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Can You Die For Your Spouse?

Recently someone slammed with a question that got me biting my finger without an answer and i thought I should just throw it open.

How far can you go for your spouse of girl/boy friend in a terrible situation?

Die for him/her if 'swap-able'?

Go to jail for 20 years for her/him?

Donate your kidney for her/him?

Or simply watch him or her suffer the fate?

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fixed.

we all know who holds the remarriage record here.

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HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! . . . . . Abi Una Wan Turn Me To The JESUS?

Kids Yes, Spouse a Big Fat No. . . . . . . Even the famous phrase says "Ladies First". Abeg Let her die before me and I'll come join her waaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy later.

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Mi o le waku,

How will i die for someone that will only mourn for 4 weeks,

Even it is those that has come to sympathise with her that will advise her to move on,

Then on that persons graveyard, these words will be carved in gold "Here lies the body of a foolish man that died because of a woman"

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visit www.perfectsdate.blogspot.com

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here^^ I saw it somewhere on nairaland

http://dailytimes.com.ng/article/brief-python-swallows-baby-edo

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Eeeewwww. . Grooss!

I hate snakes!

P.s-I did not see the article. . How did it happen?

Double P.s-When replying,replace all snake with 's'.

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My own love is a living love.

I cannot die for anybody(except my future children).

I cannot go to jail for any man. Do you know what Kirikiri's like? Don't imagine Nigerian jails are like all those American jails which are pretty much self-contain apartments-nice room,nice tv,nice bed,toilet and you don't even need a kitchen because food is served to you.

Kirikiri will suck out my life and blood after 3 hours,talkless of 20 years. Infact let's stop talking about Kirikiri before i have nightmares this night.

Donate a kidney? For a bf,no. For a husband. . Hmmn,undecided.

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Who will you resemble with such generous behaviour: even father Abraham was not silly in love.

Gen 12:11 And it came to pass, when he was come near to enter into Egypt, that he said unto Sarai his wife, Behold now, I know that thou art a fair woman to look upon:

Gen 12:12 Therefore it shall come to pass, when the Egyptians shall see thee, that they shall say, This is his wife: and they will kill me, but they will save thee alive.

Gen 12:13 Say, I pray thee, thou art my sister: that it may be well with me for thy sake; and my soul shall live because of thee.

Gen 20:11 And Abraham said, Because I thought, Surely the fear of God is not in this place; and they will slay me for my wife's sake.

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If you mean to die for them literary then yes, but in real situation like (jumping from a train because the don't want you anymore) is a bit titanic move and s-illy!

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Chamotex

u be bad boy o!

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Nope. I'm sure she'll understand.

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^^So you can't die for your wife to live?

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Jesus already died for us . . . no need to die for anybody

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^^If u can die for me then i'll die for you

Bruno Mars - Grenade.

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Die for woman? Tehehehehehe *giggling*

Twahahahahaha *bursts out laughing*

Dude, na name of film be that?

I think I'd rather die in place of another man or a child than in place of a woman.

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@tkb417, i dont even in luv, not to talk of dying for it, its just funny dat d same ppl who preach love around here r d ones saying NO dey cnt die 4 it,

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even if its joint death, i wont do

i came solo, ill go solo

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monkey

so true love to you means suicide

i pity ya mama; oya go die nau

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Everybody is shout NO, NO, NO, *hiss* and the say true love exist,

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Why I can't die because of woman is because another man will be fuking her on earth while you watch from heaven and I doubt if woman will also die for me because women are heartless,but if we can die together, then no problem

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I can't even die for myself talkless of one spouse like that

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4 wetin naw?wen he'll eventualy marry sm1else.i cnt even die 4 myself let alone spouse.spouse gba kwa oku.

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Die for my spouse? Say wetin happen? So that she mourns me for 3 weeks or less and next thing,some guy from no where starts "comforting" her on the matrimonial bed i bought with my own money.That can't happen.Everybody carry your cross.

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If I die 4 her, who else will be servicing her? Another person abi? It's better 2 of us go there. In life and in death.

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no,no,no, if i'm dead i cant love her so i beta stay alive

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to love is to put to death one' own desire for the other.

