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Can You Marry An Ex Prostitute?

Guys you really need to think before answering this one- can you marry a lady who used to be a prostitute but has now decided to quit prostitution and is like the best lady you have ever met- treats you well, the best cook you can imagine, etc? I know some aristo-chics and prostitutes those days in school who are now happily married; though i dont know if their husbands are aware of their past lifestyle.

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who do you really tag as a prostitute?

A lady who rents a room to entertain men for pay? Or

A lady who travels from her school in benin to see a married senator in abuja? Or

A lady who's had 50 sexually-active boyfriend-girlfriend relationships?

The truth is that, there's a thing line between a prostitute and a lady on the street. If we're to tag ladies as prostitutes according to how active their sex.ual life is, then most girls(up to 80%) will be tagged as prostitutes. This means that there's a probabilty of a man getting married to a prostitute is around is 4:5 (i.e you'll find an average of 4 prostitutes among 5 ladies in any given time)

My take: The past doesn't exist. It is lost. If you can't love a lady for the things you know about her, forget about it. You aint realistic. We are all humans, prone to mistakes and learning, you only become perfect when you love people despite their flaws, arrogance, pasts and selfishness. Love makes the both of you whole, as a complete unit. 1.

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In those days u will never see a lady who's only one man sleep with her, sequel to that all girls were Ashawo's b4 they marry. The answer to ur questions is YES I will definitely marry her. Gbam!!!!!!!!!

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In those days u will never see a lady who's only one man sleep with her, sequel to that all girls were Ashawo's b4 they marry.

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Hhaha True words,

But ho do you tell prostitutes these days, somegurls HOOK with their Mobile BB, 2gO CHAT ROOM, Facebook, men , a girl does not need to walk at night in tha redlight or stay in a brothel to be label a prostitutes these days, Ok,

Our generation is in trouble , ooo

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Let the holy spirit direct you lest you fall into error.

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6 years ke? Abeg o! But a more important question is will your family allow it?

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Everyone desrves a second chance & after salvation there is NO PAST. If certified medically okay,& i love her, then i can.x

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Yes, I could. I wouldn't go out of my way to actively search for a prostitute, but if I got to know a lady, and later found out she used to be a prostitute, then yes, I'd still go ahead and marry her.

There are worse crimes / professions than prostitution, but folk tend to overlook them. Like murder.

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it will be very difficult for me. even thogh i might love her, that thought of her banging sme1 wont leave my head

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I can't help but wonder if the men in here are being truly honest or if this is a below the belt way of bashing women.

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Am not a womanizer; so if am to get married, I would settle down with a girl with dignity and not some dirty ex-prostitute who claims she is no longer in the business.

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Well, It depend on the person involved,

Once alll test 2 all diseaes proves negative, and we truly love each other, i belive i will marry her.

For we dont leave by the past, though the past matas.

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lol @ lancaster

@ topic, of course i can if she changes her way

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if she told me early and i love her, i will marry her noboy is above mistake

i will count it as her mistake.

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yes ,i can do that ,are we not all prostitutes just because these ones publicise theirs dont make them any worse

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guys in the house can you just tell the difference between a prostitute and a normal girl. to

me prostitute is even better because they take care of them self without condom you can not

sleep with them, but all those girl outside there own worse pass prostitute. my guy prostitute

better than by far,

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unless i dont know before i marry her if not why should i marry former public hole, what if she still have the zeal

to taken anybody that can offer some naira.

maybe i go pose with children wey come from different papa.

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Men this is a deep question,

come to think of it most of the babes that we marry have sex with plenty plenty men but the only difference is that they dont collect money up front!    I think I myself hhhm if she has repented, if she is safe, if she is still in good shape mentally and physically . then I would hope that could marry her

being honest if any girl tells me that she was a prostitute before i fall in love with her I will definetely leave her but if i have already fallen in love then It is a possibility.

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Men this is a deep question,

come to think of it most of the babes that we marry have sex with plenty plenty men but the only difference is that they dont collect money up front! I think I myself hhhm if she has repented, if she is safe, if she is still in good shape mentally and physically . then I would hope that could marry her

being honest if any girl tells me that she was a prostitute before i fall in love with her I will definetely leave her but if i have already fallen in love then It is a possibility.

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I know fit marry am o. Thats why I no dey follow those benin girls wey dey land for here now. Most of dem na Italo returnees. Betta gals still dey for man to choose from

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i no fit o if i knew because greed and overambition not poverty drove some girls into prostitution and come to think of all d different men wey don enter

haba nooo

if i didnt know well fine and good, but God help her let me not discover 1 day

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a real true sister makes the best wife; but the so called sister- at least you know she is an hypocrite, what else do u expect? well we all have a past; some good, some bad, but the past should be the past shikena

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yeah,if she's a changed person and i love her,there's nothing bad in marrying her

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prostitute written on her fore-head no way, but if otherwise then bring her on.

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We all do crazy things for a reason, am sure she had hers, and now she has decided to give it up. Anyone deserves a second chance. But make sure you move well away from the area she's known as a prostitute.

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WHAAAAAAAAAAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OOHHH, HELL NO.

She dont deserve me. Unless of course,

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Who is a prostitute?

Any girl or lady here above 24 who has not slept with more than one man raise your leg oops hand up. Some prostitute make better wife cuase they been there, seen it all. Lifes just like a Kitty-Cat Bleep it and feel good cause tmorrow yea diet.

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and have what ? Demons for kids?

nah!

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I have nothing against prostitutes. They provide a valuable service to society.

But I can't marry a prostitute because I've been chaste. (Playas should be willing to marry prostitutes)

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WHAT THE EYES DOSN'T SEE THE  MIND DOESN'T  GRIEVE ABOUT. if I no  know na different story, if I know, LAI LAI I NO GO MARRY AM.

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nothing wrong in marring a pro.

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This is a funny question. Why won't I marry her. What's wrong with her. Is it because she slept with several men?Oh come off it. Who is a prostitute? Someone who sleeps with men for monetary reward. Haven't you seen ladies out there who won't make love to their lovers "sometimes" without a financial inducement?

What about those who will even cheat on their boyfriends by sleeping with other men [including their pal best friends] for financial reward. How would you describe those ones? Aren't they all prostitute?

Ok, let me put it this way. You wanna tell me you've never heard or seen a married woman who sleeps around with other men just to be a able to feed her family and send kids to school? Isn't she a prostitute?

Please for God's sake, if an ex prostitute repents of her sins, forsake her past and embrace God, she's just like every other good lady out there. Some of them are even better than some hypocritical Church pretenders who would hide under the clutch of the Church to do havoc.

I would rather marry an ex prostitute who has change, than settling with a CHARLATAN.

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wats the difference between an ex prostitute and a normal lady. some girls that are not prostitute does more than wat a prostitute do. so wats the big deal.

if i were a guy i will marry her 100 times. she can be a better wife than any other lady out there.

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yes i can . God forgives so who am i ,,but thats after we do a check up

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Honestly speaking i don't think i could, if i found out about her past life. It'll be hard but i don't think i'lld be able to live with her having that thought at the back of my mind

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Dont think the husbands do and remember some of them "jazzz" the guy into marriage

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