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Can You Find The Man Of Your Dreams At 40 Something ?

Can you find the man of your dreams at 40 something ?

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people find love at the age of 80

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Yes ooo, a man in his 60s or 70s.

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well i dont think the successful man will care much about what the ladies are in it for as long as this middle age man gets what HE is looking for. . . . . . . . most of these guys get a mid life crisis and just want a young, sexy, pretty, down to earth, manageable lady on their arm.

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so that means they are in it for the comfort and money?

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the important word in what you wrote is SUCCESSFUL .

you see, some women are attracted to success and easily overlook the little details such as children from previous marriage etc.

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can same be said for a 40 years old succesful man that has two kids from a previous marriage. do u think its acheivable to get a pretty intelligent lady that has nevert been married?

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to some extent, Yes, any "top notch" girl marrying such a man would be warned by friends and relatives and most times would enter the "union" with some reservations or even an MOU, lol

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what are you talking about?! this guy is married and his wife, Olaitan Bankole, just gave birth to a baby boy.

as i said earlier, these type of guy dont stay long on the market.

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Yes, afterall Dimeji Bankole is 40 and still single, late marriage occurs both ways these days. Best of luck but you may have to change the criteria for your dream man accordingly

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in the past yes but not anymore.

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yes cuz there isn't a rule that says anything contrary.

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Nah! u are actually far from the truth, i don't know him neither am i dating at the moment let alone 40yrs olds, but if he is happy with her then good luck to them.

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LOL. . . . . . . yep that lady loooked like she definitely found her dream man at 40.

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^ u don't have a profile pic. are u also dating 40something yr old woman? or u guys kno each other

there is hope for me after all if i'm in my 40s and single lol world sure is changing

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^ lol. ur profile is a perfect example. i'm sure the lady is well in her 40s. and u look very young

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@MRbrownJAY & oyinda

U guy are all correct

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@post

but the funny part in this thread is that A successful MAN in his mid forties can easily find the woman of his dreams (in her 20s/never married/sexy/intelligent bla bla) but successful women these days are catching up to the trend.

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what i wrote had nothing to do with who she was or what "status" but just that this kind of men are VERY hard to find because these are the qualities that ALL women seek and therefore they get "taken off the market" like a flash.

people can "expect" all they want but they also have to be realistic with life or accept that the search might take a while.

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yea u can. just make make sure to search d right places and have expectations that match ur status.

actually she can. if she has a high status, ie if she's wealthy, classy, goodlooking and confident then there is no reason for her not to have similar expectations in a guy.

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yea i agree with that. and esp. if a woman in her 40s takes the "never married" off her list of requirements (which i doubt they will have anyways), it will be so much easier since divorce is getting so common nowadays. lol

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@poster

you can find the man of your dreams even at 75yrs old. . . . . .  as its never too late to dream.

the guy might not look as good as the guy you were dreaming about in your 20s but hey, who cares as long as you are happy.

ps: if at 40something, you are still hoping to meet a never married/childless/fantastic looking/rich/successful/straight/single guy with no baggage then you probably should lower your dreams standards or accept that you might have to wait a long time for that jackpot.

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Nothing is impossible,if u have not found him/her yet then he is still yet 2 be found u must surelly get him/her.

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Yes. May not be so easy but God works in mysterious ways.

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