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Can You Marry A Nija Girl, You Met Online?

Gudday All,

Can you marry a nija girl, you met online? if yes what and what do you need to know?

My friend met one 10months ago, now he wants his ppl to perform all traditional rights, so she can join him abroad.

But he is worried if it is right to marry a Nigerian online and if he is missing out something.

What is your take?

Thank you

Gnexplore

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When you say online, what kind of online? Did you meet her on a Indecency side? if not then get to know her and why? yes, i

will marry one and I am about to marry one. [/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

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Only on the condition that your friend has met this girl one on one, studied her and she has studied him too and they are both sure this is what they want.

If that is the case, where they met doesn't really matter. But if they've never met, if it has always been an internet thing, then, I wouldn't advice this.

Pictures, mails and phone calls could be deceptive. They can never be as thorough as meeting one on one.

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tell your friend to Fly down to nigeria to see his wife face to face ,but no big deal on marry with a girl u meet online i met my girl online and we are about to marry soon.

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While it's okay to do. Tell your friend to watch out! The lady may just need a way to get out of Nigeria!They are talking marriage just 10 months after meeting. Has he even seen this lady before?

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thoniaslim,your response was just too harsh,we are adults and lets learn how to respect each other,this is an open forum and nothing wrong with the questions.thanks as you obey.seun please take note

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U've seen each other,study each other and love each other so then go ahead. . .

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There is nothing wrong with dat ok, tell ur friend to go ahead with the traditional rite as long as he love her and his people do too.

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It is not safe for him to have only dated online without thorough investigation or not have idea about her life style here.....So beware of desperadoes who can do anybody!

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I met this muti-talented girl on the net, and it seemed as if I coud think of nothing else. I had to travel a great distance just to meet her thinking it could help me clear my mind, but i ended up being more confused than i was before I left. Five years down the line, it has been an interesting time.

You can actually marry someone you met online, but at some point you have to meet physically to be sure that the person is for real, and that the electricity between the two of you is not just an attraction to danger. Pictures and calls are not enough. Na naija we dey and anything is possible if you believe.

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If he's prepared to stake his whole life,he can go ahead and get married to this internet-woman.Its sounds exciting seeing that actually happening.

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'nwando' you are absolutely right at least he should meet her first before marrying her.

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good for you dear,at least you met before the marriage

The person in question at this thread wants to marry before meeting.

how bizarre is that?

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'nwando ' its not how you met the person but how well it all ends. My husband treats me like a queen, the naija guy I was dating for 4 years before I got married sent me to the hospital twice for skull x-ray (beat me up, mercilessly) because of jealousy.

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really?

you people are brave o

but I can see how that can happen.

see here on nairaland,there are clicks

so it's not difficult to fall in love with someone before seeing them

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I also got married to the man I met on line. We have been happily married for two years now but we met face to face.

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