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Can You Marry a Blind Man or Woman?

is love really blind? can u marry a blind man/woman to be realistic

we have all watched the nigerian movie called real love but to be realistic can u really marry a blind man or a blind woman.

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err this one take style hard o.

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no wahala as long as him no where to put him thing

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What's wrong with you all. I've got onchocerciasis and in less than three years, I'll be blind. Are y'all saying nothing for me.

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Possibly, so far as their is love b/w.

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easy to say, had to do

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I think we all have to take a step back and do not base very important decisions just on the physical characteristics. As long as there is love, I don't see anything wrong with being involved (love, romance, whatever) with someone with physical limitations, what ever the limitations may be. OTOH, what if for some unfortunate reason, your fully capable significant other becomes physically incapacitated (blindness, paralyzed, etc.), are you going to move on just because of that? Common my people, there is more to this life than physical characteristics. And, we need to be able to look beyond that. There are no guarantees in this life. Anyone can get stricken with anything at anytime. Yes, we all pray that we do not experience it. But, the possibility is there. and we have to understand and be able to live with it.

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when it comes to love, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!

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the problem i will have is not is bliness, the problem i will have is that how am i sure he loves me

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I like this topic, it's so realistic. but the question is what if you find ourself in that positon. what will you do ?

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just say no one wishes for a blind person

but you don't know wat love can do

there r some blind people in the world right now that having a better seeing sense that those who can see

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i dont see anything wrong with getting married to a blind person c they r all god's creature n if u do trust in god he may hell ur husband/wife

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i know blind ppl r God's creature. But man, I would be scared to marry such a person. May be am selfish...

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Would u? forget the blabing and too much philosophy in this room, when it comes down to it, people go run, we all know it.....People who tried is made name in the news cos it is very very unusual..come one u know it. Also giving her some kid, loving her, sending my hard earned pay cheque and even sleeping with her is a great gift that most people cant. Also i am promising to take care of the kids and other things....

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Just because someone is blind doesn't mean they are less 'human' than you. Why would you think no body will want a blind person ?

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Not at all. she needs a child..not body wants her. I am bring both the money and the kid and the love..so what is bad about it?

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you can't be serious, you should be ashamed of yourself for posting this

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The greatest gift i could give to a blind woman is to pregnant her by the side and send her weekly or monthly pay cheque Pls visit her when I have time to see how she is doing. Help pay the child's expense. spend time with the kid only when I have the time and feel like it.

If you talk about having her as my only one, that is improbable due to my sociatal standard. I will not even go out with her. I will not tell people she is girl friend by the side. Period. If this offer is not enough for her then, I am sorry, I cant help

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well, there are many type of blindness... so I would know the one shes having before I even try to woo her.........heeheee

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from my findings, most married people did not end up marrying the ideal Mr/miss. Right that their minds have always pictured. People fall in love in different platforms; some at first sight, others with constant interaction with a friend of opposite sex, they just c compatibility in lots of things n fall in love. u can never say, that ur blind friend that u talk with could end up being ur hubby, n u'll be the one insisting to your parents to accept her even to the extent of threats

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funny! funny!! funny!!!

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@disney its not that GOD or no GOD everyone knows what u just but do u pray to marry a blind man?i think no so it's better to pray for someone u know u want to marry and GOD KNOWS WATS BEST FOR U AND WAT U CAN HANDLE

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Hey all make sure u only read this and laugh..if u know a blind person and discuss this with her/him.....the person go die....Atleast am sure a blind person is not reading this

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see ehnn.. If it was like, I married him with two eyes.. but after the marriage summin happened and he lost his sight and blah blah. I will stay with him. But for me to date, marry a blind man? Come on now!

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@ IAH u such a funny girl.How i wish some 1 is here to laugh wit me.

Well, it all depends

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I dont see anything bad in that since we all are God's creature.I've seen/heard of so many pple dt ends up with a blind man/woman,it takes the help of God. Wat really matters in a relationship is to love and be loved.

As for me,to say nothing but the truth, i cant stand it. I can not marry a blind man. (But i'll never say never cos we never can tell though i aint praying 4 such.)

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If i am rich..I dont see why not? Might marry a blind girl ........If God calls u to marry one.. u have to obey..God is good

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True love HMMM- when i love someone, i love them with every fiber of my being. So yes i can marry a blind/disabled man.

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Either blind or maim, they are God's creatures and humans like us.

If I find one who loves me and who I love, why not?

I will marry her for real.

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i really love this topic, like some1 Sed earlier, wat about those ones who have physical disability apart frm eye problems, i bet most guys in the house re saying the opposite of wat they would do.do u know having peeps like that as life partner simply means loving him/her for who & wat he/ she is..

well I've not really voiced my opinion, I'd be back

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In as much as i'd love to say.. "Of course i can marry a blind man.. as long as i love him".. i just can't help but say the truth and that is NO! I don't want.

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A female blind lady is likley to get a guy than a male blind man..this is just the truth...

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who told you i'm been fooled.

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Like i said b4,i can marry a blind man if da luv is there.

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Marriage = 1 burden

Blind Wife = Another burden

Mba!!!!

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@mckaycee which brother ??

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nana you are sharing my 2nd guy-name.

well, that is by-the-way,

ask that brother that question, may be he was expecting Agbani Darego in the house of God.

If a blind woman will give me a peaceful and happy home, she is welcome.

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I can too, that's what love is all about.

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Hi,

we are talking about blind people here.

But what about others with physical problems?

For example deaf People, People in wheelchair.

Would anyone marry a person under such circumstances?

Ive met several people in my life, that are deaf and i almost fell in love with a deaf guy! He was nice and caring - only that he had a girl already (im not kidding!)

I even know a deaf teacher of Gallaudet University (USA), its a school only for deaf people..

So i cant expect your answers..

greetz

Fumi

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lets be realistic man,wot if ur partner goes blind after ur wedding,wot then will u do?

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What do u think is love? Love is pain...so u mean that pain is really what matters.

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it is no big deal marrying a blind man moreover,love is all that matters.

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I remember this story an Evangelist said in our church one day.

He narrated, "One day a brother in one church fasted for seven days and asked God to show him his wife. And that the sign God should give him will be the first female member that enters the church on the last day of his fasting and prayers.

So, on that last day, after praying, He just relaxed inside the church and was waiting for the sign.

Lo and behold the first female that entered was a blind woman. The first thing that came out of the brother's mouth was "God if it were a joke stop it"

I no fit answer jare!

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Hey Monister, marrying a blind girl alone is not enough for u? Would u marry a blind man? When I said i will keep her up to date, what do u think I meant by that? ..foolish one indeed...

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so u are not marrying her because u love her... only because she can have children and make u famous.... that's just sad...

monister

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I've not watched the movie. But I'd prefer someone who can see for herself. I've got nothing against blind people, just don't think i could live with.

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I will marry a blind girl if she can give birth to healthy children with good eye site...I will marry her ......I will work had and keep her up to date....Things like this makes people famous and I want to be famous by doing unusual stuff.....

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