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Can You Help/assist Your Girlfriend/wife In Doin House Work?

If you are to help/assist your girlfriend/wife in doin house work, which of the house work will you prefer to do in helping her

sweeping, cooking or washing or any other one apart from the one i mentioned

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dreldeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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EEEHHH! I dont know about becoming a lesbian. . . . .

It is the truth though. . . . . .Just like how there are bad women there are bad men. . . .it just happens that majority of the men in this world are BEASTS!

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thank you motunrayo, very demeaning statement

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Men are beasts and should be treated as such.

Not all men are beasts. . . just a large percentage of them

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It was based on happiness, mostly the happiness of men who were carrying the title of "head".

After all, if women were so "happy" then why would they "nag"?

LOL @ the "unhappy women" comment!

Men seem to enjoy passing off women's objections as "whining", "nagging", or "bitching" in or to make our opinions seem worthless.

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I think family structure is focused on happiness; or, at least it was until some women began nagging.  Unhappy women concerned with gender are the ones whinning about changing its structure.

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Structure in relationships should not be focused on gender.

If, maintaining the upkeep of the home doesn't "take away" or make you "inferior"

then why are so many men reluctant to do it? I think that its men that should realize this more than anyone,

women had been put in the box of "homemaker" for so long that I think most of us know that by now.

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Damn! NL gets boring-er and boring-er each day!

You guys give it a rest na.

My gosh!, how many times have we recycled this thread over N over, this is like the 20th style!

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Can the mods lock up this lame thread

Thanks

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Onyinye, when was the last time you were flogged?? I can see that you intend to exercise some kind of authority over your husband that even God did not give you. All this your talk and gragra will only work if you are married to an effeminate man.

Whatever happened to you being submissive and all that stuff in the bible.

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Onyinye, you need to know how to work a man to make him do housework. You don't just turn off the TV and stand in front of him and make him do it; you'll end up in the ICU.

Like I said, I don't mind doing housework; cooking once in a while, doing laundry, dishes and vacuuming. I can't dust and clean cause of my allergies. Wash the car, mow the lawn if I don't have a gardener (I most likely would).

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This just goes to show the nature of women.

If the man does not fulfil his duties as the breadwinner of the house, he is a bum. If a woman does not fulfil her role as the house-keeper, it's because the man wouldnt help around the house.

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Is all this necessary

Do you really need to justify your wants to these people, onyinye?

who cares? abi you wanna marry these drones?

abeg let it go. If they believe in helping, Cool. If not, fine

gosh this thread is just boring.

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only a man without an ego will succumb sheepishly to your order "Nope, when i say it is time to clean, we all clean." and i'm still wondering if they exist (definitely not in Africa)

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Onyinye, you need to understand that I get to decide when to turn it off. I am the househead.

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You been dangerously misled.

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@Okija

I would destroy your ego if i was your wife.

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Who made you the boss??

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My bf and I do the housework together all the time so yes to him.

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What consequences, onyin?

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Stuff is whatever I want I want it to be.

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lol onyin, would it make you feel any better if i was playing video games instead?

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I don't mind helping out to do chores and stuff.

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and naija is low on sweet babes these dayz, the few hott ones are very infact asin aaah

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i see u're feeling high today, wat happened , shortage of testosterone?

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certain things not to the extent that she would take it for granted (typical pf them)

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femi cant  u help ur babe in d kitchen

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with all these definitions, that means marriage is a union of beast and monster and they will produce winch.

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helping with house chores aint nutin much to do, as for me .bring it on

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Neat freak- it is because of my mom. she made us constantly clean the house.

Control freak- not at all. just don't want to be inferior.

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A feminist, a control freak, a neat freak---isn't that too much?

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hch washin opata is dat so hard?

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http://www.slate.com/ld/137537/

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One spouse will always do more and I just hope it won't be me!

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water boy, a marriage is 50/50. how many times do i have to tell you that.

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as i said, you still a kid.

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Exactly. If two adults live together and own a home together, then surely they can take over the housework together?

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What makes you think they'd look at you at all?

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please is any1 dere am feeling lonely mukina can u hear me,and rhino u too

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hi ruby and onyinye and no i wont assist u both in house chores

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See all the bushmen in the house

So man no fit go in the kitchen once he has a girl?

Who was cooking for him before?

In my world, any man that can't find his way to the kitchen is a lost man. He best buy a cook book or sth. Not that I can't cook, but I need support, too.

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Doyin, go and face the wall, kneel down and raise your hands, till u learn.

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show me dem kids and lemme spank them

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