[/color]just like John 3;16: for God so love the world that He gave His

only begotten Son and that whoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.[color=#990000]

[color=#006600][/color]Same thing as 1John 3;16, it all talked about love.

back to the question, if one can die/do any thing for love, such as: going to jail', kindey and others.

to love is to put to death one' own desire for the other:

I CAN ONLY DO THIS IF AND ONLY IF THE PERSON IN QUESTION IS MY SPOUSE, NOT ONLY THAT:

IF I DONT LOVE THE PERSON; BE HER MY SPOUSE OR NOT I CANT.

ONCE IT IS A MATTER OF LOVE.

ICAN DO ANYTHING!!!!11

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Ya, not only my gfriend or my friends. I can die for everybody because i luv ,

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I will not die O! In fact I will live long to ensure that the principles, dreams and aspirations that my spouse died for a fulfilled.

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I'd do almost anything but I won't do that.

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@2dye4

i got to be honest oh!, and about being unapologetic, didnt mean for it to come out that way, but i suppose soemtimes the truth can sound like that, can't it?!!

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Donate a kidney, yes, even for a friend.

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for my SPOUSE, lai lai, Jesus died for us all

for my kids, i'd consider it, probably weigh more towards a YES

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Dying for my spouse, NO

Going to jail for her, No but why do I have to go to jail for her? If she commited a crime, she should face the music while I wait and show her all the love while she's in jail. What's the point going to jail when she can be jailed and probably come out a better person.

Donating a kidney, yes if absolutely necessary.

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Nobody is worth dying for, but the people you love may be worth living for. Embrace your life; it's precious.

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@Seun

I believe that wat you cannot die for, u cannot live for, and i mean anything at all! I'd rather not die for my spouse but deciding to live the rest of my life has to be cos they're worth the very essence of life.

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i cannot do anyone of those things 4 my spouse o, i can only be there 4 him and pray 4 him while he passes thru his ordeal.

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No body is worth dying for. Why should any body die for somebody. Except when i die the other person will not die again.

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dying for her, lailai

going to jail for him eehhhh maybe if less than 1 yr.

giving kidney sure what are friends/spouces for.

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Una no go kill me with laugh o

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Well, there was a point in my life when I had to evaluate this question. I was in the University and one top cultist sent threats for me to stay off my girlfriend. So I decided to give it a thought because in the worst case scenario, I could die.

Well, that was when I realised I was ready. That is when I realised why you hear boys dying over issues of the opposite sex. I thought it was just pride that made them do it but there I was, caught in the web. That was when I realised I would die for that feeling. I'd die for love.

Well, them cultists left me alone, nothing happened to me (ie I didn't die). Well we've broken up and got back together twice and we've broken up again, hoping to get back together in August(just before her birthday).

I still ask myself that same question and the answer is HELL NO!!! What was I thinking? It mighty have been some kind of momentary insanity. Me denex, die for somebody? Who will carry out all my plans? Who would fulfill all my dreams and visions. Devil is a liar. He was the one that put that disastrously demonic thought in my brain that I was ready to die. Ready to die for love? Love that is just an ordinary collection of chemicals like epinephrins in the brain. A feeling I can creat by eating large chunks of chocolate. In fact the spirit that possessed me that day, I still don't know.

Like somebody said, I will not die, but live to proclaim the glory of my own Goddess. Ase.

After all, tupac has said it that if I die, life goes on. Abeg I want to go on with life. Let death find another person to go on with. I have already made up my mind that I will die at a minimum of 65 years old or a maximum of 90 years old and no spouse can jeopardize it.

I can faint, but die? Lailai. The only thing I can give my life for is Nigeria and not even Nigeria as it is today. I'm talking about when Nigeria would have attained it's potential. That is the time when if I hear any MASSOB, OPC, APC or MEND trying to cause any problems, I will just strap myself with depleted uranium and escort the bastards to hell.

But love? NO! Nigeria as it is today? NO! Anything else I could die for right now? NO! Money?

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Life is more glorious that death. Instead of "dying for" your partner, why not live to love him/her?

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this is the most silly question ever , die ko die ni **** rolls eyes and hiss***

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hell no yeah maybe i can donate a kidney but sh it die 4 him heeeeeeellllllllll no

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