Can you find the man of your dreams at 40 something ?
what i wrote had nothing to do with who she was or what "status" but just that this kind of men are VERY hard to find because these are the qualities that ALL women seek and therefore they get "taken off the market" like a flash.
people can "expect" all they want but they also have to be realistic with life or accept that the search might take a while.
you can find the man of your dreams even at 75yrs old. . . . . . as its never too late to dream.
the guy might not look as good as the guy you were dreaming about in your 20s but hey, who cares as long as you are happy.
ps: if at 40something, you are still hoping to meet a never married/childless/fantastic looking/rich/successful/straight/single guy with no baggage then you probably should lower your dreams standards or accept that you might have to wait a long time for that jackpot.