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Can You Love 2 People At The Same Time?

Wel this is just about me because I am in a relationship now, and my girl is of the view that you could love 2 people at the same time.

But I told her its not possible because you might be in love with 2 people that you would not want to break their heart by saying to this one, "leave", but I still stand that even if you are in love with 2 people there would still be that 1 person amongs the 2 of them that would make you feel that sense of naturality, freeworld and happiness you know because I have been in that kind of relationship before.

I really want to hear people's opinion, you know.

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Obsessive love its nothing but a MIRAGE,

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Its very possible , have tried it and i'm still in it ,

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diz one na jamb question o! it very rare

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@ Topic, It si so very possible. Just not equally or in the same way.

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Yes lovin three or two persons at a time and falling in love with them, re clear cut of my territory. It is very very possible, You can even love twenty or thirty at same time if you wish. Go ahead and have your self a spin

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You cannot love two people at the same time, what i mean is that you cannot have equal love b/w the two

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Luvin 2 people @ d same tym! yer it happens, but only 2 those who confuse true luv 4 an infatuated luv/lust.

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Loving two people at the same time?

Well, there is no instrument for measuring how you love some one, it is not just measurable. this is because we love different people for different reasons. eg if i love one girl because she is tall and love another because she has a good smile, it will be very difficult to know who i love more.

you see, love is not just something we are passive to, we are very much active to it. we can decide who to love and how to love, and when to love and how many people to love. it is a matter of choice.

Or isn't love all about deep emotional feeling? is there any thing else to it? whats there? i really can have this deep feeling for as much people as i want.

but the fact is that we always chose to love just one person because it is less stressful and more comfortable, but that does not make it a rule!!

Yes, most of us wont accept that we can love two people at the same time because we are only and particularly looking at that negative outcome that is associated with loving more than one person. But lets face the fact, it is very very possible!!!

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WRONG!

I definitely meant LOVE! As explaind even in d Bible in 1 Corinthians 13, Ds Bible verse xplains all dat evn God expects of "Love" and it does not in anyway reserve it 2 only 1person! Our stereotypes hav led us 2 believe wat is just a product of our imaginatn and xpectations!

Think again!!!

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Yes! Depending on your definition of "Love". I think you meant--"want"!

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I agree completely wt ds mature poster's viewpoint and nt all d stereotypic "Crap" dat peopl hav bin posting about knowing d true meaning of love! BULLOCKS!

@ Poster,

Its quite possible!

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If you're single and not attached like engaged, you can love 2 people

just to weigh them and see who is best for you.

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@Jummiey

Take your pick - just remember, a little loving is a dangerous thing

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Dilemma I'm in at the moment! I love one ( and get that right, one!) girl at the moment. Gradually, another is creeping in; I let my guard down for a while. Now I'm having sleepless nights cos I don't keep secrets from my girl. Should she ask me, I'd have to spill the beans. I feel you man. It's a hellish world

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i am collins ugwunwa. i want to no ur email address.my is collinciano@yahoo.com.happy birth day

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Ah, ladies!

Comments are free; facts are sacred. The world's about live and let live. Because we have different opinions on certain things shouldn't make cold or hostile. It's one beautiful human race: black or white. So ladies, why not sheathe the 'cold' sword and think of warmth. Let's use our intellectual ploughshares to make the Land a better place.

Ok?

For me, all comments are respected, no matter how ludicrous they come to my mind. Respect begets respect; in showing honour let's take the lead; showing the willingness to pursue peace.

In any contentious matter, I've found it better to look for solution rather than justification. Please let's carry on in peace and dignity. I care. Take care!

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~Oooh Lord ! ThoniaSlim, i think the reasons these questions are asked on here is not for us to argue,but to have an open mind towards whatever views we have as an indivisual,whether we believe in it or not!!! i certainly didnt intend my post to come across cold to you,but you saw it that way,anyhow i dealt with it the way it was presented to me !!!

~I don't have a problem acceptin other people's view,the choice of whether i beleive in it is my option!

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@mohawkchic

i just replied, ain't quarreling, i guess everyone's entitled to their opinion, if you read my reply,i only told you there is a difference between love and feelings, so no need to sound all cold about it. and by the way, i did not say mohawkchic does not know the meaning of love, but if you wanna put yourself under that category, then thats your problem.

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Therefive minus one! we are each the author of what we feel, think, assume and confuse(!) love is.

Right now, I have a beautiful damsel am in love with, with all my very heart. She means the sunshine to me. And no love for someone else will ever supersede the one I have for her. May I never renege on my promise to marry her and remain faithful to her, She is one of the brightest minds in the female world.

Simple and unassuming. Industrious and delightful. Et cetera, et cetera!

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~@ Thoniaslim !!!

~No-one justifies someones else's emotion as knowin the meanin of love!!!

and i most certainly don't have to justify what my idea of love is for you to believe its possible,if its your concept its not possible,then thats your opinion!!!

