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Can You Love Somebody Without Trust?

Ok, My friend and i had this arguement, her mother actually advised her never to trust anyman and she has taken it into her relationships. She claims to love her present boyfriend but is not silly enough to trust him.

I mean isn't trust essential to a relationship especially when love is involved?

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That is if either of them expresses doubt on the other.

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Yes, you can love someone without trusting them. If y'all break up after a hurtful relationship, you can decide not to trust again, then quit the relationship but you can still love the person. However, love without trust can go wane at some point.

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Now lets put it this way, u love someone and u trust him or her. You dont checkmate or try to investigate.

You found him or her cheating, then whats the use of trusting in the first place? is it just for the sake of expressing love?

As for me, I can love a girl without trusting her, however I will never show that sign of untrustworthiness towards her, but deep inside of my heart, I'll have the feeling that as human, she can always Bleep up, so if any Bleep up comes in, I sure would know how to handle my heartbreak.

It is those that can fully trust their partners that commits suicide when they find out that their lover is cheating.

@poster, yes very possible, you can love some1 without trusting them, but dnt ever ever express urself that u dnt trust them, just hv that in ur heart.

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'No trust, no love'. You can not claim to love when you do not trust your spouse. Once you love him/her, you subconsciously trust him/her.

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@ topic.

Yes u can love witout trust. I did it and it failed me. I'm still doing it and its still failing. But i don't care, i'm still loving

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Hw can u admit that you truly love some1, without trusting him/her? It is just impossible! What I can only advise d lady is that, do not LUV with both eyes closed, or TRUST with both halves of your heart. Always reserve an 'atomic' space 4 'Bleep- ups'. Humans will always be 'human'.

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UR RIGHT MEN

NO LOVE, NO TRUST

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Can you build a house without a foundation??

No!

I believe trust begat love,so in my own opinion:

No!

No Trust,No Love!

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i can never give my trust to somebody even my husband no way,

cos trust is the only thing that make one to go crazy when the other partner forseek your love u will go mad honestly speaking

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bibi4u are we talking here about TRUST or TRUTH? Man u seem to be abit TWISTED.

yes oooooooo, the girl herself is TWISTED by are mum so make we help her to

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i think she should ask are mother if she does not truth her dad, cos there is no such thing like love without truth

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poor girl! she really don't know what she stand to loss at the end. her mother help her sow a seed of broken relationship and marriage. i hope she realizes it in time to turn the clock around for the better.

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I can't, both are tied and connected

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hotangel abeg jam me up one hi five biko. u have trully separated the sand from the garri.

look yemstar your friend needs to re-evaluate, reclassify what she feels for her BF. because as hotangel said she LOVES him but she aint IN LOVE with him thats why she cant trust him. and if she cant trust him then they could as well be buddies with benefits thats if there are benefits in the relationship they have.

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Complicated. Very very.

I think your friend Could love her boyfriend without trusting him. But she can't be 'in love' with him, and say she doesn't trust him.

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