 2 go out with him, but she alrdy is kindda hooked up with a friend of the guy disturbing her, the guy disturbing her is threatening her

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Are you sure want to date a guy that'll do u bad? How did your relationship with the other friend end?

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it's no a brainer, dating within friends' circle is an abomination unless ur azz is a Ho

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