~I don't set out to understand the meanin of love either,i express it however i feel it! so i guess i'll fall under your category of "people who don't understand the meanin of  love !"

~You knowin the true meanin of love,{I'd like to assume u do} might like to note when it comes to matters of the heart,there's no "possible or impossibles" !!!

~If i were to say whats your meanin of love,i bet half the notion will be textbook theory,but at the end of the day,its how you feel love,without feelings,there's no love,even though there are many sub-sections of love,undoubtedly,if you'd asked what type of love i experienced,i would have thought of it,a mind that wants to understand how its possible!!!

~OOh Btw  i know the difference between bein in love,infatuation, and lust !!!

~@ ademiife you cudnt be further from the truth with "lets all note thats its easier to be critical than to be correct !!!"

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Love, we must humbly recognise, is PERSONAL. It is the consensual/mutual feeling of those involved. Can we all love the same way? Love-feeling can share similar elements from person to person. But can it be universally defined and confined to rigid emotions? Do those who practise polygamy love less? While those who practise monogamy love more? Can love be logically measured? Is any love ever the same with another? How would you feel if you're told you don't love the one you love? Probably, you'd say the person is sick, ehn? Guess, what someone may think if you said it's not possible to love two persons at a time.

Loving two persons at a time happens. It really does.

No matter what our disbeliefs can be about certain things don't stop seemingly crazy things from happening, you need to hear, see and feel the secret fears of people to know things happen. Since none of us has any empirical proof on this matter, I'll say the most important to be thrashed out is to guide the person in dilemma to make the best decision.

Hoping he's not polygamous in nature, he should pick the one he most dearly wants to spend the rest of his life with; or stick to the one he's pledged to marry. He's apparently fortunate for he has the best of two worlds to choose from!

Let's all note that it's easier to be critical than to be correct!

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[center]@ nairaland girl talk

When the love-vendor's in the crib ma

Drop it like it's hot

u cant love 2 ppl at the same time[/center]

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Just wondering if anyone can help me. im in love with someone who i broke up with as they treated me badly. started seeing someone else realised what i had was for me now im back with the one i 'love' i cant stop thinking about the other and its driving me crazy. ditch my love for someone new who i know it will work with and risk it or stay with the one i 'love' please help!

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My lover told me hi loves me and his wife ,but i dont think thats possible. one had to be love and the other obssesion.I think am the obssesion

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I don't think it's possible to love two people at the same time

WHY?

co's you will find your self telling all sorts of lies, acting in strange manners behaving Immaturely and doing all sorts of nasty things just to keep you so called affair Secrete which i don't think is proper.

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well u cant love two people at the same time

u can love one more and probably like the other a lot

and no matter what u see in both of them, if u had to choose u would.

the only exception when it comes to loving to people might be ur parents. Most people would never pick between their father and mother.

but alot of people can definately pick between two lovers

if not no one would ever get married

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In my opinion, Not possible, you could be in love with one and be duluded that you feel the same about the other, or simply in love with one and in lust with the other!

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yes, it is possible but you will definitely love one than the other. But to love them equally, it is not possible.

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There's nothing like being in love with two people at the same time, you are in love with one person and one person alone.

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yeh i guess u can luv 2 people @ da same time but u cant luv dem equally

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Y'all have no right to smell. I am the only smeller here. Remember?

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I smell same.

Lizzy plz i'll luv to be the ring bearer.

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You can't love two people at the same time,u can care about someone and that doesnt mean u are in love with that person because there's a wide difference between the two.

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Mba oo. means No!

You can't. "Impossicant"

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loving two people at a time, i will say it's underprobability.

and one must have a reason for that.

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Of course u can love 1 billion ppl depending on what u see as love. But when u talkin of the intimate kind of love. It'll be confusing and taskin to try to love more than 1 person.

If u can love 2 ppl @ diferent times. U can love them at the same time.

Can u? - Yes

Should u? - No

"Let ur head rule ur heart cos we see thru d head."

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SO this isn't just me. Gina?? Who is nonye?

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its not possible 4 me 2 luv 2 people at a time because one might b real luv and d other lust or infatuation which brings out cheating on d twoso nits beta u luv one and leave d other to find his luvas u found urs

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i don't think it is possible falling in love with 2 people,there must be one which u will love more than the other so bail yourself by going for that one .But the problem is are sure that person u love most really love you >>>>>>>>Reply to that will shed more light

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U don't know what it means for ur liver to fail u?

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His liver has failed him.too bad

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come out here lol..and explain..i mean tali tali

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where's the guy that speaks in parables?

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ok..we no speak parabi aight..say in full sentences lol

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tali tali is tryna confuse us. He was the one who spoke in parables..we were waiting for him to explain is prabic language...but then he's twisting it arround us.

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