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Can You Interfere With Your Siblings Romantic Life?

Ladies:

You have a younger or elder brother that cannot hold a chic, he's a dork and most women tend to use and dump him. What do you do? Meddle in his business by scrutinizing the ladies that come into his life? coach him on how to deal with fellow women or allow him to wallow in self pity?

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He just can't get a woman for himself. Will you help him trap a sister or coach him on how to trap one?

Guys:

Your sister tend to be a national cake for guys(so you heard). She's always heart broken and has been knocked up once. What do you do next time you see her hanging around another "Hanniballike" man or any man at all? Will you become overbearing even when she made it clear to you to mind your business or will you help her sort out the ship from the wolves?

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Can your sister also talk you into dumping your bobo? What about your brother/s? Will you talk him into dumping a girlfriend that is sucking him dry like a leech both sexually and materially?

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i can only interfere when i see him treating her bad. for example my younger sister had this controling boyfriend who always wanted to know where she was and if she was cheating on him. i remember one day we went shopping for xmas gift for my dad and we were in a men suit store when her bf called and she told him where she was, he was shouting at her saying she is buying a gift for another man, i collected the phone and told him not to call my sister again and hung up. i will hate for my sister to end up with a controlling man. but anyway i talked my sister into dumping him, which she did and has now found someone better, but her ex keeps calling her.

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Yes. I will. Simple as that.

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I hate people sticking their eyes in my business and i personally won't like to do thesame.

However,in this case,i will just talk to him and try to see what the problem is and how i can help provided he wants my help.I won't go about chasing his/her partners away cuz they might not be the problem.

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Also, how will you lead your sister thr right way if guys keep sleeping with her and running away after she falls in love with them? Tell her to close her legs permanently? That may also scare some guys away from her.

What if you discover later that your sister is the one doing the hit and run while thinking it's fun?

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and i dnt agree that guys are exempted fron all the pains and heartaches, they are as much victims as the girls.

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lmao. Some of these guys don see stars for your pen hand.

I almost fell off my chair laughing at the pickup lines thread. That stuff you posted should have been in the literature section, for real. lol.

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redhotchick,its best you allow them grow and discover things by them selves, so that way they dont blame you for any mistakes later. thats what i do sha, i even encourage every move they make by acting dumb.

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Good to know. Anything else you'd like to share with me?

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karmamod, there are so many things you either don't want to understand or just choose to turn a blind eye to.

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How about you stop dating girls that wnat you for your money? How is it my concern if you feel the need to give girls money 24/7? I just know I wouldnt.

Plus I dont understand how any guy would be taking money from his girl and not feel ashamed.

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@ Topic,

Yes, if the situation demands, I can and I will.

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Well then, I pray you dont date my sister so as for us not to know what would happen if you actually mess with her.

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I dont need luck to protect a loved one, let alone family. I have people who watch my back 24/7 just as I watch theirs. I'll go to war if necessary just to make sure that my own stays safe. I dont give a Bleep about which family you are affiliated with.

When push comes to shove, my family comes first.

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I sincerely dont get it either.

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I have never understood girls giving guys money!!

i still dont!

is that madness or what

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So far i havent and they all appear to be doing well.

i dont intend to do so in the future

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No matter how pissed i am with my sis or my brother over such continuous failing relationship. I have to interfere, i will slap the over emotional thoughts out & give a fresh orientation. I have to interfere o, "If my sister's in trouble so i'm i"

But on a second thought if not for resemblance i go wonder say no be my mama born am.

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If after several failed relationships s/he still can't have a successful one, I'd start by telling her/him to focus on something else. It's obvious dating is not her calling!

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