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can you eventually get married to a lady u have aborted series of pregnancy for?

Situations do arise whereby relationships do collapse when it comes to matters of the lady been pregnant for the guy and the guy(if not capable yet) will sugest they abort it but when it comes to getting married,they will bluntly rejaect the lady in question and reason been that they cant marry a lady who has aborted ..................but they sure know they bring up the idea of aborting it...........................Plz what is your own opinion and reactions to situations like this................

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godfather ,

it aint eassy to damn all consequences and have a baby when u are not ready.

my view, i dont understand why every body keeps saying the girl aborts for the guy. if she agrees to abort it`s because she too is not ready to carry the responsibilty.

my advice to girls, if u decide to abort, never have it in ur head that u r doing it for him. u do it because its not convenient for u, that way u dont feel too hurt when he leaves.

for guys that leave the girls that have aborted during their relationships, how r u sure the girl u get to marry at last has not done it a thosand times before.

there are no rules to relationships.just take it as it comes.

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The answer is yes. for me to sleep with a girl 1000 time is an indication that she have what it takes to satisfy me completely on bed. besides it also indicate " " that her heart is sold out to me. you see sleeping with some one you love is not just about the pleasure that is very brief, but there is a kind of integration between hearts to hearts, there is this consciousness of a soul tie that develops, it rekindles the fire that burns in the heart of the both party, it brings about an emotional dependency upon both parties such that it becomes difficult to isolate themselves from each other in the moment of crisis, it produces a that sense of wholeness, that awareness that you are not alone, that confidence that will propell you towards your goals, ops I think I should stop here or pause,

the answer again is a thousand times yes

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who aborted pregnancy for who? you aborted for her or she aborted for you?

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It takes two to tango, it took the boy and the girl to get the girl pregnant, why abandon her later? even in situations where she has removed her womb in the process. He should still marry her. They took the decision together. There should be no excuses.

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so far u luv her i mean dats her past n she can still give birth dats alright y not?

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the question is - can u marry a girl/guy who has slept with you 1000 times or more.

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Nope! Nor will i ever ask any woman to do it.

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No i cant cause i wont get myself involved in such mess.

I dont know why so many men behave this way. They enjoy the pleasure and when it comes to bear the consequence they try to shield their head away from the problem they already laid down from the start.

Its so terrible to see people behave like this. The problem is that the woman ends up bearing the consequence but the man will have to pay his price.

This is a word of advice to you ladies out there to be careful with the kind of guy you get yourself involved with cause he will either make or mar YOU!!!

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Deji, lets be realistic. You may not. Cos it has been happening. And i blive in this rum u don't need to hide ur feelings about situation. My only advice to ladies is that, b4 u give it to a guy, watch out cos guys are decieving, Even Ladies,

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I can. Why not? Sebi she did it for US!

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anyhow jo,so far she can bear me a baby,and i met ar a virgin,no problem @ all.cos a lady who accepts to abort pregnancies4me,might have done so for other guys without miya knowledge.

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Na wa o. E be like say I go change my stand o. My wife go get belle b4 i marry am o. (j/k)

Seriously, a lady whose add series of abortion has minimizes her chances of carryin a succesful preganancy. She'll get pregant (she has been gettin pregant) but she'll like hav a miscarriage. Really risky marryin such a lady.

Another angle. What if you knew only after marriage?

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You see? That's one of the reasons why one needs to stay away from pre-marital sex. I'm not starting another virgin/non-virgin discussion o! I'm just saying that it's better to be on the safer side especially as a girl.

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See the point is.. when you know u woun't marry her either why dating her..so now she is preg. and you aborted.. about 2wice.. and you feel you woun't marry her.. See men if she raise course on the guy, men it's gonna catch up with the person.. no two ways about it..

If i'm gonna go into serious relationship, then i should be ready to marry her thats it.

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Yes dolly ive heard of situations like that, its really pathetic. That is why ladies have to be really careful. If you cant abstain,use protection. For guys who dump these gal ladies later, you cant really blame them-if you really want to think about and in fairness to the guys-. Am not saying that is the rite thing to do but such men will always meet there waterloo some day. The law of karma will surely catch up with them. A lady has to make up her mind about certain things once she decides to become sexually active. She has to make decisions on pregnancy, abortions, STD's and so on. Thats why abstainance is the best. Cause when youre married you dont really have to bother about such things.

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